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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/13/2006 11:21:37 AM

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I also am into ageplay, but I only have my wonderful Daddy online..
But I'm sure: If I'm a reaaal goood little girl, he'll come over :-D..
Thanks for all you ideas, I love them all, and some even made me giggle so hard :)
But SweetEscravo: No South Park? OH NO, I'D DIE!! :-D

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Different things here - 4/13/2006 10:22:12 PM

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Great thread!

There are some very different, almost opposing concepts going on here, some are discussing daddy play as hot scene fodder and for others it is a much deeper mental place that addresses a strong emotional need.

While the former can be hot it is the latter that interests me. It didn't always but in loving a very very special woman who had a deep need for it developed a real interest in it.

One has to know what it is that the little girl is wanting out of the play which isn't as easy as it sounds. Since the needs are often buried under layers of emotional issues, one has to ferret out what was either missing or is missed from your little girls childhood.

Sometimes it is structure, which is tricky because you aren't actually dealing with a child and they can't really surrender something they have never possessed. This is a hard lesson to learn, some even find the right combo of personalities and seem to pull it off, but for a scene with a lot of short relationships, this combo seems to be one of the shortest.

Sometimes it was a distant parent or parents, that is easy and the most rewarding if you enjoy showering someone with love and attention, it isn't however easy as it is in many ways like having an actual child. The trick to doing it is to ensure you negotiate enough self care back that you don't burn out. Learning to really open up and communicate with each other in non threatening and supportive ways helps immensely with this.

In my case as a Dominant, while I don't like to regress I did receive a great deal of touch as a child, my mother would tuck us in and scratch our backs before we went to bed, all innocent so don't' go getting all excited. So for me, I equate physical touch with love and it I am not "fixing" some shortage from childhood, I am getting shown love that recharges me and lets me continue to poor out love to my sweet little girl.

So, as a submissive who wants their Dominant to take them to that sweet simple place, engage that inner observer and see what emotional triggers make you happiest in that place and figure out where the come from and communicate that to your Dominant.

As a Dominant, try and get as clear a picture of what it is you are either making up for or recreating and that will help immensely in creating structure and space for your treasured little girl to safely take out her toys and play at your feet.

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/13/2006 10:56:19 PM

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The activities between Daddy and girl are wholey dependant on the target age. I did some Daddy/girl scenes with a friend of mine, but I was early-mid teens, so many of the scenes were oriented around my temporary persona's budding sexuality, and Daddy teaching her how things were in the grown-up world. An 8-year-old, though, wouldn't have that, but only a very small child would have her food cut for her. There are a number of concepts which apply to a Daddy/girl relationship through all ages. Hair brushing and other grooming, wardrobe advice (although many men don't have a clue), shopping trips (whining and begging for that new pair of shoes is wonderful. Daddy loves it, and you get new shoes), and the ever-popular "I had a bad dream... can I sleep with you?"

Good luck!

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RE: Different things here - 4/13/2006 11:36:34 PM

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There are some very different, almost opposing concepts going on here, some are discussing daddy play as hot scene fodder and for others it is a much deeper mental place that addresses a strong emotional need.

Since the needs are often buried under layers of emotional issues, one has to ferret out what was either missing or is missed from your little girls childhood.

Sometimes it was a distant parent or parents, that is easy and the most rewarding if you enjoy showering someone with love and attention,

The trick to doing it is to ensure you negotiate enough self care back that you don't burn out. Learning to really open up and communicate with each other in non threatening and supportive ways helps immensely with this.

So, as a submissive who wants their Dominant to take them to that sweet simple place, engage that inner observer and see what emotional triggers make you happiest in that place and figure out where the come from and communicate that to your Dominant.

Your post is the first post that addresses the questions I previously asked here. Thank you.

I'm finding that it's true that I loved when my parents held me close. I was and still am a sucker for a great hug that is full of love and tenderness. Often my dad would cuddle me, my mom often when I lie next to her while she read play with my hair gently. Those were special moments for me. Putting all that into perspective, your right. I do want to go back to that safe place, where I didn't have any other care in the world and was just able to enjoy being close to my parents. Hey maybe that's why I'm bisexual! Both my parents were super loving to me. lol

The part you mention about distant parents, that part is also true as I had extremely busy parents who were both career orientated and successful. Leaving me often to be taken care of by the nasty witch of a bitch next door who imo scared me in many ways! Over the years and talking about certain childhood events with this witch, my mom told this woman just to few years ago (now keep in mind I'm 40) that she had no interest in staying friendly with her due to the emotional scars she left me with. Go Mom! This is one more reason I cherish those special bonding moments with each parent.

Sometimes just hearing posts like you made helps put many things into perspective. Thank you so much for stating it so beautifully.

