From: Louisville, KY
Honestly, I know it is just a matter of restating what I have already said, but -
I believe all the people who say they 'never' fuck without positive proof of STD clean test - like I belive that no one EVER plays on the first date. Yeah, right.
LOTS of people, I am sure, do indeed wait for those tests before they would consider becoming fluid bonded - and LOTS of people really do NEVER play on the first date -
But, this is just so very much - the 'right' thing to say and do, that no one is ever going to admit otherwise.
Well, almost no one :)
KOM, you know I hold your house in the highest esteem, and I thank you for your willingness to be forthcoming and honest about your house in this thread.
It is amazing - it annoys me that something online can annoy me, because I am so annoyed by all the people who are 'annoyed' at certain types of threads and sharing, I think it has the effect of kinding of shutting down open back and forth in a forum,
But, the truth is, the 'tell me how right I am Master is so bad and wrong and mean and let me word this so NO ONE will disagree with me, so I can go tell him so!' really does get on my nerves. You can see right through these posts - these people don't want an opinion, they know what they think, they want a chorus to sing behind them.
I have been accused, on occasion, of being a little bit out there about what Master and I say or do - sometimes I whine. (and, yes, Master really doesn't mind - He knows who the boss is). So, if I come here whining - I am a bad slave and I shouldn't be exposing my Master to such critism. And, honestly, though Master is okay with it, I see their point; I don't do it often, but I won't promise to never do it again because it is fun and blows off steam.
But I can't even imagine asking a real opinion of a bunch of - even 'not strangers', as I am a regular opinion and have come to trust and respect some who post on these boards. But I can't imagine coming in here with a real issue that I really disgree with Master and putting it out for everyone, with only my side of the story, to throw Master is a bad light, just to garner 'ammunition' for a disagreement with Master.
Oh, I don't mind people who really ask for opinions - but, like I said, you can tell the difference. If I came in here and started a post and said something like, "I am a severe diabettic. Master wishes to practice Bastinado. I am a slave, so He says I can't say no. (sung to the tune of 'I'm just a girl who can't say no'). How can I tell him to stop? I don't want to lose a foot!' what kind of posts do you think I would get? (other than wanting him to stop - most of that is true, although it leaves out other infomration, like that we have talked to my poditrist.)
My point is, I could get the entire of CM to take back with me and throw in Master's face. Why would I do that? If I wanted a real opinion, I'd say, 'What do others know about this? does anyone else do this? what do you do to minimize the danger? Here's the research we've done - here's what it says - I have some concerns, but I see Master's points as well....' I will still get some who tell me 'Bad Master! You will lose a foot!', but not so close to the 100% that the ammunition collectors are looking for. It is the ammunition collection tatic I hate, I guess.
“If you never did you should. These things are fun and fun is good”
~Dr. Seuss quote