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softness -> RE: You're a Slave // how so? (6/24/2008 12:00:25 AM)
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There can be no an abstract definition of slavery that works in the context of two consenting adults in the modern Western world. In such a context any such construct is situational in nature, any such labels, tags, handles whatevers are created and applied by the people within the context. In effect, nothing defines me as a slave, other than self created self imposed ideas.
Therefore any criteria which to me indicated and defined my status as a slave would not work on the next girl.
Sir answered it like this, and I am in agreement with Him
Softness is a slave because
1) she says she is, and means it.
2) she is willing to give her rights, including her right to be right
3) she is clear that her real limits are her Owners limits and that her limits are actually requests and not limits at all.
these things define me as a slave in the context of my relationship with Dark Victory .. they won't work if I was a slave to someone else
and also ... because He says I am ... cos .. yanno ... He is Da Big Man, His word is law
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