Termyn8or
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The article doesn't say much about what he actually did.
Your question was how do we protect the community. Well this is a very decadent society, the supreme court has ruled that they do not have to protect people and sometimes rules that people can't protect themselves. Otherwise they would overturn every gun law ever made.
The only solution is for people to protect themself.
This brings up many problems for people who play the BDSM game. How do you protect yourself when you are bound so tightly you can't even go to the bathroom ? When you meet someone new you simply don't know. It is a dangerous game.
The article said nothing about his career as a serial killer. But involving BDSM is another black eye for us. In fact to be true about it, maybe he was kinky, but just a little too kinky.
Now that is a bit scary. For most people, death is a hard limit, it also has a negative impact on the longevity of the relationship of course. I met a girl on IRC who wanted to cut me up. I am not into that but we bandied it back and forth. She didn't want to really hurt me, but using a knife she would cut me and the scars would be like an artform.
I guess I can understand that, it takes all kinds, and we got em. But I would no doubt be restrained during this. Now we have someone who might be a crazy Woman, and has confided in me that she was sexually abused. I doubt a Woman sexually abused her.
The way it added up, I turned her down. I mean if you are telling me that you want to tie me up and cut me up, what AREN'T you telling me ? But then we can't psychoanalyze everyone we meet.
So we walk the line.There is a risk.
You are probably aware that a couple of years ago a guy used this very website to exact revenge on his ex, got her raped. As I see it this is a very negative thing for our "scene". She had no membership, he posed as her and got one, and set it all up. Gave her personal info, address, work, schedule, all that. Personally I am glad the dickhead got busted. Perhaps Bubba is showing him what it feels like to get raped.
But when you play the game, anybody could be a nut. How can I prove to you that you can trust me with your life ? Think about it, there is always risk.
And the thing is some people really do want a rape scene. I originated the thread "How to tie a Man". I don't know if that is exactly what I would want, but I did muse about it, it's interesting.
Actually I think there is no choice, the risk will always be there. But you only live once. Y'know the word orgasm is derived from French and means "little death". Just try to avoid the big death I guess.
But one big shift in society, one which is much to my dismy, is the fact thatn people no long want to protect themselves. They want a government, a labor union, or some other association to protect them. This is not our way, or at least it is not my way. I see it as a gang mentality.
People forget, nobody owes you shit. Your safety is your own business, ultimately.Don't be stupid, I bet most people who die in these situation were stupid, one way or another. It could be an accident, but death is unacceptable. And if it was on purpose they failed to figure out the guy was a loon.
I guess the last word is - be careful out there.
T
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