Madame4a
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ORIGINAL: YoungDom4FSlave This topic needs some explaining, so here goes: My girlfriend and I have been together for about 5 months. I'm hugely into BDSM in all its many forms, and she's somewhat submissive, though to varying degrees. She's also bicurious, though has never been with a woman before. We've discussed that and there are all sorts of possibilities there, with varying degrees of my involvement for her first time with a woman. I keep thinking of trying a 3-some (and having it possibly develop into a long-term situation) with another submissive woman. Here's where I'd like some advice. Understanding that my girlfriend is not a slave by any stretch of the imagination (much as I would enjoy it during sex, I think I would be unfulfilled outside of our sex life), and that the 3-some did in fact happen, would it be better to have my girlfriend as the top or bottom of the 2 women? I realize I'm probably not asking or explaining well, and I'll try to elaborate if you have questions, but I have absolutely 0 experience in terms of any kind of poly situation, long-term of merely single-night. Any advice? Is it better to have the new woman dominating my girlfriend, or does that often lead to jealousy? Obviously much of this is based upon my judgment, but I was just looking for some general thoughts people might have. Thanks in advance! I agree that it sounds like you're over complicating... As to having a threesome and then hoping it will develop -- like most things.. sex first is not necessarily the best way to do that. If you want a relationship, develop that first. Want a chick to do it with for the night, then the two of you go to a bar and pick one up... want a relationship, then talk to her and find out what she wants and how she wants to do it (like Mike said) ... and finally, you've been together five months? You might want to get a bit more time under your belt before bringing a third into the relationship -- that's my opinion based on my experience
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