soul2share -> RE: Would you be offended? (5/25/2008 4:07:40 PM)
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Well, you could always do what I do. When I borrow my friend's car for errands I can't run on my scooter, I just leave money for gas in the car in a little cubby. She tells me that I don't have to foot the bill for gas, but it costs her at least $40 to fill her tank, she has an Aveo, and she does it twice a week due to the distance she drives in for work. I just tell her the gas fairy must have left it! Of course, when I have the car, sometimes I'll put gas in it, it's already a done deal.....what's she gonna do, siphon it out? Make the offer......but if he refuses the $$$ for gas, don't make a huge deal out of it. Make the offer in passing, toss it out there for consideration, and accept his answer. I myself will pay for dinner and stuff sometimes...if the other party I'm with insists on paying for dinner, I leave a pretty good tip. Personally, I can't see where you making the offer to pay for gas would be a big deal. Worse comes to worse....swipe the car, put gas in it, and well, see above! The suggestion about cooking him his favorite dinner, or a good wine for him sounds good also.
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