Sinergy
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In my submissive women's group, we recently have had a discussion about respect. There are some women who believe that all people, regardless of who they are, deserve automatic and immediate respect. I disagree. Hello, I have issues with the word "deserve" in this statement. Im not sure anybody technically "deserves" anything. Life, as Douglas Adams once wrote, is a WSOGMM, or Whole Sort Of General MishMash, and one has little control over the hand one is dealt and there may/may not be any meaning or reason for any of it. On the other hand, I trained for years from a martial arts instructor who was one of the kindest, softest voiced, strongest willed, respectful individuals it has been an honor to know, and I try to pattern my own personal behavior on his. He never showed the slightest disrespect to anybody, even argumentative, belligerent dumb-asses walking in to show off and prove that their 6 week study of Hu Flung Doo at the YMCA made them a better martial artist than somebody who had been doing it from the age of 6 in Korea. I give people respect not because I think they do (or dont) deserve it, I give people respect because it makes me feel good inside to do so. Could be wrong, but there you go. Sinergy
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