Padriag -> RE: Worth waiting or not (10/25/2005 2:54:15 PM)
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ORIGINAL: ropesubby39 I have been discussing with a friend who is a sub and she has been dealing with very impatient Doms. So here's my question to All the Doms/Dommes. If You know that the sub is a good sub, but is really busy in her professional life, is she worth waiting for? If so, how long would the wait be??? ropesubby I agree with what several have already said and will add this. Generally I will be patient with anyone who I think is doing their best. If for example she has made it clear she wants to pursue a relationship but has a lot to deal with right now, so long as I can see that she is doing her best to work towards that relationship then I can be patient. There is no specific time limit on that, it depends entirely on her behavior. If its a case of, she would like a relationship eventually (but not specifically one with me, that's just a possibility) then I will be patient to a point. But if something better comes along I will almost certainly choose someone else. That is if she has made and kept no commitment to me, then I will not make any commitment to her... if things work out anyway, that's fine but she's taking a gamble. Overall I look at where her priorities seem to be... if they are ultimately on a relationship with me I'll invest a lot... but if her priorities are elsewhere she can't expect to be one of my top priorities either. You get what you give. Most impatient doms, in my opinion, are either inexperienced, immature, or just out for sex. The experienced, mature dom will be patient because he also has standards he will not compromise and not just anyone will fit those standards, for those that do some patience is worthwhile.
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