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slavegirljoy -> RE: ~~A question for the sake of asking~~ (5/29/2008 10:20:27 AM)
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
How's THAT for an image of "Domliness" playing scrabble and crying like a girl...LOL!
To me, Intimacy = being vulnerable with another = exposing your feelings = opening yourself up and sharing yourself with them & 'letting them in', at the risk of being hurt. It takes a strong person to do that, in my opinion.
The strongest men i have ever known and respected have cried in front of me. Being honest enough to show genuine feelings in front of another person doesn't make them less Dominant, in my eyes. Also, having the desire to be a part of a family and playing board games doesn't make them less Dominant, in my eyes.
Not having to put up a 'manly' facade, in order to be treated like a man, is something i consider to be a very strong quality in a man.
Many men seem to be so fearful of being ridiculed or rejected, if they dare show their 'softer side', their 'human side', that they never really allow another to get close enough to them to see them for who they really are. They keep them at arm's length and never really experience intimacy. They miss out on making that connection with another.
Being comfortable enough and self-assured enough to be himself and expose his vulnerabilities in front of me, is something i look for in a Dominant man.
BTW, Scrabble is a very good game but, my Master prefer playing Monopoly with me.
joy
Owned servant of Master David
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