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RE: Everything you ever wanted to about Goreans, but we... - 11/19/2011 5:36:25 PM

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They (Collarchat) has guidelines where they really don't want topics resurrected after 3-6 months.

You should try here first, it is the very top topic in the Gorean section:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2997128/tm.htm

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RE: Everything you ever wanted to about Goreans, but we... - 12/4/2011 5:19:50 AM

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Greetings to all

I have a question, is has bother me for sometime, not the act itself but what
if the slave does not want this what happen: Here is my question: Are slaves
really sold here against their wishes! I did not come to break open a "can of worms"
but i have read this on a Gorean Master Page! Is this True do you sell slaves
whom are no longer wanted by the Gorean Master whom had them before!
Second does the slave have a choice in the matter! Can she begged to be aloud
to stay with him! I understand so manythings i did not before and i have the
greatest respect for all of you! It something i needed to hear! Also what if she
does not like him at all?

Please no one take this as an attack I had been not here for about
month there were problems i made it so, and i did try to stop it but it
went head long into a mess! But this is something i had read and it was
not a mistake! If it is not true i will expect this from all of you !
If it is true then i still will expect what ever you say!

Thank you again for you answers!!!!
Mons/Jane

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RE: Everything you ever wanted to about Goreans, but we... - 12/4/2011 5:35:32 PM

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greeting to all

i have a question musicmystery what an usual beautiful name why did you pick it, are you
a profession music person? I wonder this for years?

mons

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RE: Everything you ever wanted to about Goreans, but we... - 12/4/2011 5:45:29 PM

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This is a answer for the op about her children! My sister and i were left by the
fathers of our children and it is a shock to see how someone whom also rasied the
children could also suddenly turn their backs on the kids like nothing, it shocks many
women whom had not ideal this would happen! We have three children between us
and i can tell no man is worth being upset that you can not go ( that is my understanding) to be with this
one person! We made a choose not to have anymore children and then not to date until they
are old enough to ( it is known my fear of men around children not all men are bad but it is
something i made a deciosn not to date) this was for 15 years or more! Nothing can
take away the joy i had watching and raising them! If he is someone whom will accept the children
fine but do not feel bad, it will be paid back in full when they are adult and come to you with a thank you for taking the
time out of you life to rasie them! I am good looking and very nice to still go out this is my time now!
( the last time i asnwer a post i was wrong so i hope i have it right, also it is hard for me to see all of the
writing when it is big)
best wishes mons

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RE: Everything you ever wanted to about Goreans, but we... - 12/4/2011 8:23:57 PM

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my writing are sometimes very hard to understand, but my reading and comprhision is
excellent! why my mind does not know how to place a correct sentnece is beyond my understanding
but Master Aswad writing are very excellent indeed and i understand what he is saying!!!

best wishes
mons/jane

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RE: Everything you ever wanted to about Goreans, but we... - 12/5/2011 2:50:08 AM

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Greetings to all

I have read and been to your site for sometime, it was once when i was here some
years ago very interesting and you ideals not far away! I wonder where all of this honor is
going and for whom! It is a basic nature of woman to protect their young, and for some men to
just not do anything! Do I sound angry, why yes i am, I have come at different times, talk and written,
answer to post some are answer other are were not answered! Now they sit it out like a football game only if a team player
writes does does a team player answer! This could and will gone on forever, when i saw ask anything you
wish to know about Gorean and it will be answered! To see all of my question just knock off without an
answers is silly! I wonder what honor do you really have when you invited questions without
answers? I wrote to Orionthewolf with a value question for help with a problem i had with the group women, free and or
slave, he told me " i do not read your post" it was said in such a manner that how could
he have any honor to be so rude!

Honor not only has to do with pride and self knowledge but just plain knowledge of what is going on
the site you men handle! Many of the "Gorean Master" jest and joke about the BDSM Master on the
other side, they have as much if not more honor then many of your Gorean Master! If i have a question for
a BDSM Master they kindly answer, no one has ever talked to me the way Orion the wolf has, no you do
have to say one word but all of this honor so many of you are hawking is bull, plain and simple! Then this is the
site where a woman has a Master, i do wonder if inside some of these women have an open eye on what is really going
on here, nothing but big words which i understand!

It is hard to see how you have taken the word honor as the "way of the Gorean man when it does not go well
with your very own thoughts! From what i learn just reading some of the post and answer i see just nothing there, whom would let a woman drown or dead just because she is not of your group or of your family???? No one is their right mind would let this happen! There are many here of the men whom speak ok and it makes sense but then i have seen words use to confuse and some that do not belong in a sentence of no kind!    The whole process of your thinking has gone out of the door of the mind!

It is almost brain washing!   I know i will be attack as i was before when i spoke "against the group"! But see
it as it is and what it is what it is!

