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Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mistress - 6/5/2008 1:21:34 PM   
yurlittlebitch


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Status: offline 		Apparently i live in an area where there are not any Dom women who would be interested in a male slave who likes bbw with a strap on. The Ashville Craigslist dosn't even have any Adds with the words strap on in it. What would be the best way for me to find what i want and someone who would enjoy using me that way? I live in Western NC, and im only looking for an occasional power excange.  Im male 130 lbs, brown hair and blue eyes, and im starting to think i must be ugglier than i thought. lol,     It,s down right depressing.                Thanks, aNdy
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RE: Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mis... - 6/5/2008 1:28:19 PM   
JohnWarren


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ORIGINAL: yurlittlebitch

im starting to think i must be ugglier than i thought. lol,     It,s down right depressing.                Thanks, aNdy


The word is "igglier."

As for finding a dominant woman who likes a strap on have you investigated the groups that meet in your and surrounding states rather than depending on a single list.

Oh, you also might be sabotaging yourself with your self-chosen screen name

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RE: Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mis... - 6/5/2008 2:08:54 PM   
antipode


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Status: offline 		If you don't get responses, nobody is interested in you, or nobody is interested in you the way you present yourself. Try other sites. Try paysites (I can't believe the number of people who think just because they got a $200 PC at Walmart they can get something for nothing). Change your profile. Change your picture. Change your words. Change your mind.

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RE: Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mis... - 6/5/2008 2:16:11 PM   
SageFemmexx


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Status: offline 		Your profile says basically all you want to do is screw around on your wife without her knowing about it. Alot of people find that offensive.

Sage.

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RE: Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mis... - 6/5/2008 2:16:27 PM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		find yourself a man to fill the role then.

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RE: Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mis... - 6/5/2008 2:34:00 PM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		My advise is to run nakid through the shopping malls barking like a dog. That should get you attention.... If you don't get arrested or shot, you could take the time to search out the local scene and get along to munches and just meet people. Bloody hell if it's good enough for politicians to get amongst the great unwashed and poress the flesh then you as one of the grreat unwashed should be able to do the same.. I can't stress enough that meeting people, asking sensible questions and letting people get to know you is still the best way to find those who are either what you seek or who can help you....  Good luck mate and if you do do a nakid run through a shopping mall as peek period please post videos of your effort .. By the way if you care to contact me on the other side and give me your home addrtess I will be only too happy to let your wife know so she can have a ball too watching your efforts..

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< Message edited by IronBear -- 6/5/2008 2:41:17 PM >

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RE: Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mis... - 6/5/2008 3:28:09 PM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		I'd say pay a pro, but i don't think they are allowed to have sexual contact.


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RE: Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mis... - 6/5/2008 4:01:26 PM   
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RE: Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mis... - 6/5/2008 4:46:16 PM   
yurlittlebitch


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Status: offline 		Well thanks folks,  these are some good suggestions, and here are the ones I have tried.

Local yahoo groups with several profiles, all honest but varying depending on my mood. some steight and some bi. some too open and some conservative.

Im not truely interested in a man to fill the role, because I really prefer Dom women, and although I have been with a man in the past I didn't continue because I couldnt become aroused, and realized i didn't like it.

My wife introduced me to her strapon and we had a good time with it for several years, but as a result of surgury she pretty much lost interest.

Divorce, well hate me if you must for our diffrences in belief, but she honestly wants me to be happy in this regard, and unlike some conventional relationships this isn't a dealbreaker for us, but she dosn't want to be a part of it. We have been married for almost 20 years. 

Does anyone actually believe that there is some niche somewhere where i could be satified serving someone and being used in such a manner and satisfy them mutually on an occasional basis.

Im not opposed to paying for something, wether it be services or acces to a site, but honestly it seems like unless someone actually enjoys what they are doing enough to do it as a mutual experience then its all a scam anyway, and that just wouldn't feel the same.

hmmm... i am really stumped.   

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RE: Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mis... - 6/5/2008 5:39:16 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		First off, the odds are against you.  Way more sub males than Dommes out there.

That said, I'd recommend using a spell check - I know that bad spelling/grammar are a turnoff to many women.  Don't say you're married in your last sentence - begin right out by stating that you're in an open marriage.

Leave off that first paragraph.  And "Hey Ladies" probably won't make many Dommes swoon.


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RE: Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mis... - 6/5/2008 5:46:43 PM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		To start with, I owe you an appology for not personally reading your profile before i posted. had i done so i woiuold have neither been flippant nor made the assumption that you wrere going to cheat. Out possitions are somewhat reversed in that I try to have both male and female slaves, the male to take any pressure off me sexually for my women.

yes there is a niche out there for you but if there is one in yoiur vicinity, I don't know. I still believe though, my comments in going out and meeting people and even letting it be known that yoiur wife approves of this may open doors for you. One suggestion though, you could a;lso alter your profile to specify that you wife is aware and has no issues with your quest.

I wish you well..

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RE: Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mis... - 6/5/2008 8:03:12 PM   
Usako


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Status: offline 		Look harder and expand the search. If ya have a car or don't mind taking a bus/train a few ways then the options widen.

Things take time, sometimes a lot of time depending on what you're looking for/where you are.

I think the best way to get attention is to have good quality pictures. Word your profile well (spell check and all) and make it very clear what you want and what your situtations are. And if you send mail to a woman, be respectful and not some annoying copy/paste deal. Also not a whole long essay, those are best saved for once you get them to want more info since people assume a long e-mail = mass copy/paste to many women.

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RE: Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mis... - 6/5/2008 8:10:19 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		Send her cocks shots, lots of cock shots.
 
Complain about women who ask for money. Call them whores.
 
Tell her you fantaies in vivid detail. Don't bother with proper spelling or punctuation.
 
They love that. Insist on telling her you already belong to her-she can do anything she wants to you (so long as it was written in your fantasy letters)
 
 Keep doing it if she ignores you. She just needs to be convinced. Get a new account if she blocks you-but reprimand her for not accepting you..doesn't she know how wonderful you are?
 
 Do these things,and you can be just like..about 75% percent of the male subs on here-everything will be PERFECT.
 
 

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RE: Whats is the best way to get the attention of a mis... - 6/5/2008 8:54:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: yurlittlebitch

Local yahoo groups with several profiles, all honest but varying depending on my mood. some steight and some bi. some too open and some conservative. 



Will the real person please stand up?

For real man, sincerity is attractive... and good luck.

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