ftmboyfag
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Switching really depends on the person you have a relationship with. I think my past three relationships(including my present one) are perfect examples. 1) B, a Dom who brought out my subbiness for the first time. Most of the time I bottomed to him, though we definitely had a lot of fun with me on top(though sometimes I bottomed from the top). Most of the time when we got kinky he was on top. He once ordered me to spank him and I was overwhelmed with a feeling of wrongness and couldn't finish. 2) M, a boyfriend who I never estabilished a formal bdsm relationship with. M and I switched often and each of use did eveything to the other, though I would mostly be the first to suggest new kinky things. Sometimes we would focus on one set of roles for that time, or switch once or several times during the act. 3) D, my current submissive boyfriend. With him, it's just assumed that I would be topping. I'm very new to this, since I always assumed I was more of a bottom, but he seems to be happy with what I'm doing. I'm surprised at hom much I like it, too. The only time D is on top is to get off, sinc ehe has an easier time doing it that way. Even then he's mentally bottoming since I tell him to do it. So all are good! It's all sex It's all love :3
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Happy novice top to D! :3
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