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 5:31:18 PM

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Not for me. I need a guardian or someone else there actively enabling it for me, letting me know it's ok to go to that vulnerable space and that I won't have to interact as an adult.

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I dont do things to bring little-girl-ism into my life, its already there

Both are true. Except LA, i just need some one around that gives me that "safe" feeling so that i can act as myself. Otherwise, i'm pretty held back and reserved. Though, when i'm by myself or not with "ppl" i feel free.

Its just apart of me. Having an unmentionable makes it all much more easier to enjoy things with.

going out to kill ant hills just to "see" what it looks like inside

ah with my unmentionable, we used to paint our arms and legs and then ended up throwing it at each other or the wall = )

Playing in the rain. Jumping in puddles. Used to play barbies as a kid, cant do that anymore tho. Pretend games.. /nods ponies is fun. And little ppl used to be fun. They're Discovery city used to make cool noises = ) and had some cute songs. Umm.. just play. Its a cool place to be actually. The world is bright and new, everything is just awesome, new discoveries everywhere.. just happy and innocent.. none of the adult crap that comes with life. No stress, no worries and when no ones around.. no one to tell you what NOT to do <grins> But i suppose thats outside of any bdsm thing.. its just a place in your head to be, and enjoy i suppose. That i think alot of people miss out on. And i usually seperate from any sort of adult thing.. and its abit wierd to relate the two. "age play/acting like a kid" But i suppose its not "age play" to me. Its just a way to be.

Sometimes.. i just hop in circles = ) Just randomly, cos its fun. Hop and spin! Spinning in cicles is fun, but its kind of scary if some one else does it. Had a friend who randomly picked me up and did it and i think i started screaming. It scared the tar out of me. Roller coasters can be fun. Pillow fights! Food fights! Randomly tossing things at ppl, just cos its fun? Course not hard things. Tackling.. thats fun. Ah.. just throwing yourself at them and tackling them! But of course its not always wise. Actually some of these things arent wise (food fight) when there is an adult around, unless of course they're game for it. And i'm told drawing on yourself is a no, but (shakes head and looks to the sky) i always seem to end up with markers or pen on me. dun know how it gets there = ) He just usually shakes his head at me. Food fights are a definete "no" but then i've never actually thrown food AT him.. <wicked grin> i wonder how he'd react. He would probably raise his eye brows in shock.

i've a friend online that i randomly "age" play with. i suppose. Its just the way we converse. He calls me kelly belly and i call him grandpa (since i have a daddy) Grandpa perv = ) It just the way we converse, tho sometimes its like it gets pretend, like we're there in person.. and i think it was like my first experience with age play. He generally knows if i'm in a space to be silly. Like, he'll threaten to switch my behind and i'll taunt back "not if you cant catch me" (and of course take off flying in this pretend world) He enjoys the abit of the brattiness, i suppose is what it is, and i always get a good chuckle from him when i spout off as he knows really i wouldnt do it.

With my Master - there is always that dynamic of Daddy/little girl. It just is. i never believe him before that it was there until he showed it to me and after awhile of learning to accept its now something i have no problems with. Learning to call him Daddy, was majorly difficult! It used to throw me into major embarresment and fits of giggles/laughter and saying it was majorly difficult. i just couldnt get the word out. Have a vanilla friend who knows of my lifestyle and has no problems with it.. so she helped. She'd playfully call him "daddy" and i of couse would die of embarressment.. she just helped me "practice" using it. Though when she first started out with the word, i would retardedly roar with laughter to drown her out. <grins> Arg i was sooooooooo embarressed. Now i'm good tho.

But it just is. Something i'm happy to have been able to accept consciously. As he was before i excepted it and i suppose its just the interaction. He cuddles alot with me and knows at times all i need is a hug. Of course there is alot of playfullness that goes on, with of course him allowing and him setting the limits on. Stepping past the limits, usually gets me into "adult" trouble. Mainly just, play time stops and he is very unpleased and sometimes i get into serious trouble. Depending on what i've done. At times there is play trouble, but if you play TOO much during play trouble (like not listening), it'll get you into serious trouble.

i dunno its just the way it is. Tons of limits of things i "cant" do and of course i always push those limits to see how far i can go. = ) i'm a pusher limiter = ) (thats latin) heh.

Just plain silliness = ) Just add alot of silliness, i suppose and i usually only call him Daddy when i'm feeling all sweet and loving and just soft i suppose. rah

Like to give an example when my friend walked me through the age play thing and it got naughty (arg, i'm embarressed) he was talking about touching it and playing with it to make cream come out.. and i got frustrated cos the cream didnt come out.. so i started getting rougher, and then looking down the hole trying to find the cream. Cos well ya know, he said cream would come out.. and it didnt come out in the time i wanted it to come out.. So i tried to MAKE it come out and then of course i went looking for it. <sigh>

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 5:33:27 PM

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(there's something freeing and fun about pouting occasionally)

LOL yes there IS! Even throwing temper tantrums.. can be, but i didnt really want to say that.

