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RiotGirl -> RE: family (11/2/2005 8:34:36 PM)
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Oi vey. Honestly, them doing something "wrong" is abit of my worry too, which is excatly why i would NEVER say anything to my stepmother, but leave it to trusted family members to say something. Why i felt the need to say something? Because i am PROUD, because even with all the ups and downs, something on the whole good has come in my life. Because i am doing better in life and i enjoy sharing good news.
The ones i did come out too, seemed to be on the same wave length as me. No problem.
But, i agree, its not my problem. i did continue to speak my mind. i did get to the heart of it all. i actually spoke to almost everyone that needed to be concerned. my Stepmother went so far as to CALL me (god was that an anxiety ridden moment) i think i stuttered. But we spoke and worked through.
It is at the "agree to disagree" stage. Which is good. i am going on the trip, daughter in tow. Master may or may not go. It is up in the air if he is "welcomed" So far as my father (who is head hancho) says "of course" and step mother says "absolutely not" The rest of the family would like to meet him.
So that is the end of my stand off with the family over acceptance and my life style. They agree to accept (with ridiculous conditions involved, but human nature things.. IE please dont go around showing off your nipple rings lmao.. how they know i DUNNO)
but they agree to disagree, and i'm completely kosher with that. i was there along time ago :p
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