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lanaMSTRMARK -> ...desperate to please Master... (6/18/2008 8:20:51 PM)
[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m27.gif[/image]Hello E/everyone, ...I just want to introduce myself...I am lanaMSTRMARK, I am a female submissive and I am new to the D/s lifestyle and to forums...please bear with me... Master sent me here, as He wants me to find out about anal training from other subs ... He intends to train me anally despite my fears and concerns, and He wants me to get any possible feedback, suggestions, advice, help from other subs who are or were already in anal training ...(and lived through it to tell me about it...LOL)... Desperate, hope you can help me out...thank you in advance... *lanaMSTRMARK*

SirMIkeSD -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/18/2008 8:34:12 PM)
Do a search in the forums and you will find a ton of info. Mike

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/18/2008 8:38:09 PM)
Thanks Mike :)

CalifChick -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/18/2008 8:39:41 PM)
What are you going to train it to do? Cali

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/18/2008 8:52:07 PM)
LOTS of lube and patience are the basics. And there really are a lot of threads on the topic if you do a search up at the top of the page.

ghettoloveinblo -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/18/2008 9:40:56 PM)
The forums are filled with info. Do a search and I'm positive you will find what you are looking for. I do agree with the op, lube and patience (and for a new person, full body relaxation) are key. Good Luck

Quivver -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/18/2008 10:01:27 PM)
Training is all in your head. Think about it. Having anal sex is something even Nilla folks do.

lanaMSTRMARK -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/18/2008 10:40:21 PM)
[;)] Thank you for your suggestions, E/everyone...was very much appreciated...I will have to find my way around his site better also...thanks again... *lanaMSTRMARK*

shivermetimbers -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/18/2008 10:54:46 PM)
As I once heard someone in the porn industry say during an interview, about anal sex scenes: "You can't be afraid of shit."

lanaMSTRMARK -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/18/2008 11:52:33 PM)
[sm=oops.gif] better get some sleep, can't even type anymore, it seems...meant "this" site in my last post, of course...thanks again, E/everyone, the search in the forums proved very interesting already... *lanaMSTRMARK*

OmegaG -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/19/2008 5:50:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Quivver Training is all in your head. Think about it. Having anal sex is something even Nilla folks do. That's similar to my thoughts anytime I see a thread like this. I've been having anal sex for years without knowing I was supposed to train for the event.

OsideGirl -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/19/2008 6:36:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick What are you going to train it to do? Cali I was thinking the same thing. All I can picture is the woman that does dog "clicker" training going, "WalkEEEES!".

littleone35 -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/19/2008 6:41:58 AM)
Anal is no big deal i too was nervous at first. Now i like it just use lots and lots of lube and take it slowly. It takes some getting used to but it is really not a big deal, who knows you may end up liking it. Matt's littleone

sub4hire -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/19/2008 8:15:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lanaMSTRMARK Master sent me here, as He wants me to find out about anal training from other subs ... He intends to train me anally despite my fears and concerns So, is anal a limit of yours he wants to break?

KatyLied -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/19/2008 8:52:01 AM)
quote: Having anal sex is something even Nilla folks do. ::gasp:: [:D]

ownedgirlie -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/19/2008 9:49:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sub4hire quote: ORIGINAL: lanaMSTRMARK Master sent me here, as He wants me to find out about anal training from other subs ... He intends to train me anally despite my fears and concerns So, is anal a limit of yours he wants to break? That's not a conclusion I came to, as I also had fears and concerns before ever experiencing this, yet eagerly wanted to work through them. But I can see how her word "despite" can bring that question up. For me it wasn't so much an issue of lube (I don't always have that luxury), but of becoming accustomed to having something in me there. I suggest starting with the smallest plug you can find and practice with, then work your way up over time...slowly. I really struggled even with the smallest plug, but my struggle was more emotional than physical. I also recommend visualizing everything happening wonderfully an d successfully. Plan for success or thoughts of failure will take over your experience. Good luck!!

sub4hire -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/19/2008 11:41:20 AM)
I know owned....and anal is not going to kill her. Maybe hurt a little if not done properly. Although the way she worded it...almost sounds like a limit to me.

softness -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/19/2008 11:58:57 AM)
[sm=giveup.gif] isso tempted to suggest she get in touch with Dark Victory for His advice about anal training ("I have never lost a girl yet!") but I dont think even I could field the ensuing shit storm aimed in my direction seriously though ... He does give good advice .. and is able to act outside His own interests

DesFIP -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/19/2008 1:09:01 PM)
He needs to slow down. Because if you're afraid you won't ever be able to relax enough to be able to enjoy this. And tearing delicate tissues, followed by ER visits are the way for you to hard limit it with future partners. I say future because if he hurts you badly I'm assuming you won't be dumb enough to let him do it again. Is this your only value to him, being an ass to fuck? Because if so, I'd bail before he does damage. If not, he needs to give up on this until you aren't so scared to death.

lanaMSTRMARK -> RE: ...desperate to please Master... (6/19/2008 2:39:37 PM)
[sm=passthelube.gif]Thank you again, E/everyone... your posts are very much appreciated and considered...well, anal is indeed a limit for me, yes, but Master is convinced and set on breaking through that somehow...He is not a brute, of course, and has agreed to handle this issue delicately, gently and slowly, but he definitely does insist on anal, and at the very least putting me through anal training... posts like from desFIB, for instance, do make me think...thanks, des!...and thank you owned, I will have to try to imagine being in "paradise" then, I guess...now don't anyone tell me now anal actually IS paradise...LOL...thanks for wishing me good luck also...littleone...I seriously doubt I will ever like it, more like I will endure it...have been trying to "fight" Master on this for a long time...unfortunately He is convinced that he can turn me around somehow... Hmmmmm...will continue going through posts and forums, not any closer to feeling any better about the dreaded subject[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m28.gif[/image] yet, I have to admit...thanks again for responding, E/everyone... lanaMSTRMARK

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