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 5:54:14 PM

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I have found since moving in with my Dom after being online for 10 months that Daddy/little girl is deeply meaningful for me. I do like the age play pretend stuff but for the most part, he just is my Daddy. I love calling him Daddy. I love how he is so aware and interested in every part of me. I have never had someone show me this kind of attention.

He told me the other day that he was watching me while we were at a flea market. Another man was watching me too it seemed. Daddy told me that he truly felt like my Daddy. He was pleased to see someone look at me with interest, but at the same time was very protective of me and watchful that nothing happened. I thought that was pretty neat!

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 5:58:20 PM

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LittlePita and Riotgirl are 'hot'...no wonder, I keep coming back! Kevin

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 6:52:04 PM

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You know, other then one example He showed me of the daddy/little girl thing, i really didnt grasp "what" it was that made it so. i knew it was there.. but not quite grasping it. What he showed was how he used to hug me on his lap while i cried, him consoling. It was really interesting reading this read and "seeing" things that i've done, do in it. Ah ha, the light bulb comes on.

Who'd ever thunk that going to the zoo was a little kid thing? And i've begggggggged him for it, but he says its too far away. = (

Hey anyone been to the monkey jungle down in miami? that place is neato. Most of the monkies run freeish and you walk around in the "cage" and put food in bowls hanging from the top and they EAT it! Its soooo cute.

Yeah its a great thread, one of the betters i've seen on the topic

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 7:29:11 PM

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What a lovely read that long post was, riotgirl! You are, well, obviously a riot. But you knew that. Also - great pics on your profile (my compliments to your Master), and that dream was hilarious. Too bad you couldn't stay with the kidnapper!!

I've been loving this thread. All the little girls giving their thoughts about it, what a joy to read. I've spoken lots about the topic, here and elsewhere on the forum, but I just can't get enough.

When my girl, a few years ago, got comfortable with me and we started to develop emotional bonds, started calling me Daddy I was pleased. I in fact WAS (and am) a father, but not to a little girl. So she really started to fill a hole in my life - a girl is something I've always thought I would want, and I knew I'd be a good father to a lil girl. Having the one I was attracted to sexually, my sweet little teen girl, also be my "girl"? It fit, it fit so well. It makes me love her even more. I can't wait until I can hold her again..

It's not about diapers for us. It's not about bottles or dressing up in catholic school girl outfits (although that one might be cool). And it's not about making her feel less worthwhile as a person. It's a safe place for her to go and be nurtured, gain the affection of her authority figure that she didn't receive much or at all when she was younger. And it's a role that fulfills my need to parent a young girl, to be in control when she's scared and needy, to correct and guide her.

We do occasionally do what most people call "age play" which is in addition to her normal behaviour of being emotionally young, submissive, attentive, and sweet. When we play like that, she's a lil girl, or a young teen, and it's tender but firm, loving and also sexual. But like I said, it's not ANYTHING to do with the "adult baby" concept. Not that there's anything wrong with the adult babies of the world.

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 7:43:02 PM

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Myself and my Dom have names we call each other. He is my Daddy and he calls me babygirl. It makes me feel safe, and he likes being called "daddy"........not only in play but, in our everydays greetings as well. I lost my Dad at a younger age than most ssooo I think thats why I feel safe, It gives me comfort. Makes my Dom feel good too!

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 7:57:56 PM

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Oh yeah, that reminds me of being out with my girl at Applebees. She went to pee and I asked the waitress for a balloon for her. Big red helium balloon. She was all smiles when she came back, and said "thank you daddy!" loudly. I don't think too many people stared...

(I was 29, she was 16)

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 8:00:54 PM

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*meeps* 29 to 16 ... The age difference itself doesnt bother ... You know, if you were 31 and she were 18 I'd be like, hell yeah thats sexy! But at 16 ... Not so much ...

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 8:05:38 PM

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*meeps* 29 to 16 ... The age difference itself doesnt bother ... You know, if you were 31 and she were 18 I'd be like, hell yeah thats sexy! But at 16 ... Not so much ...

Hehe. Yeah, that was last summer. To be fair, I was about to turn 30, and she was about to turn 17. This summer we'll be turning 31 and 18 - your definition of sexy! Sweet!

16 is legal in her state - she was near 17 when I first touched her physically. 14 is legal in Canada which is where I am. Not sure what needs to be said about that, though. This thread's not about age of consent.

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 8:08:44 PM

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He was pleased to see someone look at me with interest, but at the same time was very protective of me and watchful that nothing happened. I thought that was pretty neat!

It is neato when they get all protective and proud isnt it?

