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earthycouple -> RE: "mixed" marriages (7/9/2008 5:09:18 PM)
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When I met the vanilla man I am now married to, I was right up front before we ever even went on a date. This is who I am, if you want me you take all of me. We've been together 6 years, are amazingly happy and life is wonderful. I never hid ANY part of who I am and made sure he understood everything. He's open minded enough to learn what I have to teach even if the doing part isn't for him. We have pre discussed acceptable boundaries which we both trust the other to uphold at all times. He knows without a doubt I love him....enough so that he will tell anyone who asks he knows there to be three truths in life 1. We all die. 2. What we put out into the world comes back to us. 3. Donna loves me. He's right. Donna, no matter who she lays her head next to at night, no matter who she has tied up in the Rainbow Room, no matter who's lap she's strewn across, no matter who she's kissing. She loves him. And that's what matters. We love each other without reserve and accept our differences. I am free to be who I am each and every day as is he. I'd not change a thing.
He will never be the "level of kink" that I am...but he's certainally not vanilla anymore either....how can he be married to a woman with a live in BDSM counterpart?
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