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sujuguete -> RE: Internal Enslavement (7/22/2008 7:47:57 PM)
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ORIGINAL: barelynangel
And for the record since people seems so caught up on the concept of she can't leave. A woman who is enslaved and mastered by the Man is HELD in such a relationship because HIS mastery of her and hold on her fulfills quite awesomely her needs. So when there are days that she in her very conscious and stable and fully comprehending mind says fuck this i am out of here. She is and does WALK toward the door as the Man simply watches her and he says she is free to go. BUT what no one has taken the time to recognize in their self-righteous appaulled concept of this life of woman, is with each step she takes her needs sing out to her and she knows she has a choice -- to break free of the mastery and live in misery trying to be something she is not -- free...... OR she recognizes that while she may be having a fuck off to him day, she doesn't WANT to live without his hold, his mastery, his enslavement because that is what compels her to her knees before him. So this concept of can't leave is NOT the BIG BAD MAN not letting her leave, its a woman knowing when her needs are met even if her mind may be having a fuck off day. Think of it as a safeguard for a woman, she may do something stupid on a whim and say i am outta here, but instead his hold on her stops her from harming herself by actuallly leaving the one thing she needs in her life.
IE slaves are NOT ultra submissives, they are NOT women who CANNOT regroup if the relationship ends. They are NOT women who cannot exist without a Man's mastery though to be honest it sucks to have too and she doesn't want too. And show me ONE woman in any D/s or M/s relationship that doesn't have to regroup and get her bearings when she is suddenly set free from the dynamic -- so why use that against women in IE relationships. These women are simply very lucky women who are able to live out their lives in a concept that fulfills a biting, aching and painful need because a Man has choosen and determined her existance in his life and he is capable of holding her within same. Believe me, without that from a Man, it sucks and you never ever stop seeking it because your needs ache for it.
Thank you for posting this, angel.
I imagine there are women out there with so little self-worth that they will do just about anything to hang on to "their man," but that has nothing to do with IE or slavery at all. These are the women who have a harder time regrouping when a relationship fails, and who will probably cling to the first man they can find to have their fragile self-esteem boosted, even if the man wants nothing more than a sex toy to use at his whim.
As you so eloquently put it, women who need the mastery of a confident, powerful man (not just any man) will regroup after a failed relationship and will wait for the right man to come along, if he ever does. They will not fall for the first man who claims to be a master, because his actions over time will prove whether he is or is not capable of mastering a slave.
Those who abuse others are weak in spirit, and one who is weak will not be successful in accomplishing IE in a slave. Trying to use bullying and intimidation only breeds fear and contempt in a slave, not a desire to serve. It takes self-confidence and strength of character to be successful in enslaving another, along with self-sacrifice on the part of the master.
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