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DomAviator -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/8/2008 9:19:08 PM)
Tell her that shes almost as good as her sister Cassie LOL [:D] Fart, after eating a dozen deviled eggs,. Start playing with her nipples twisting vigorously as you say Come In Tokyo!!! Turn on Star Trek. Jam your thumb up her ass while mimicing the crocodile hunter saying "CRIKEE SHES A BEAUTY!" Start popping zits on her ass and telling her about this boil you once had.... enough tips there?

Vendaval -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/8/2008 9:21:38 PM)
Start an endless monotone, monologue on obscure sports statistics in the middle of sex. You may well go to sleep in the process too, so both people will miss out. Don't expect a repeat performance with the same audience though. [sm=sleepy.gif]

NeedingMore220 -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/8/2008 9:26:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong quote: ORIGINAL: Daddystouch Simple enough query: Are there any techniques for creating ruined orgasms in females? Beer/smoker's breath, baggy boxers, lousy kissing, and the threat of withholding chocolate. A ruined orgasm assumes that the man was somewhat capable of getting her close to cumming. The above described person wouldn't get near me, let alone get me close to the edge. lol

bipolarber -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/8/2008 9:26:54 PM)
Generally, just be a typical male in bed.... (don't give a shit of she gets there or not... or be so unobservant that you think you're the greatest lover she's ever seen.) ...or just revert to vanilla.

Missokyst -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/8/2008 9:28:19 PM)
He'd be history. I'd always feel he was trying to limit my ability because his own ability to orgasm was not multiple. Kyst

AquaticSub -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 12:40:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddystouch Simple enough query: Are there any techniques for creating ruined orgasms in females? Tell them you think the condom broke?

opposingtwilight -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 12:42:09 AM)
That just ain't right. [:'(]

Daddystouch -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 12:43:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cantilena quote: ORIGINAL: Daddystouch ...snipped... Sometimes I wonder if I'm a straight female dom who happens to like girls and be in a man's body... Come again? (sorry, bad pun.) No, seriously, you lost me with that one. I actually did sit here and try to figure it out... [:D] What I was getting at, which I think the posts since then have only added to, is that I seem to be in to some stuff that male subs/female dominants like (enforced chastity, orgasm denial, ruined orgams etc) that male dominants/female subs are generally not into. There's a lot of girls saying they'd hate that and so far as that they'd leave anyone that did it to them - but isn't chastity and ruined orgasms pretty common for male subs? Of course, I wouldn't need a sub to necessarily like a ruined orgasm/orgasm denial/whatever per se, just being in a relationship where that can happen. If she hates a ruined orgasm but loves a relationship where she can be punished with one, or where she is prepared to endure something intensely unpleasant for me then that's ok too. I think... Weird, I'd definitely not describe myself as a sadist, y'all are making me out to be an evil SOB :P

opposingtwilight -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 12:43:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DomAviator Start popping zits on her ass and telling her about this boil you once had.... I think I just threw up a little in my mouth. Thank you.

opposingtwilight -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 12:45:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddystouch quote: ORIGINAL: cantilena quote: ORIGINAL: Daddystouch ...snipped... Sometimes I wonder if I'm a straight female dom who happens to like girls and be in a man's body... Come again? (sorry, bad pun.) No, seriously, you lost me with that one. I actually did sit here and try to figure it out... [:D] What I was getting at, which I think the posts since then have only added to, is that I seem to be in to some stuff that male subs/female dominants like (enforced chastity, orgasm denial, ruined orgams etc) that male dominants/female subs are generally not into. There's a lot of girls saying they'd hate that and so far as that they'd leave anyone that did it to them - but isn't chastity and ruined orgasms pretty common for male subs? Of course, I wouldn't need a sub to necessarily like a ruined orgasm/orgasm denial/whatever per se, just being in a relationship where that can happen. If she hates a ruined orgasm but loves a relationship where she can be punished with one, or where she is prepared to endure something intensely unpleasant for me then that's ok too. I think... Weird, I'd definitely not describe myself as a sadist, y'all are making me out to be an evil SOB :P I think one reason the whole ruined orgasm thing is a more common fetish for male submisisves and not so common for females has something to do with the fact that most men orgasm more easily than women. I -hate- it when a dominant tries to tell me not to orgasm or to only orgasm at the exact moment he grants permission. Its hard enough to get there as it is.

