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Sugardaddies? - 6/1/2008 7:10:33 PM   
pinksugarsub


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Status: offline 		A Man recently offered to be my sugardaddy:   He offered me $5k a month to meet him once a week for an afternoon, and said he didn't care what i did wih the money.
 
i ended up turning down his offer; it just felt hinky.  i wondered if maybe there was some sort of fetish in which a Man wants or needs to give away money of this amount....but i also wondered if he wanted something so terrible he had to pay for it.....or if he was a cop, checking to see if i'd prostitute myself....or just wtf was going on.
 
A/anyone have any experience with this kind of thing?
 
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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/1/2008 7:24:07 PM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		5k for one meeting? Don't mean to be cynical, but something's up with that.

More than likely, he's the type that likes to make huge offers, and then never deliver. :)


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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/1/2008 7:25:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		It is not prostitution unless you are offering sex 

It would seem a bit bizarre.... though I would want to to know exactly what he was expecting in return.... it could be he enjoys financial domination as his kink


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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/1/2008 7:37:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		  It was a bit shady, 'cause, well, that's basically prostitution. If he was a man you were normally interested in, then it's possible that he does get off on financially supporting you. My master actually got propositioned by a male sub who wanted to pay for my master and I to go out and have fun...I guess this would be pretty similar. However, chance is good that he's someone you would never play with, and also that he'll expect you to break limits because he's paying you a hell of a lot for you to do it.

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 7:22:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		You'd be a pro sub.  I've known them.  They are no different from the femdoms. 
He probably just didn't want his wife to know a lot of people who have affairs would put
you up in an apartment..etc to keep you happy and quiet.

Although just meeting you...who knows.  He has no connection to you at all.  You were right turning him down.

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 9:19:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

A Man recently offered to be my sugardaddy:   He offered me $5k a month to meet him once a week for an afternoon, and said he didn't care what i did wih the money.
 
i ended up turning down his offer; it just felt hinky.  i wondered if maybe there was some sort of fetish in which a Man wants or needs to give away money of this amount....but i also wondered if he wanted something so terrible he had to pay for it.....or if he was a cop, checking to see if i'd prostitute myself....or just wtf was going on.
 
A/anyone have any experience with this kind of thing?
 
pinksugarsub


Uh, could you send him my way please?

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 10:24:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		There are lots of websites devoted to dating "sugardaddies" and "sugarmommas". 

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 10:45:56 AM   
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Bear in mind it depends on his personal financial position pink. If you've got Bill Gates's resources (or even a %ge of that) your regular income is far more than you can spend. So lots of people give to charity.

What sounds a lot to us - maybe a month's pay - can be just a small drop in a growing pool of money for some.

A friend of mine had a client who just wanted to take her shopping; he spent the afternoon with her while she shopped, clocking up around £1,000 or so of clothes (she rather decently was restrained in what she spent), and her client felt fully satisfied - no direct sex, just the thrill of taking her shopping.

So if you're hot and he's wealthy, it's just part of life's rich pattern. Why not enjoy (with some sensible safeguards) and take pride in knowing that in a way you're doing fine charitable work.

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 11:12:16 AM   
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5k for one meeting? Don't mean to be cynical, but something's up with that.

More than likely, he's the type that likes to make huge offers, and then never deliver. :)



$5,000 per month to meet once a week is $1000-1,250 per week.  If an afternoon is 4-5 hours, that is $200 to $315 per hour.  Since most independent pro-subs are $400-600 per hour, that's a bargain.  But it borders on prostitution.  One of my favorites is BebeDoll... www.bebedoll.net

Financial domination is definitely something people are into. 

Or it could be that this person likes you and wants to help you.

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 11:56:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		Wee, I'm an idiot and read it as 5k for one meeting a month.

Does he want sex? That'd be the deciding factor for me, just because I've made the decision not to screw anyone, but you really do want to screen people carefully. You could have someone drive you and hang out in the area while you are visiting, perhaps pay him like 50$. You could also arrange a safe call, or ask for references. I wouldn't count on the references though.

There's a definite niche for pro-subs, and many men want to pay a girl that's "Not a professional"

I'm not sure on the difference it makes, but whatever floats your boat I suppose. :P


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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 12:17:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Depending on what his game was I'd do it.  I got over 3 k in debt to pay and I'm not making enough now as it is, plus I need 2 k for my share of a move.

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 2:58:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'll do it for $4500.

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 4:21:45 PM   
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I'll do it for $4500.


I second that!

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 4:23:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		the first day im offered that kind of money...i'd be straight.

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 5:15:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		For that kind of money I'd be almost anything they wanted me to be.

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 5:28:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		You had misgivings and acted on them, which I commend you for.  No amount of money is worth doing something that you are not comfortable with, or that puts you into an unwanted situation.  I'm sure you wouldn't have had those misgivings if the relationship had developed toward such an arrangement rather than being sprung on you like som sort of Let's Make a Deal.  Though I could just be making silly assumptions about that.

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 5:29:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		Umm...No offense Calichick!  My response was made after reading her post.  I hadn't yet read yours!  I bet if you are real nice to pinksugarysub, she'll forward your contact info to this guy :)  psst...I'd recommend offering her chocolates..

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/2/2008 6:51:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		You didn't get far enough into the conversation to know what he actually expected of you, then my guess is that the guy wasn't real at all to start with.

Are there generous gentlemen out there who enjoy that sort of kink and company?  Absolutely.  But most of the ones who talk about it really don't walk about it.

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/3/2008 1:11:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: clearlightblack

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

I'll do it for $4500.


I second that!

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

For that kind of money I'd be almost anything they wanted me to be.

Cali
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And your phone numbers are ...... ?     

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RE: Sugardaddies? - 6/3/2008 3:56:21 AM   
Racquelle


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Status: offline 		I have a friend I meet fairly often - we get together, watch some porn, fuck a little, then he asks me to go out shoe shopping, hands me cash, and expects me to model the shoes next time I see him.  He has a thing for my ultrafem appearance, and he's happy to support its upkeep.  For many men, sharing what they have worked hard to earn is a way of showing appreciation - it is more emotional than we give it credit for.  That said, I have a lot of flighty men offer me untold sums for this or that almost from the moment we start talking - while the fantasy of having all my needs met is great, I take all such offers with a healthy skepticism.  And I certainly wouldn't enter into such an arrangement lightly.  My time and my talents are surely worth the money.  Getting paid for what we love to do is what I call fortunate - not something to be sneered at.

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