RiotGirl
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Yeah i already sent it. i didnt actually say anything about MY lifestyle. Except to clear up the fact thats its NOT about "bondage" its about BDSM. <grins> And that BDSM was a vast and complex thing. what i mostly wrote to tell them was, well here it is quote:
Hey Dad, Well, i wrote a really really long email to you, but after careful consideration and the good opionon of my man i'm going to refrain from sending it. It was just basically me speaking my mind, taking a stand with the amount of acceptance in this family and enlightening you to my side of this "issue". This whole Bondage thing. As much as i'm going to refrain i have to clear THAT up. Its NOT about "bondage" its about BDSM!!! i am not really into bondage! BDSM is a vast, complicated universe. If you're interested in knowing, feel free to ask. But the point of this email was to respectfully decline the cruise. i was told on either tuesday or wendsday was when everything was finalized, so it is okay. i am declining, because people are running around talking behind my back about things they know nothing about. Judging me with BAD information. Judging me period. Which is fine Dad, if that is how they want to behave/act/think/treat/ect me, then that is their desire. BUT i dont need it apart of MY life. i dont need it. i dont need the drama. i dont need to be around ppl who are going to talk bad or think bad about me. Its not pleasant, comfortable, enjoyable. i do NOT enjoy being around ppl where i am wondering constantly whats really going on and i seriously dont like being around ppl who will smile and act nice towards me, yet as soon as my back is turned talk trash about me. It just plain gives me anxiety and in the past has actually thrown me into a anxiety attack. Dad, i dont need this stuff in my life. i'm doing well. i'm happy. Life is good. i surround myself with good ppl, ppl i dont have to worry about. Ppl that like me. i dont need to take myself back to a place where i am constantly on gaurd worrying about whats really going on behind the scenes. It makes me tense, gives me anxiety, and stresses me out. Like i said Dad, i'm happy and i dont need the hurt or the drama in my life and i'm not going to allow it in. So i'm sorry, i am as i'm going to miss alot of you guys. i love you tons and i hope you enjoy the cruise. luv ya kelly P.S. Yeah i am going to send this to EVERYONE with an email as i dont really like this 3rd and 4th party information line we have going. IF ppl are going to talk about me, they might as well have it straight the source. Heh, i wrote it to my Dad, but sent it to everyone in the family. Out of everyone, i know he will ALWAYS except me, he's logical to a fault, and well one of the ppl whose always had faith in me. LOL the email i had written before it was abit harsher, went into what excatly BDSM was, what it ment to me and also said. THERES ALOT OF THINGS I DONT LIKE ABOUT YOU PPL EITHER.. and it listed excatly what those things were. = ) Grandmother is twofaced, grandfather is a pathological liar, stepmother is a conniving, two faced manipulative liar, and my sister likes to run around breaking my trust. Master thought it was too much, so i tried to tone it down ALOT. Basically. Accept me or take a hike.
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