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RE: Femdoms: are you more attracted to men in power? - 6/8/2008 7:44:40 PM

pinnipedster

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Hmm... Someone with a skill, especially martial arts will start My juices flowing, but what will really really get Me going is the insecurity I associate with an intellectual. I really really like tall skinny geeks and I really have to hold Myself back with both hands not just go up to them and start embarassing them in public by talking dirty to them and proposing all sorts of naughty things...

Er...I don't suppose tall heavy geeks will do? :) (I even know a little karate!)

(And, btw, while I could certainly stand to lose weight, I will never be anything like "skinny" -- my frame is just too big for that. Damn body limitations...)

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RE: Femdoms: are you more attracted to men in power? - 6/8/2008 7:45:38 PM

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Short answer: no.

I'm attracted to warm, optimistic, smart boys, who have enough in common with me to build on, but are different enough from me so that I can learn something new from them.

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RE: Femdoms: are you more attracted to men in power? - 6/8/2008 7:47:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissLily

Hmm... Someone with a skill, especially martial arts will start My juices flowing, but what will really really get Me going is the insecurity I associate with an intellectual. I really really like tall skinny geeks and I really have to hold Myself back with both hands not just go up to them and start embarassing them in public by talking dirty to them and proposing all sorts of naughty things.....

I know, I know, I'm bad...
Miss Lily

thats not bad. ... Bad is when they follow through with out warning, or when they perform those naughty things BEFORE telling you about them. ... I became a short fat party animal to avoid people like you

... P.s. .. I got to yellow belt in Tae Kwon Do when I was like, 12.... How bout it? Eyyyyy Eyyyyyyy

nah I'm kidding.

Anyways, jokes aside, what about musical or artistic skills? Anyone find attraction in that?

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RE: Femdoms: are you more attracted to men in power? - 6/8/2008 8:16:52 PM

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I often wonder if there IS a woman that is attracted to a submissive man as I am. I try listening to the intelligent, I try to be strong physically, I try to do my job well, I try to look good, I try to read from those more qualified than I am. I TRY as much as I can to BE the kind of person a good Domina would like to have. What I find is I become more me. I don't suffer a foolish person but I am naive, experienced but not anywhere near the most experienced. Available but with very strong responsibilities that are not negotiable. I've been informed I please very well but have the desire to please more so, have my interests and experience but don't know my limits. I have hard limits but many of the limits I do have are expandable. I show my face but not on my profile. I would LOVE to go national but realize my local travel limits. I KNOW that I'm not attractive to all Dominas but do have my idea of that special one that I can work well with. I will not promise the world but the one that becomes ours will be exactly that, ours. I'm not sure if what I write is poetic prose but hope that THE one I look for sees it and likes it.
Is this what a man of power is to You?

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RE: Femdoms: are you more attracted to men in power? - 6/8/2008 8:33:00 PM

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You have a refreshing veiwpoint littlesarbonn. I am no PHD nor do I write and study advanced subjects about undeserving people. I am a mechanic and with that I know things work or they don't. Transfering power is part of my work and it's always in balance or it doesn't work. Those in power usually become corrupted and we all know that in human limitations, absolute power corrupts absolutely. We are after all, absolutely human.

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RE: Femdoms: are you more attracted to men in power? - 6/9/2008 6:10:32 AM

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*snip* I am a mechanic *snip*

If you are (and I get the impression you are) a good mechanic, then watching you work would be sexy to me.
My man goes out to mow the lawn and I want to jump his bones.
That's what I mean by capability being sexy...doesn't matter what, though probably physical capability is slightly hotter than mental capability to me. (Probably because I, myself, am highly mentally capable and less physically capable.)

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RE: Femdoms: are you more attracted to men in power? - 6/9/2008 8:44:40 AM

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Even when I was still toying with men I was never interested in "men of power". Those that "think" they have power tend to be the biggest mental cases. Arrogant, cocky, assy, all covering up mega insecurities. And BORING!

I was way more interested in the nice looking guy with a brain, knew how to work, and had a great sense of humour. Think.....Mike Rowe on Dirty Jobs. Approachable, interesting, comfortable in his own skin, regardless of the crowd of people he is in. Charming, and finds it easy to wear Levi's or a suit.

With women I have a much broader scope of interest. As soon as I think I have a "type" someone comes along and tosses that idea right out the window.

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RE: Femdoms: are you more attracted to men in power? - 6/9/2008 9:02:13 AM

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We both find competence extremely attractive. However, while one of us finds a bit of arrogance amusing, the other prefers boys who are naturally more humble.

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RE: Femdoms: are you more attracted to men in power? - 6/9/2008 6:29:07 PM

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Thank you DominantJenny. I've only ever had one woman watch me work. She was an engineer, non practicing, very married and a mother. I'm not much to look at in the cobwebs and grunge of a garage but the result of my work is most often a satisfied customer. I just improved their house. I seriously doubt you would have watched me work in a wastewater treatment plant when I did that. Even the cleanest plants have a very distinct odor that would send you away. I am also very far from a hardbody.

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