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LuckyAlbatross -> Foot Party Advice (11/7/2005 10:51:35 AM)

Long exposition:
OK so it seems likely I'm going to my first foot fetish party this weekend with one of my partners. From what he's told me it's a typical social event with lots of exceedingly beautiful women, lots of normal men, where the men pay 20/ten minutes of time with the woman's feet.

Now, my partner has been going to these parties regularly for over a year now. I never understood why he did that because the one's he goes to are a far distance, requiring time to travel, money for overnight hotel expenses, entrance party expenses as well as any entertainment he wants at the party. Considering I can and do provide him with any number of women locally who would enjoy his attention for nothing, I never got his need to continue there.

However, I always encourage him to seek his own interests and make sure he has a stable group of friends and outlets to enjoy independent of myself. In that vein, I haven't interfered with his party attendance and allow him to enjoy something he's established on his own.

Now, he would like me to attend with him so I can see what goes on firsthand and meet some of the friends he's established there. I'm certainly open to this and while I'd be going as his partner foremost, I wouldn't be against the money, nor would I prevent him from getting his own entertainment (actually I'd be more likely to just give him any money I make so he can go have more fun).

Actual question:
What is proper foot party etiquette? Dress code? What should I expect? I know my good manners will take me anywhere, but the more I get info on, the better. I know I will be at the bottom end of the beauty scale, but if there is a lingo dance or something I should do with a guy to not insult him, I'd appreciate the help.

Thanks!




FangsNfeet -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/7/2005 11:31:56 AM)

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Actual question:
What is proper foot party etiquette? Dress code? What should I expect? I know my good manners will take me anywhere, but the more I get info on, the better. I know I will be at the bottom end of the beauty scale, but if there is a lingo dance or something I should do with a guy to not insult him, I'd appreciate the help.


1. Have a pedicure done.

2. Supplies : Easy to slip on and off high heels
A feather
Towel and Wash Cloth
Ankle Cuffs Leather/Chain
BBQ Sauce
Chocolate Syrup/Whip Cream

3. Show leg and no hose unless you want to play hard to get.

Without knowing this particular group, I'm sure it will be a lot like the other parties you have attended in the past. I predict that you will have a fun time.




darkinshadows -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/7/2005 2:24:10 PM)

I would treat it just like any other party or munch LA. I am sure there is a dress code advertised and its best to find that out in advance. Most of the time, if its a formal party in a private setting, you will probably find its a little more formal than a club or bar. If Your just going to observe, just wear what comes naturally to you (you'll be stunning anyway[;)]) - but if your going with the mindset that you may participate and dip your toe in the water (sorrreeee couldnt resist!), then Stockings might be a good bet of your relaxed enough to wear them. They are a good token to wear and they are easy enough to remove (over the knee thigh hold ups are even quicker, but do leave marks even on the slimest thigh, and aren't really practicle from a personal point of view)

A pedicure and nailpolish(if thats something you like) would be a good move either way. You'll feel sexy even if your not thinking of taking part and it helps put you in a good mindset. Have that either the naigh before or that same day. Oh and buy a wonderful new pair of shoes for the event. Even if your not planning on taking part on either side, feet will be a focal point and new shoes will be fabulous(although, wear them a bit first - too new can be a turn off and it doesnt hurt to break in a new pair around the house anyway!)Besides, its a great excuse for new shoes!

Peace and Love




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/7/2005 2:41:31 PM)


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ORIGINAL: dark~angel
They are a good token to wear and they are easy enough to remove (over the knee thigh hold ups are even quicker, but do leave marks even on the slimest thigh, and aren't really practicle from a personal point of view)

Thanks, I was thinking either no shoes, sandals or strappy shoes.
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A pedicure and nailpolish(if thats something you like) would be a good move either way.

I will definitely make my feet all pretty, but keep them au natural because I never like any color on them.

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(although, wear them a bit first - too new can be a turn off and it doesnt hurt to break in a new pair around the house anyway!)Besides, its a great excuse for new shoes!

Hmmm, the partner who is going actually bought me a gorgeous pair of rhinestone heeled sandals this weekend (after a delicious romp through the shoe store and making him kneel to put each pair on and off and showing them off in front of him). But those are tricky to get on and off and I'd want to keep it simple.

Thanks for the advice and vote of confidence :)




subversiveone -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/7/2005 3:19:13 PM)

Em/La, im not sure if you will want oral attentions to your feet but i would invest in either some peppermint oiled lotion or flavored JSimpson bodyfrosting... i understand that this might not be as good for some as 'the real thing' but i think others would adore it as the bodyfrosting doesn't give off a lot of scent, is not sticky, still tastes good. I'm not familiar with lingo, but im sure your partner will help you.




sub4hire -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/7/2005 6:52:35 PM)

I'm not into feet but I know men who are.

I'd go as you are. The fetish is the foot, not what it has on it. Most will cherish your foot. Give you a massage. Paint your toenails. Just about anything you'd like done to your feet. Bathe them. They will give you a pedicure.

The men I know really don't care a whole lot about the shoe. Just the foot the way it was born.




Sensualips -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/7/2005 7:56:24 PM)

Maybe paying for it makes it seem more valuable? Or maybe it is just the friendships/relationships he has there.

Okay, I know that was not the question. I have nothing to contribute towards the actual question.

I do find it interesting one suggested you bring your own things such as a washcloth, chocolate syrup, etc.

