ElanSubdued -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/20/2008 4:32:52 PM)
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Coupleofwhats, quote:
The idea has never appealed to me. I think that the whole "I'm straight, but will gladly suck a cock for you, Ma'am!" thing is just about being closeted. The active desire to suck a penis kinda negates being straight. Think about the word imagery: "straight," with no deviations, forks or curlicues. Just because you're not effeminate doesn't mean you're still straight if you get the urge to blow a guy. (And just because a hot chick is in the room at the time doesn't make it not gay.) Like many, you're mixing up an activity with romantic and sexual interest in a person. I have no romantic or sexual interest in men whatsoever. Indeed, I am straight. However, I have fantasized about sucking cock and I have sucked cock and enjoyed it too. This doesn't make me any less straight. quote:
It just seems like a really mean and potentially damaging scenario if the sub is actually totally straight. I mean, if I were a sub (big stretch, but I'm imagining it), and my Dom wanted me to go down on another woman, it would be distressing. In an unsexy, violating way. Let's take the straight, bi, gay, lesbian thing out of here for a moment. If your partner forces you to do something *you really do not want to do and that is damaging to your phychology*, I agree. This is very unsexy in a violating way. The fact we're taking about an act that some perceive as homoerotic is, in my mind, irrelevant. Whoa. Oops. Let me correct myself. It is relevant to you (which is fine), but not relevant to others (which is also fine). Elan.
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