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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 4:38:25 PM   
LexiTempest


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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Why so much hate for the younger pros currently? Jeebus, if you don't want to pay, don't pay, it's not like I'm going to come after you like a girlscout on crack.

Lexi, getting mad only encourages them. :p You have to learn to roll your eyes at the 'OMG WHORE' accusations on this board.

OP- don't worry about scaring off nilla girlfriends. It just means you don't waste too much time before finding out you aren't compatable. Go check out some munches, maybe a club or two if you have them near you, and don't, don't make the desperate, mouthbreather approach like some poor guys do. It's a lil scary. :P Pics are encouraged, you may not even get a second glance if you don't put *something* up. That being said, make sure the pic works for you, not against you.



I know... it just pisses Me off that I'm getting attacked when I'm just trying to help someone.

If they want to debate it, fine, I'll join in. But they attack Me when I'm not even talking to them, and then I get in trouble. F that.


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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 4:40:33 PM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		It's going to happen, don't stress about it. :P  You'll get modspanked, whereas if you leave them alone, they'll eventually find something shiny to entertain themselves with. 

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 4:56:47 PM   
Politesub53


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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

And apparently an envelope with Tribute doesn't hurt either.

chia* (the pet)


Sighs.... bro you are getting way too cynical.

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 5:05:34 PM   
Politesub53


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Why so much hate for the younger pros currently? Jeebus, if you don't want to pay, don't pay, it's not like I'm going to come after you like a girlscout on crack.




Just remember the hate comes from a minority and not the majority. May i go ponder girlscouts on crack please ?

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 8:51:49 PM   
chiaThePet


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ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel

chia!!! You are terrible!!! Remind me to never be drinking a soda and reading your posts ever again!!!
 
And by the way... I have tiny feet.

~~wanders off to find the windex to clean her monitor~~

Jewel


Yes Ma'am Ms Jewel, sometimes I am just terrible. But most people here
"get me" and what I am about.

Others just start shrieking and stomping their feet.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 8:54:58 PM   
chiaThePet


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ORIGINAL: LexiTempest

Yep, My feet are big, and they're fabulous!

Too bad they don't have a snaggletooth smiley for you!



Actually, I believe that would be too bad for you, wouldn't it?

On both accounts I might add.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 9:02:33 PM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Why so much hate for the younger pros currently? Jeebus, if you don't want to pay, don't pay, it's not like I'm going to come after you like a girlscout on crack.

Lexi, getting mad only encourages them. :p You have to learn to roll your eyes at the 'OMG WHORE' accusations on this board.

-Lynn (who has bigger feet than she'd like to admit anyway)



Personally, I wasn't aware of a sudden wave of hate towards young, ahem, Pros
per say. I simply made a point here and the insults began to fly. And me being
the docile little submissive I am, simply jumped in for the tit for tat play which
followed. Hang on..........................nope, went back and checked, and nobody
called anyone a "whore" here. Nobody even brought up the word, but you.

Last but certainly not least, with all these queen size tootsies, would anyone be
interested in a traveling road show of "RiverDance"? Just asking.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 9:06:55 PM   
chiaThePet


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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

It's going to happen, don't stress about it. :P  You'll get modspanked, whereas if you leave them alone, they'll eventually find something shiny to entertain themselves with. 


I have a shiny quarter. I suppose putting it in an envelope would be entertaining.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 9:07:32 PM   
RedMagic1


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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
nope, went back and checked, and nobody
called anyone a "whore" here. Nobody even brought up the word, but you.

Dude.  It happened.  You missed it.  It was ugly.  What you are saying is not true, though there is no longer a way you can verify that.  It wouldn't be a bad thing to back off, given the context.


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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 9:12:21 PM   
chiaThePet


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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

And apparently an envelope with Tribute doesn't hurt either.

chia* (the pet)


Sighs.... bro you are getting way too cynical.


When I was little, there was this kid in the neighborhood who would always
show up when other children were being scolded. He'd clasp his hands
behind his back, lower his eyes to the ground, kick into the sand and say,
"I sawed him do it I did Mrs. Buttercup Ma'am, I's did, I's did. Then
all the Mothers would pat him on the head and give him a piece of candy.

"Memories, pressed between the pages of my mind".

chia* (the pet)

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You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 9:17:02 PM   
chiaThePet


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
nope, went back and checked, and nobody
called anyone a "whore" here. Nobody even brought up the word, but you.

Dude.  It happened.  You missed it.  It was ugly.  What you are saying is not true, though there is no longer a way you can verify that.  It wouldn't be a bad thing to back off, given the context.




What are you now? My stepmother or something?

chia* (the pet)



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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 9:21:40 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Yep.  The wicked one.

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 9:32:46 PM   
Lynnxz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Why so much hate for the younger pros currently? Jeebus, if you don't want to pay, don't pay, it's not like I'm going to come after you like a girlscout on crack.