I'd probably dress up my foot with a toe ring or maybe a pretty anklet, but I always decorate body parts for special occassions.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/13/2005 4:18:00 PM)

Hey guys! Back from the foor party and figured I'd give an update.

First, thanks to you all for giving advice, definitely helped take some of the edge off.

I still had not yet completely decided what to wear by Friday evening, which is definitely a bad sign for me. But the theme was "secretaries" and my partner had really enjoyed one of my work outfits so I went with that for the evening. A normal beige knee-length asymmetrical skirt with a beige/white sleeveless knit turtleneck. I had a hard time deciding on shoes since I'm one of those women who NEEDS a strap around the ankle and most were buckles, but I remembered a pair of brown strappy 4-inch heels that just require a quick zipper up the back and went with them.

For preparation I simply did a normal pedicure at home, with lots of sloughing and moisturizing.

We drove up through Philly for the day where I got treated to a trip to Passional and tried on some stuff, as well as a truly awesome cheesesteak. Then we drove up to South Jersey for the night and got ready to go out.

I truly had a blast. I was foremost surprised at the age group. I suppose I was comparing the fetish party to normal bdsm parties. In fact, a great majority of the men were between 20-35, with a large handful of 40 year olds and such as well. Most of them were very handsome and looked like very normal middle upper class business men.

The party was hopping when we arrived about an hour or so after start. There were tons of girls there, all college age, all pretty hot, all obviously very comfortable with being hot and social (something I've never been). Oddly enough I ws surprised at some of the footwear the girls chose to wear- some wore the standard "stripper lucite" heels, some wore strappy buckled shoes and a handful wore stockings as well.

I remained quite nervous even after my partner introduced me to a few people until he decided to do a session with me on the pool table. After that I was VERY relaxed and mellowed. I'd felt like I'd gotten my cherry broken and could now be recognized as "one of them" rather than just a new onlooker.

We had tried to get one of my partner's regular girls to do a double session but she bowed out saying she had to get home early. While we enjoyed eachothers company, I encouraged him to find another girl so I could watch them do a session together. While he was off, I ended up in a session of my own with another nice guy.

My partner came back with TWO girls in toe...er tow...and I got to watch him charm and enjoy their feet while my guy enjoyed my own ministrations.

Once those sessions were done, I was about done (getting tired and headachy) so we made our goodbyes and left. I was totally relaxed and happy and DEFINITELY wanting to come back. The atmosphere was so much more relaxed than at most bdsm parties I go to, no jockeying for play space, no pressures about stepping on toes (hehe), no political undercurrents to care for. Just people there to enjoy feet and have a good time together.




darkinshadows -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/13/2005 4:31:32 PM)

Thanks for the update LA... I am glad you enjoyed yourself!

Peace and Rapture




perverseangelic -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/13/2005 4:53:35 PM)

THis is probably a really stupid question, but what does a "session" at a foot-fetish party consist of?

Not something I hvae any familiarity with.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/13/2005 5:11:55 PM)

What a great sounding party! We've tried to organize foot parties here with no luck at all...........

:)Francine




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/13/2005 5:33:35 PM)


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ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

THis is probably a really stupid question, but what does a "session" at a foot-fetish party consist of?

Not something I hvae any familiarity with.

Hey chickie,

A session, at this party and others from what I know, is generally just a period of footplay. Could be sucking, massaging, trampling, tickling, whatever you and the guy decide on. The preferred contribution is $20/ten minutes of footplay, so most sessions start out as just a ten minute period.




HenryMiller -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/13/2005 5:54:30 PM)

Hopefully it doesn't sound cheeky to ask this but do the men look up your skirt while they are making love to your feet?




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/13/2005 6:12:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: HenryMiller
Hopefully it doesn't sound cheeky to ask this but do the men look up your skirt while they are making love to your feet?

I noticed the men definitely enjoyed the entire body- lots of women wore just bras on top and cute underwear which you could see during sessions.




chgodomcouple -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/13/2005 6:42:12 PM)

That sounds sooo much fun.
I need to find people like that in chicago lol

A.S.




HenryMiller -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/13/2005 6:59:35 PM)

Sounds like a very nice evening of teasing. I imagine there is plenty of steamy sex later that night.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/13/2005 7:05:27 PM)


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ORIGINAL: HenryMiller

Sounds like a very nice evening of teasing. I imagine there is plenty of steamy sex later that night.

Well there certainly was in MY hotel room with my partner. However, most of the girls show up with eachother and leave together, and then men leave independently. I did not notice and have not heard of people really hooking up for private stuff post-party from my partner.




perverseangelic -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/13/2005 7:13:59 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross


quote:

ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

THis is probably a really stupid question, but what does a "session" at a foot-fetish party consist of?

Not something I hvae any familiarity with.

Hey chickie,

A session, at this party and others from what I know, is generally just a period of footplay. Could be sucking, massaging, trampling, tickling, whatever you and the guy decide on. The preferred contribution is $20/ten minutes of footplay, so most sessions start out as just a ten minute period.


Thanks :) It's something I've wondered about. SOunds like a lot of fun, honestly :)





Sensualips -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/13/2005 7:50:54 PM)

Darn. And all these years I paid a reflexologist to work on my feet. I was doing it all wrong!




FelinePersuasion -> RE: Foot Party Advice (11/13/2005 9:15:42 PM)

do you pay the boys or do they pay you to massage feed:))




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