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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/11/2008 7:19:40 AM

sweetnurseBBW

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Master at home and his name in vanilla public.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/11/2008 7:30:44 AM

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Angel calls me Mommy in private, and my given name along with a host of strange and silly nicknames made up on the spot in public. Its the same vice versa, I tend to keep Angel for private and use his real name in public.
Fox calls me Mommy in private. Anything else he uses is in public, including Maam, Beautiful, love of my life (a persona favorite) and a few others.
I do not allow them to call me Mistress, I dont like the title Angel is allowed to use Goddess only when he is REALLY into headspace.
And, I answer to Vampire as well.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/11/2008 7:31:30 AM

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Daddy has been Sir, Master, MyLord, goddamned bastard, Bad Santa (he has a glorious white beard!) my Dark Warrior, and a few other pet names. very occasionally his first name, mostly when referencing him to someone who doesnt know/understand the bdsm relationship.

TheEngineer....his given name, Sir, beloved, PITA (pain in the ass) and a few other choice words here and there depending on the level of teasing he is dishing out.

they both call me baby, or kitten, pet, princess, sweetness...things of that nature.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/11/2008 8:41:03 AM

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We use first names generally, as well as assorted vanilla nicknames. In scene or if he's feeling the groove, he'll call me Mistress. I generally refer to him as slaveboy/slave.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/11/2008 10:45:26 AM

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My sub calls me Reina which is Spanish for queen that is my (I'm latina) preference he uses this in public and private most just think of it as a cute little nickname. Our Latino friends however, sometimes wonder why he is calling me queen. His preference or more likely habit, is to call me Mistress. I freely accept that but really prefer Reina. His sub name is petie becuase he is my neaty petie housekeeper. I love him.
Reina owner of petie my pet.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/11/2008 12:42:53 PM

metalmiss

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His default preference with any girl He owns is Master.. Within Our relationship specifically this also extends to Daddy with me. This is due to the way we relate to each other naturally and is therefore considered appropriate by Him.

What i call Him in public depends greatly on the situation.
In general public, i.e. out walking in town then nothing really changes. Master or Daddy are still the most common names i use to address Him.
In closer public, i.e. where things aren't so out in the open.. Small shops, the pub, etc, this is occasionally brought down to a simple Sir.. Depending on my level of comfort or the restrictions i might be under at that time.
If you would consider family to be public then in those situations i refer to Him simply as Raven, but as this is how i feel most uncomfortable addressing Him it is done with the deepest respect. Though of course there are occasionally the little slip-up's back to Master out of habit.. Thankfully my mother finds it very amusing, my dad pretends not to hear.. and my younger brother just moans that he's going to send me a bill for the therapy.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/11/2008 3:48:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fairerthanshe

Though since he recently referred to me as Smithers, I may take to calling him Mr. Burns.

"Smithers, release the hounds!"

hehehehe.....

R has me call him by his first name...if I'm in a really submissive groveling space and I slip with sir or master he'll let it slide.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/11/2008 4:21:15 PM

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Honey or sweetheart mostly. He knows who he is to me, and that's all that matters.

In play we sometimes use honorifics, if he feels like it he'll tell me to call him Sir or Master and then I will. But everyday, we're just laid back types.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/16/2008 7:03:30 AM

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I alwsy called Master Master if we are out in a store as we were the other day and i cannot fnd him i will call out his given name. I don' think he would appricate me calling out Master in the middle of the store. Master does not insist i call him Master it just cam naturaly to me.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/16/2008 7:07:19 AM

eepsy

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Master or by his given name.. depends on where we are and my state of mind at that point. Having said that, at no point do I not think of him as my Master.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/16/2008 11:11:59 AM

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Generally, my partners call me "John."

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/16/2008 11:29:53 AM

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the overwhelming majority of the time, whether in public or private, Daddy or Dad. even his family is used to "Daddy" now, and no eyebrows are raised. when he's introducing me to vanillas we aren't close to and aren't aware of our lifestyle, he either introduces me as his daughter or his "girl." because my life is relatively isolated and all my connections with others are through him, i don't really have the same issue. i refer to him as my Master, Daddy, or Father, depending on which would be most appropriate in the situation. there is one exception, and that'd be the men he whores me out too...most of them know him as my Husband, just because they're mostly vanilla and that's the easiest term to for them to understand and take seriously.

i never call him or refer to him by name, that would feel very odd and be very inappropriate.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/16/2008 1:52:29 PM

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Mostly I use his given name unless we're playing and then it's Master, he calls me by my given name mostly although I do get called Slut quite a lot (which I love!) I particularly like it when he calls me "My Slut", the possessiveness of that melts me.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/16/2008 2:13:12 PM

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Most of the time i call him master. All our cards for birthday xmas valentine etc are sent to or signed by master too. It feels wrong the odd times i use his christian name.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/16/2008 3:23:59 PM

ProtagonistLily

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quote:

I have a simple question regarding various honorifics used by submissives/slaves/pets/etc when addressing their dominant counterparts...What does he prefer? What do you use in public? What do you use in private, if different?

We tend to have a more strict protocol when we are out. It's only the two of us and sticking to a high protocol dialectical mode of speech can be cumbersome.

Rather than what I must use, there are things I must NEVER use.

For us, in our day to day lives, we don't feel a real need to keep our address 'high' protocol in person. When we are communicating in email, as we do throughout the day, I will use "Sir" to begin an email, mostly because it's become habit and reminds me of who I am in a completely vanilla setting.

I tend to refer to him in the third person as Sir in discussions with like minded folks, or his name with Vanillas.

Hope this gives you some insight.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/16/2008 3:32:56 PM

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i call him Daddy....unless i am in trouble then its Master...with lots of Sirs thrown in after my answers!

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/16/2008 7:28:33 PM

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I call him Sir and occasionally Master when I'm with him. I'm actually wondering if I've ever called him by his first name..... maybe I haven't.... how strange ;-)....

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/16/2008 9:50:36 PM

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Ma'am, usually, unless she wants a different name.

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RE: Respectful addresses - 6/16/2008 9:54:16 PM

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Sir, Master, are only said in private...but sweetheart, cutie pie, his actual name or whatever are used both privately and publicly.

i don't address any dominant as sir, that is reserved for the one i am actually in a relationship with.

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