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boundinside -> A brief change of subject (6/7/2008 3:28:08 PM)

The question always comes up, for an online submissive, what can you do for me?  And that is a comlicated question seen as how it is via webcam.  What I am asking for is ideas of what a submissive could do for a Dom/Domme via webcam.  It could be ranging from basic (beginner) to crazy (expert).  Thank you




Lynnxz -> RE: A brief change of subject (6/7/2008 3:43:27 PM)

"What can you possibly do for me" is just a line that I use to dissuade guys that want to get off on cam "for" me. The fact remains that I would first have to be at least a little interested in online domination for it to do anything for me. I'm not, so it's useless for them to offer me anything.

That could possibly be what you are running into. Your best bet is to look for a domme who's into online stuff in the first place, rather than try to convert someone.




angelwithhonor -> RE: A brief change of subject (6/7/2008 3:45:45 PM)

wouldnt that be what the Dom/me, would ask you do on via cam to proove your submission? and what you would be willing to do to proove to them. just a lil thought..hope you find what you are searching for[;)]




RedMagic1 -> RE: A brief change of subject (6/7/2008 4:03:12 PM)

What Lynx said.  It's not-this-again-speak for "Get real."

And, it's not bad advice.




RumpusParable -> RE: A brief change of subject (6/7/2008 4:12:42 PM)

I'm one who regularly asks that of those who offer online "service".  Largely it's to see what they say... so far the only two answers I've gotten, through literally dozens of replies over the years, are "doing X", which always comes down to some sexual kink they want to do witha female watching and "whatever you wish, mistress", which if I ask or work for more clarification always comes down to some sexual kink they want to do with a female watching.  Paraphrased "get me off, lady" is not service or submission in my book... hell, it's not even polite kink-partner searching -that would involve more honesty and less bullshitting.

But, back to your question about ways to answer "what can you do for me?":

First thing, forget about your webcam.  And mine.




peppermint -> RE: A brief change of subject (6/7/2008 7:11:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RumpusParable

I'm one who regularly asks that of those who offer online "service".  Largely it's to see what they say... so far the only two answers I've gotten, through literally dozens of replies over the years, are "doing X", which always comes down to some sexual kink they want to do witha female watching and "whatever you wish, mistress", which if I ask or work for more clarification always comes down to some sexual kink they want to do with a female watching.  Paraphrased "get me off, lady" is not service or submission in my book... hell, it's not even polite kink-partner searching -that would involve more honesty and less bullshitting.

But, back to your question about ways to answer "what can you do for me?":

First thing, forget about your webcam.  And mine.


I couldn't have said it better!!!  [sm=applause.gif]

For some reason some of these people think i would love to watch them jerk off...as if they are offering a special treat. 




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: A brief change of subject (6/7/2008 7:15:27 PM)

well you could put your cam to your computer monitor and show me that your sending me lots of $$ thru paypal [8|]  fun...yes?




NumberSix -> RE: A brief change of subject (6/7/2008 7:18:06 PM)

First of all, if you can comlicate on webcam, I think that would buy me a ticket to stiffyville right there, in fact; I would be very interested in getting a picture of me standing next to it, you know; for the kids.....

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boundinside -> RE: A brief change of subject (6/7/2008 7:35:24 PM)

"comlicate"???




pinksugarsub -> RE: A brief change of subject (6/7/2008 9:55:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: boundinside

The question always comes up, for an online submissive, what can you do for me?  And that is a comlicated question seen as how it is via webcam.  What I am asking for is ideas of what a submissive could do for a Dom/Domme via webcam.  It could be ranging from basic (beginner) to crazy (expert).  Thank you.


i've dallied with an 'online Dom'.  He directed me to buy a web cam, and He directed me to perform on cam.  Wasn't my cup of tea.
 
i'm not sure what else 'online' leaves room for.  Maybe sending Him writings, drawings, images, and the like.
 
pinksugarsub




Sundowner -> RE: A brief change of subject (6/8/2008 2:19:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: boundinside

"comlicate"???


He's humourously noting your typo dear.




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