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LadyPact -> RE: -=Top 10 BDSM FAQs For Doms & Subs=- (7/14/2008 3:30:57 PM)
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Actually RS, you have a couple on your list that are also on Mine. However, Mine are usually more geared to the term "sensual sadist", which I use quite often. Here are some others.
1. What does it mean when you say you are poly?
To Me, it means that I can love more than one person, and don't expect one person to fill all of My needs.
2. Are you taking on new submissives?
No. It's rare that I take anyone as a submissive until there's been a period where I have had them as a bottom and gotten to know them better as a person. Much like other people "date" before they enter into a committed relationship. You don't meet someone one day and make them your spouse the next.
3. What do you mean when you say "play" or "scene"?
For Me, it doesn't mean sex. It means I'm going to inflict sensations on you until I am satisfied. Usually, it has something to do with a pain related activity.
4. Do you really want to hurt me? (Sorry to Boy George and Culture Club)
Yes, as a matter of fact, I do. I happen to prefer if you like being hurt, but taking pain, just because I want you to, can be fun as well.
5. Why do you say in your profile that you're not interested in people in other places?
Because, other than friendship, there is nothing you can offer Me that I can not get from the bottoms right here in meatlife. Please take note of number 4 above. If you're on the other coast, chances are that My want to express My sadism isn't happening with you, and I would prefer to spend My time pursuing what makes Me happy.
6. Is that really you in the pictures? (This one happens a lot.)
Yes, it is Me. Sometimes, when I'm in a less that favorable mood, I tell people it isn't. Instead, I tell them that I've put up pics of the actress I've hired to play Me at parties.
7. Do you really believe in all that leather/BDSM/lifestyle stuff.
Yes, I do. I'm not saying you have to. I just do what works for Me.
(Since there were a couple that were the same, last but not least....)
8. Why do you do the "Caps" thing?
It has largely to do with the fact that it is a directive that I have given My sub in his written words. When he writes to Me or posts on this site, he has been told to use this style of writing. It is a reminder of his submission to Me. Though not the norm, it is to help reinforce his place in a D/s dynamic. I can not ask it to be important to him, if it is also not important to Me.
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