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 8:17:46 PM

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What a lovely read that long post was, riotgirl! You are, well, obviously a riot. But you knew that. Also - great pics on your profile (my compliments to your Master), and that dream was hilarious. Too bad you couldn't stay with the kidnapper!!

oh my gosh! i'm so embarresed LOL Tho i knew others would read about the dream and i wanted to share it for some reason.. LOL i'm embarressed. Aye, and i've been told i'm a riot. = ) the nick was given to me a few years ago by some one else. For sure an interesting dream. Cant believe i was "kissed" by a huge human eating anaconda either! Terrible about the kidnapper too.. geez i was actually upset about losing him for awhile this morning. <sigh> Too bad i couldnt of slept forever in the first part of the dream! Thank you for the compliments to Master about the pics.

Ya know i didnt mention the second dream.. as it was totally and only partially interseting to me. At one point, i was on a plane.. and i went to the bathroom.. that had two toilets and Dan Conner (from rosanne) was going to the bathroom next to me. Of course i was deathly aware of "noises" i made as its something i'm totally self conscious about (and Daddy always throws me into fits of embarresment by making exagerated noises in the bathroom, which usually has me hiding my face or running from the bathroom. heh) And oddly, Dan Connor and i were making the SAME noises (highly embarressing.. lol) and i thought.. how wierd is this to be going to the bathroom with him?

As for what you posted. its about sort the same thing i think, except its not sexual. (but he does think the school girl outfits are hot too.. lol) Enjoyable to read your post as well. (glad you enjoyed mine as well)

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 8:21:15 PM

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I'm so possessive it's scary. I'm not a fighter, but no matter how huge and built another guy is, I'll take him out if he so much as lays a fingertip on my little girl. Only thing worse than touching her? Controlling her. He'd better be packing body armour!

*calms down*

An old guy was checking out my girl when we were out together. I just stared back, he lost interest. :p
A couple snotty girls were sneering at her. I felt like smacking their heads together. What is it any business of theirs that she's with a grown man? Maybe they're just jealous she can get a real guy.
A few times guys did check her out, and it just made me feel proud. She's mine, guys, and you're getting NONE!

As long as they don't stare too much, get too close, or think about making any move.

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 8:25:54 PM

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Applebees

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!! You said Applebee's! i HATE that place, such vile wicked, dirty ppl that work there.. and to think if they hire ppl like.. imagine what they do the food! Lets all boycott applebee's with me! Life mission - turn everyone against Applebee's! vile.. wicked.. evil... dirty.. 8 years and STILL boycotting! <takes a bow> lol

As for the age difference. Totally understand. At 15 i dated a 27 year old. Twas living in hong kong and have no clue the age of consent. It didnt matter, though. My mother knew too.. and knew when i moved in with him.. and consented as well... Though at first i have to admit i lied = ( i told him i was 18 and i waited till i was 16 to tell him the truth as 16 sounded so much better then 15!

No Daddy little girl stuff though.. as i was "adultish" (if you can imagine) yet he was still very protective and even tried being authortive (which i quelled faast) Our biggest arguements was me taking walks at night. i suppose he noticed i was abit naive.. and when one night some guy approached me to ask if wanted to go back to his place and have sex with him with many other ppl sleeping in the same place.. well i was appalled! i really couldnt imagine ppl acting in that manner. Needless to say i stopped taking walks at night. LOL

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 8:28:28 PM

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Awwww heheh you're such a pleasure, riotgirl! But what do you mean, not sexual? You and Daddy keep it strictly professional when you're in little girl mode? Hmmm, okay. I'm not saying that's wrong or bad, of course, I just wouldn't be able to do that. I'm not saying it's always sexual, but there's certainly that chance that we'll get what way during cuddle time, or say if she crawls into bed and needs comforting in the night (that's obviously just a roleplaying thing, since she would be IN my bed normally). I can't separate my love for my little girl with my attraction for my little girl. We know she's not genetically related, so even if the emotions are just like daddy/daughter, the sex is definitely still gonna happen! :p

How does he keep his paws off you when you're being "lil"? You're so tiny looking. My girl's like that too. During playtimes, it's impossible for me NOT to see her as a little girl, since, well, she's a girl and she's quite little.

That second dream was, ummm, interesting. Not quite as hot as the other one!

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RE: Daddy/little girl - 4/14/2006 8:30:45 PM

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Darn it! i forgot to add

anyone rode one of those kid jeep type things? Power wheels? Geez.. i so missed out as a kid. i've had one for 3 years (bought it on the disguise it was for my lilttle one.. who was actually too small to ride it at the time) Very mucho fun, especially going over grass.. but infective for chasing ppl. = ( i've tried numerous occasions and the dang thing is too slow! i should have Him tweak it up to 15 miles for me, but i doubt he will and plus then i'd have a 4 year old driving something it too.. and that would be unsafe. i can envision my dog squished.. (or a cat)

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