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Bethnai -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/2/2008 10:38:01 PM)
You could always sing What's Love Got to Do with It?

Lynnxz -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/2/2008 10:38:40 PM)
I call it- 'Stick that thing in me and I'll cut it off' I'm not exactly monogamous... because I don't have sex with anyone... but I do play with several people.. It's complicated I guess?

DomAviator -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/2/2008 10:52:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz I'm not exactly monogamous... because I don't have sex with anyone... but I do play with several people.. It's complicated I guess? Not complicated at all! Clearly you are saving yourself for me, which means you are a woman of class, taste, and impeccably high standards... [:D] I saw green eyes in one of your profile pics - happen to have a side gig in Walgreens?

girlygurl -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/2/2008 11:15:21 PM)
Hi there YHMA, although your deffinition of sex doesn't include toys and fingers I'd still say it's sex or some sort of sex play. I'm not sure what you'd call it other than an open relationship since your SO approves of the play. You may play with others, but your heart belongs to him [:)] I haven't heard... how have you been since the move? girly

YourhandMyAss -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/2/2008 11:59:47 PM)
GirlyGurl, I've been good, finally making headway on some of my debt, and I'm into sewing lessons again, and I started school again and, my teacher's very pleased with the work I been putting out.

Lashra -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 2:35:51 AM)
Monogamous with benefits would work ~Lashra

JulieorSarah -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 3:55:49 AM)
i've found this thread illuminating and confusing at the same time. i posted a thread a while back asking if it was possible to have a mutually exclusive relationship between a Dom and sub. (I'd originally listed myself as a sub looking for a monogomous relationship ... and monogomous meant different things to different people ... we'd get past the first meeting and would be looking at playing and his 'friends were there to join in! i've been looking for a way to describe what i'm seeking that is as clear as possible) There were three replies the last i looked and all said yes. But one couple regularly hosted play parties in the dungeon. This confused me. After the posts above, i've a better understanding ... i hate condoms and just don't want to use them once the appropriate time has passed ... and this soft and hard swapping kinda makes sense ... but i can't see it applying to bdsm play ... there's too many hard and soft ... terms in there already! I can see the need for a label particularly when stating what you do / don't do and what you do / don't want... the difficulty will be in having the same meaning understood by those that see/read it.

camille65 -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 4:35:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss GirlyGurl, I've been good, finally making headway on some of my debt, and I'm into sewing lessons again, and I started school again and, my teacher's very pleased with the work I been putting out. Hahahaha I read the bolded bit as: my teacher's very pleased I've been putting out

sirsholly -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 4:49:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DomAviator quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz I'm not exactly monogamous... because I don't have sex with anyone... but I do play with several people.. It's complicated I guess? Clearly you are saving yourself for me, which means you are a woman of class, taste, and impeccably high standards... koff

sub4hire -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 6:01:04 AM)
Looking for everything but penis penetration.

DesFIP -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 8:25:44 AM)
I'd describe it as monogamous sexually but not when it comes to s & m.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 11:21:28 AM)
Well it really had nothing to do with condoms. More like fucking is something I keep sacred for the one I've commited to. and he me. And for the sake of our overall continued sexual health. why is it confusing that a couple would regularly host bdsm parties at their dungeon? quote: ORIGINAL: JulieorSarah i've found this thread illuminating and confusing at the same time. i posted a thread a while back asking if it was possible to have a mutually exclusive relationship between a Dom and sub. (I'd originally listed myself as a sub looking for a monogomous relationship ... and monogomous meant different things to different people ... we'd get past the first meeting and would be looking at playing and his 'friends were there to join in! i've been looking for a way to describe what i'm seeking that is as clear as possible) There were three replies the last i looked and all said yes. But one couple regularly hosted play parties in the dungeon. This confused me. After the posts above, i've a better understanding ... i hate condoms and just don't want to use them once the appropriate time has passed ... and this soft and hard swapping kinda makes sense ... but i can't see it applying to bdsm play ... there's too many hard and soft ... terms in there already! I can see the need for a label particularly when stating what you do / don't do and what you do / don't want... the difficulty will be in having the same meaning understood by those that see/read it.

farglebargle -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 3:46:07 PM)
"I don't mind sharing our eroticism, but we're not going to fuck."

Vendaval -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 3:51:16 PM)
Slut lite

corsetgirl -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 4:00:13 PM)
I was on another website that states "Monogamy with room to play". Maybe that is you?

candystripper -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 4:06:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss : When we met I told him I was monogomous, and in a way I am, because I woudn't out an out fuck someone else when I have a SO, and I do not want others joining our relationships full time, their only rolew in our relationship would be fuck budies, not partners but I would enjoy and I am wired to enjoy playing with others, in ways that does not include fucking. Ie fingering an sex toys and such. So would I be half way monogomous? How would you lable that? It doesn't matter at all how I would label it -- it isn't what many people would assume you meant when you said 'I am monogamous'. It's best to be very, very clear with all your partners about your sexual conduct. candystripper

hizgeorgiapeach -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 4:32:26 PM)
Soft Swing, if both of you are involved and no genital to genital contact is going on other than with your SO. Give me a yell on the other side, and I can give you the web addy of a swingers' site I'm on that might help you figure things out a bit easier. Good site, good folks, not at all judgemental or problematic about those of us who are involved in both swing and other aspects of kink, and (with the exception of one or two couples that are generally viewed as snobs) exceedingly helpful to newcomers with questions.

candystripper -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 5:06:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DomAviator What do I call someone who wont fuck? A wasted date LOL. *snorts diet coke all over the pc* Laffing -- hey DA -- news flash -- the 1970's are over! Put away your Disco ball and your leisure suit and walk slowly to your front door, LMAO. candystripper

YourhandMyAss -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 7:58:03 PM)
fargle and corset girl I love those:)

DomAviator -> RE: What would you call someone who doesn't fuck others when involved with a SO but will play? (7/3/2008 8:33:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: candystripper quote: ORIGINAL: DomAviator What do I call someone who wont fuck? A wasted date LOL. *snorts diet coke all over the pc* Laffing -- hey DA -- news flash -- the 1970's are over! Put away your Disco ball and your leisure suit and walk slowly to your front door, LMAO. candystripper Candy, I dont need the leisure suit and disco ball Im quite the effective trophy hunter LOL. Hell, I can get rabidly Baptist green eyed Walgreens girls to be begging - "Put it in my ass please! Make me your slut"! [:D] What can I say, gold wings = damp panties and Jerimiah Weed makes skirts fall off LOL!

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