Some of the Gorean Master whom write on this site make sense then other have began to talk out of the "side of the
neck" I find it shocking and just plain silly at times, i have read one Master post and he confuse me, I may have a learning disabitiy but it is only with writing my skills as a reader far reaches college proffessors. do not doubt my abitily to understand all you have written!

This is why i do not understand why some follow say Master to the end of the earth!   Please remember honor is where you have it and where you keep it, in your heart not in the rambling of some Master whom is to full of himself!   As for the question of the selling of slaves I just want a clear answer i know it is true but why!   I am not shocked but this practice i am shocked that no one as of yet has the nerve to say it is "true" !!!!!!

my best wishes to you all '

mons/jane ( i am ready for the big words to come out and then again i truly believe no one care to answer and this is ok too)

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RE: Everything you ever wanted to about Goreans, but we... - 12/5/2011 4:21:55 AM

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Mons,

I was alerted to your post here by someone else.

You sent me an apology for something you posted and here is my response in it's entirety:

"I have no clue what you are talking about. I don't read your posts anyway, so nothing to apologize to me about."

There are several people that I do not read their posts. If you consider this rude or have no honor, just because it was not sugar coated, I suggest you get a thicker skin.

If this upsets you, that someone is truthful with you, but doesn't sugar coat it, I suggest you get a thicker skin.

What you consider honorable or not, has no bearing on my honor or whether I am honorable.

Live well,
Orion

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RE: Everything you ever wanted to about Goreans, but we... - 12/6/2011 1:45:02 AM

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Orion
When I wrote to you it was to see if you would help me "iron out" a problem, It
was having to due with something that had been said, i try to say sorry but it was not taken!
The word fight went on and on, this is why I asked for your "help" only to
let the women in your group back off! No you did not help, no one has to read a
post by someone to asked for your help!. Does one have to know a person if they need help? No i do not think so and it was not written in a bad way!   I thought you would, as a Gorean Master i really thought
you would be helpful in calming the mess that had grown, you never mention a word about
others you do not answer, i did not know whom you were, i did not think you would not help me!!
I had pick your name becasue it was on my "who is viewing me' part of my profile I had no ideal whom to ask! This is why you were picked and i thought you would be someone i thought would handle a matter that had gotten way out of hand, i
was wrong i see now!   I had not an ideal whom you were until i saw you on my profile! That was the one and
only reason i seek out your help! I remember clearly the times when i need help or someone needed help , it could be
any type of help, but i never turn someone down if i had a dollar and they needed fifty cents i would give it too them and 'this is who i am and how i still am! I saw you as a trusted person, a man and also one of the Gorean Masters!    If i ask something why not just answer if you wish me not to come then say so! I will not go where i am not wanted even though this is an open forum not everyone is welcome and you should let someone know this! I know many people will think "well hell they never answer her post" why does she still go there!
My answer to this is as an intelligent woman, as someone whom loves to explore different areas of all subject and people their is a name for this and it is anthoroply ( that may not be spelled right) it is the studies of civillaztions and people of different cultrues, and or lifestyles!   Your group has made me come back time and again, because your group is uquie within it self!

I came to your group as i did years ago, but what has changed it so much so it wraps itself around others but then does not let
anyone in for asking questions which anyone would love to know! I can not say sorry, for what i said it said, but i do have a heated part of me that will not stand for anything less then all of the respect i have given before! My writings sometime appear angry and not tastefully written, but it is do to being not answered in a respectful famous!

Starting over with this group may or may not work you may still not answer questions i ask this is ok but i will ask them, how else will i learn!

It was pointed out to me by someone whom reads the boards that my (wonderful style of writings were being laugh at) I hope it is not your group of ladies with a whim doing this! I do not care as you see i still will write again and again! But my friend was truly upset for me i explain this is my way of learning to write, and to think this is where i started!!!! So long ago!

My best too all of you
Mons

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RE: Everything you ever wanted to about Goreans, but we... - 12/6/2011 4:54:33 PM

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After reading through all that I still have no idea Wht gorean is. Does some one have a definition;)??

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RE: Everything you ever wanted to about Goreans, but we... - 12/6/2011 5:55:30 PM

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Not alone!

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ORIGINAL: princesadesiree2

After reading through all that I still have no idea Wht gorean is. Does some one have a definition;)??

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RE: Everything you ever wanted to about Goreans, but we... - 12/6/2011 8:20:58 PM

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There is nothing you can point to that says if you do this .... You are a Gorean.

Being a Gorean means different things to different people and so there is no consensus.

However most agree that reading the Gorean books, and living by the philosophies found inside them is what makes you a Gorean.

What those philosophies are and the differences in interpretation is what fills the forums usually, but there is no definitive list of what makes a Gorean.

It is a voyage of self-discovery and what you discover is usually tied up with the type of person you are.

Cheryl

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