Vendaval -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 1:05:43 AM)
...and then roll over and start snoring. quote: ORIGINAL: bipolarber Generally, just be a typical male in bed.... (don't give a shit of she gets there or not... or be so unobservant that you think you're the greatest lover she's ever seen.) ...or just revert to vanilla.

WyldHrt -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 1:21:57 AM)
quote: Generally, just be a typical male in bed.... (don't give a shit of she gets there or not... or be so unobservant that you think you're the greatest lover she's ever seen.) ...or just revert to vanilla. Well said, that would do it [:'(]

ownedgirlie -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 1:22:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddystouch What I was getting at, which I think the posts since then have only added to, is that I seem to be in to some stuff that male subs/female dominants like (enforced chastity, orgasm denial, ruined orgams etc) that male dominants/female subs are generally not into. There's a lot of girls saying they'd hate that and so far as that they'd leave anyone that did it to them - but isn't chastity and ruined orgasms pretty common for male subs? Of course, I wouldn't need a sub to necessarily like a ruined orgasm/orgasm denial/whatever per se, just being in a relationship where that can happen. If she hates a ruined orgasm but loves a relationship where she can be punished with one, or where she is prepared to endure something intensely unpleasant for me then that's ok too. I think... Weird, I'd definitely not describe myself as a sadist, y'all are making me out to be an evil SOB :P I experience this quite a bit. I just don't call them "ruined" because, if it's what the man wants, it can't be ruined, can it? He will bring me to an edge and have me hold it until my eyes are welling up from pain. Maybe he'll let me cum; maybe he won't. Maybe he'll start me and then cut it off in a flash. I don't always know what he'll do. Yes, it hurts. Do I care? Well, it depends if he's happy and amused by it or not. For me, paining me through my orgasms is as perfectly acceptable as striking me with a belt, or any other kind of pain. It feeds his sadistic streak, and it allows me to feel his power over me, which I love. The idea of him owning my orgasms means he gets to do with them what he wants.

NeedingMore220 -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 6:41:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddystouch Of course, I wouldn't need a sub to necessarily like a ruined orgasm/orgasm denial/whatever per se, just being in a relationship where that can happen. If she hates a ruined orgasm but loves a relationship where she can be punished with one, or where she is prepared to endure something intensely unpleasant for me then that's ok too. I think... Weird, I'd definitely not describe myself as a sadist, y'all are making me out to be an evil SOB :P I suppose when used as an occasional thing, I could deal with it. I was with someone who had me on an orgasm schedule - maybe 4 a month, and I only got to see him maybe once a month ... that led to a very frustrated woman. For me it's more of a destructive thing and his not understanding me rather than a sign of his control. I couldn't concentrate, was getting cranky ... I'm more of a once-a-day kinda gal. ;-)

accipitres -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 6:46:30 AM)
Another orgasm ruiner for me is "cum now!" Instant performance anxiety, and out of my body and into my head. "Now? Like this second? Sheesh. I'm not ready THIS second! Should I fake one to get him to shut up? Should I tell him and enter the big 'I'm not ready discussion'? Fuck! Why did he do that?! I'll never cum now!"

opposingtwilight -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 6:47:54 AM)
I do that too ...

thishereboi -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 6:47:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddystouch Sometimes I wonder if I'm a straight female dom who happens to like girls and be in a man's body... Maybe it's your pic? Oh and if you like girls, then you would be a lesbian or you would be bi. Straight women like men.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 6:59:53 AM)
for me - when he starts talking/asking questions when i get to that big O moment ...then everything's ruined.

NeedingMore220 -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 7:01:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: accipitres "Now? Like this second? Sheesh. I'm not ready THIS second! Should I fake one to get him to shut up? Should I tell him and enter the big 'I'm not ready discussion'? Fuck! Why did he do that?! I'll never cum now!" Too funny! The stress of it all ....

pahunkboy -> RE: Ruined Orgasms For Women (7/9/2008 7:03:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DomAviator Tell her that shes almost as good as her sister Cassie LOL [:D] Fart, after eating a dozen deviled eggs,. Start playing with her nipples twisting vigorously as you say Come In Tokyo!!! Turn on Star Trek. Jam your thumb up her ass while mimicing the crocodile hunter saying "CRIKEE SHES A BEAUTY!" Start popping zits on her ass and telling her about this boil you once had.... enough tips there? why do i think this guy could ruin the 2nd coming of crist?? lol

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