Lexi, getting mad only encourages them. :p You have to learn to roll your eyes at the 'OMG WHORE' accusations on this board.

-Lynn (who has bigger feet than she'd like to admit anyway)



Personally, I wasn't aware of a sudden wave of hate towards young, ahem, Pros
per say. I simply made a point here and the insults began to fly. And me being
the docile little submissive I am, simply jumped in for the tit for tat play which
followed. Hang on..........................nope, went back and checked, and nobody
called anyone a "whore" here. Nobody even brought up the word, but you.

Last but certainly not least, with all these queen size tootsies, would anyone be
interested in a traveling road show of "RiverDance"? Just asking.

chia* (the pet)


I know you are only trying to do the cute funny thing, but there actually have  been quite a few vicious remarks flying around, mainly from day old trolls, but still. You have been poking at her ever since she started posting, for nothing else than having a website, and doing this professionally.

If you don't like pros, that's up to you, I don't have a problem with it. I do have an issue with regular posters giving people shit without a good reason. Some people deserve a smack to the back of the head- Lexi doesn't, at least from what I've seen- she's not scamming anyone, she makes it clear that she's a professional, she's not out fishing for complements, and she's not demanding horrible wank material.

I don't get the hostility, honestly.


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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 9:39:46 PM   
chiaThePet


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Yep.  The wicked one.


And we all know how that little fairy tale ended, don't we.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 9:50:58 PM   
chiaThePet


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Status: offline 		I'm responsible for my own remarks, no one elses.

Lexi is the one who flew off the handle here, not me.

The first "insults" came from her mouth, not mine.

Humor, sense of.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 10:29:47 PM   
stingerd86


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Status: offline 		I have to say I found this thread very interesting. I've been having a related problem. I have been baffled by the contacting of new potential friends for just a simple "hello, would you like to be friends" sort of message. I can rather understand why the domme members of the community give so few responses though. The inboxes must be utterly full. But I have to say I've had the best luck doing exactly as most of the advice gives with personalized messages highlighting interests and profile features of said dommes. I was curious though if there was a better way when I stumbled upon this gem of a thread.
thank you all for confirming my understandings and answering some of my remaining curiousities. Its great because I didnt even need to ask. :D

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/10/2008 10:52:38 PM   
chiaThePet


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Status: offline 		Yeah, sure, just wait until you run out of envelopes.

They'll wipe that smile right off your face.

Ok, so I'm incorrigible, get over it.

chia* (the pet)

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You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/11/2008 2:21:59 AM   
undergroundsea


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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
I simply made a point here and the insults began to fly.


I read it differently.

LexiTempest posted a sincere response to the OP. You then posted what seems to be a sarcastic reference to her. If there was doubt about whether you were sarcastically referring to her versus making a general comment about tribute, your subsequent posts tilt the matter in favor of a sarcastic reference.

If your first post was instead intended to be a general comment with an intent towards a humorous reference, why not clarify that you were poking fun without any ill will?

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/11/2008 6:43:54 AM   
chiaThePet


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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
I simply made a point here and the insults began to fly.


I read it differently.



Isn't this the whole point of where this band wagon has traveled?

Isn't that the whole point of the forums here at the lovely collarme hive?

Some like it hot, some like it cold, and some like it in the pot four days old.

Sarcastic? Moi? Are you kidding me here? I eat sarcasm for breakfast.

My response to the thread, whether sarcastic, sugar coated, dipped in shit,
covered in honey and rolled in oats, is "my" response. I'm not one who
generally asks permission here before stating an opinion, forgive me that.
But also forgive me that I "won't go changing to try and please you".

This, and my "playful" response to Lexi's Time Wasters thread had her
immediately entering the "name-calling" arena. So much so in that thread
that the mods removed our exchange there. Hell, I didn't come on board
here or there spouting, "you blood sucking, wallet lifting Pocono prostitute",
but one would think I did. Gallant chaps all of you for stepping up. Yawn.

This I will say, I am sorry when anyone unintentionally suffers the slings and
arrows of this wonderful little corner of the world we so adore and love.
But when you step in the arena, it doesn't come with a force-field to protect
and shelter you from varying points of view.

Lexi's reaction here causes me to take pause of whether or not she would be
one in whom I would place my vulnerability. Professional, or otherwise.

I do apologize to her for the direction and tone our interaction has taken.

But I don't walk on egg shells, I scramble the hell out of em. That's me.

Nice talking to you sea, your pecs always get me hot. Just sayin.

chia* (the pet) 

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Love is a many splendid sting.

You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

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RE: How should i introduce myself - 7/11/2008 6:48:36 AM   
ThundersCry


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Such a good boy chia...
 
Just be you...
 
Some people are wayyyyyyyyyyyy to serious....here!
 
<drops a  new box of envelopes and a roll of  new quarters at your feet>
 
 

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