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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/3/2008 2:46:07 PM   
masterdstar


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LOL Sorry..............................maybe get a dog? More loyal :- m)
Perhaps it would be better to see what happens if you get a slave!?
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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/8/2008 12:20:32 PM   
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DUDE, I would say you have either one of three options.
1) Give her what she wants and let her have the master and sex with him.
2) Give her what she wants, but make her get it from you - come home with a whip and flog the holy crap out of her and make her say "I'm sorry master, I'll never do it again."
3) Don't give her what she wants and divorce her.

< Message edited by impossiblesub -- 6/8/2008 12:25:10 PM >

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/8/2008 1:39:51 PM   
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all i know is, a decent Dominant dealing with a married woman is going to want to talk extensively with *both* members of the marriage. there are of course not-so-decent Dominants who'd be happy to get a sub/slave for "free" while the husband takes care of domestic business. then again, there are completely indecent wives who will cheat on their husbands any way they can.
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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/8/2008 1:44:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Padriag

quote:

ORIGINAL: MAllan8958

Any advice would be helpful.

Alright Gladys... just remember you asked for this.

I can't make up my mind whether you're possibly the biggest moron I've ever met, or just some humiliation junky who decided being cuckolded wasn't enough he had to go get himself a big heaping helping of public denigration on the side. But given that you've gone to the trouble of posting a profile in which you present yourself as a budding submissive... I'm gonna go with the later.

So you want your humiliation, too bad, you'll have to find it from someone else because I'm just fresh out. Next time you want to post, get honest and save everyone else here who have busy lives from wasting their time with advice you never really wanted. Should you get a mistress... be real, you're not asking for advice, you're asking to be told what to do, to have the decision you've already made validated. Do I look like I validate parking? Get a grip on your pair and make a choice, take at least enough responsibility for your own life to make your own decisions. You want a mistress, go find one.. don't like the way your marriage has turned out... get a lawyer. Either way, take your need for your humiliation fix and self promption back to your profile where it belongs.

I'd wish you luck out there newbie... but frankly I think whoever ends up babysitting you is the one who'll need the luck.


Two pages in and I'm done with this thread. Padriag summed it up, and there isn't more that needs to be said. But in the true spirit of this board, where we all chime in just because we can't believe this is really happening, I'll chime in, too, just to keep a dead thread alive...

And Padriag - beautiful post, eloquent and to the point. And you STILL gave him what he wanted. But the insight was, I suspect, dead on. Thanks.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 6/8/2008 2:58:35 PM   
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quote:

So my question to the group is ... should I?

If you want to serve, get a Mistress.

What do you want to do?


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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/10/2008 7:30:57 AM   
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Good luck finding a mistress who'd be happy with what you're bringing to the table.  Sheesh.  

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/10/2008 8:15:19 AM   
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Yes! Get a Mistress-to help you kick HER ass out the door!

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/10/2008 12:39:11 PM   
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That's disappointing. I wanted to see the OP's profile and now it's gone. 

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/10/2008 3:05:44 PM   
Anoush


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May as well shut the troll gate behind him, then....

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/10/2008 4:20:59 PM   
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You don't need a Mistress.  You need a divorce lawyer.




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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/10/2008 5:27:52 PM   
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This sounds like a tragicomedy. 

I'm hoping you are just an attention getter.  If not, my sympathies.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/10/2008 5:29:54 PM   
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Not only is the great news for a divorce, it is likey with her sleeping with someone else you won't lose half your stuff.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/10/2008 5:51:03 PM   
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All I can say to the OP is..

I'm really sorry for your broken heart. I know how painful it must be. But don't get a mistress because you think it'll even it out because you don't want to divorce her because you'll be sad without her. Don't stay in your marriage under the "I'll take what I can get."

Broken hearts suck but c'est la vie.

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/10/2008 6:36:33 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Padriag

quote:

ORIGINAL: MAllan8958

Any advice would be helpful.

Alright Gladys... just remember you asked for this.

I can't make up my mind whether you're possibly the biggest moron I've ever met, or just some humiliation junky who decided being cuckolded wasn't enough he had to go get himself a big heaping helping of public denigration on the side.  But given that you've gone to the trouble of posting a profile in which you present yourself as a budding submissive... I'm gonna go with the later.

So you want your humiliation, too bad, you'll have to find it from someone else because I'm just fresh out.  Next time you want to post, get honest and save everyone else here who have busy lives from wasting their time with advice you never really wanted.  Should you get a mistress... be real, you're not asking for advice, you're asking to be told what to do, to have the decision you've already made validated.  Do I look like I validate parking?  Get a grip on your pair and make a choice, take at least enough responsibility for your own life to make your own decisions.  You want a mistress, go find one.. don't like the way your marriage has turned out... get a lawyer.  Either way, take your need for your humiliation fix and self promption back to your profile where it belongs.

I'd wish you luck out there newbie... but frankly I think whoever ends up babysitting you is the one who'll need the luck.


Oh my god, I think I'm in love!!! and btw, um....Mr. Padriag... I like humiliation... and I know it.

*swoons

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/12/2008 9:54:17 AM   
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WOW! You  seem like a very enlightened person. My suggestion is to explore and keep up the good work. The BDSM scene is in need of people like yourself!  

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/12/2008 10:34:15 AM   
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quote:

I found out on the weekend my wife has been collared by her Master. She says she loves me and that this is just a role for her, like community theatre. We've already had a few heated discussuions about this, because of the sex aspect. I'm not thrilled with another man having sex with my wife. She says it's meaningless sex and suggested perhaps I should get a Mistress.

So my question to the group is ... should I?

I'm very curious about the scene and I'm not sure I'd make a good sub, but again I'm really really curious.

Any advice would be helpful.


MAllan,

Methinks you know the course to take. How the hell does she get so far as her taking a master and you not know what is going on. Wake up and take back the reins, or send her packing to her "new" Master.

CP

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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/12/2008 10:41:56 AM   
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i think it's time to part ways.  she can have her meaningless sex, you can find someone who finds meaning in sex, then everyone's happy.
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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/22/2008 3:17:39 AM   
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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/22/2008 3:50:12 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: coupleowl

Not only is the great news for a divorce, it is likey with her sleeping with someone else you won't lose half your stuff.


Just what I was thinking!


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RE: My wife has been collared by a Master, should I get... - 7/22/2008 3:54:09 AM   
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Okay, so I haven't read through this thread and don't intend to but to the OP...

I do indeed wish you the very best in this most difficult of circumstances but the addition of "...community theatre." is entirely enjoyable on many different levels. 

Best of luck and have fun. 

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