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kiwisub12 -> RE: Topping a first timer (6/6/2008 7:29:23 PM)
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I came to my Sir so new as to have the cardboard box smell still on me.
He took me in and asked my preferences - i couldn't tell him - i didn't know what i liked and didn't like. I had no limits because i hadn't experienced anything. It was a little frustrating because i didn't know enough to know what i wanted.
My first scene he spanked me so hard with his hand i was bruised black and blue - and had a great time at work "accidentally" bumping into tables and doors, to make them hurt. It certainly didn't run me off - infact if he had taken it down a notch i would have been disappointed.
He has since told me that he doesn't take it down a notch, that he sees it as a form of dishonesty, in that, when the intensity goes up subs can be unpleasantly surprised. If the sub is to be with him, then there is a fair amount of pain that they need to be good with, and springing it on them months into a relationship is not a good idea.
Interestingly, there were a few times when i asked for more, because i didn't feel "finished", i felt as if i hadn't had enough to reach a certain point. Not necessarily subspace, but my body felt as if it wasn't complete. Very odd.
Full out intensity worked for me. It gave me the experience that i was wanting, even though i didn't know what i wanted. It might not work forevery one, but , equally, going slow won't work for everyone either.
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