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Kinky question for cuckolds.... - 7/20/2008 8:03:31 PM

AAkasha

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For those submissive men who enjoy cuckolding, either in fantasy or real life - here's something I have been pondering as I move my own relationship toward some outside sexual encounters.

In a scenario where your Mistress/wife/girlfriend fucks another man, is it more about the sexual aspect of it for you (the penetration) or are you equally aroused by a wide variety of acts she may engage in either right in front of you or tell you about later, such as:

1. * Him going down on her and providing oral sex/orgasm
2. * Deep, intimate kisses, foreplay
3. * Cuddling/spooning/soft affection

For some reason, I get the feeling that #2 and #3 may make some submissive men more uncomfortable than just straight fucking, but then again, maybe I am completely wrong. So often you read about cuckolding being about the sexual act, but how do subs feel about their Mistresses getting emotionally intimate with their male partners?

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RE: Kinky question for cuckolds.... - 7/21/2008 9:08:50 AM

subjtoyou

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I love it when she has a great sexual experience and comes home to tell me about it. If she goes back too often or acts like it is emotional for her, then I get uneasy. I have been in this situation with 3 different women. It works great with no problems on my part when it is just sex for her fun. One time the woman had sex with 6 different men in a single weekend including a couple of times with me and ended her weekend with the 2 of us together and it was great!
The one that every sub fears also happened to me, she ended up leaving me for someone she had sex with. It did not stop me from being in my current relationship where she has sex with others, but for her it is just sex as in she finds them hot and just wants to have sex.

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RE: Kinky question for cuckolds.... - 7/21/2008 9:26:50 AM

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I have had a lot of men interested in cuckolding write to me. Some want the humiliation of being told throughout that this man can do better than they can (extra humiliation). Some want to watch from a semi-hidden place, others want to be out in the open, and still others want to partake - often by preparing both the man and the woman or having the job of "cleaning" them afterward. It seems highly individualistic.

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RE: Kinky question for cuckolds.... - 7/21/2008 10:33:43 AM

slavekal

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The more intimate, romantic acts are harder. F&#&ing can be impersonal, meaningless. It's all the other stuff that is so difficult. The going to dinner, holding hands, kissing, etc. That's the stuff that hurts.

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RE: Kinky question for cuckolds.... - 7/21/2008 12:48:02 PM

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i am a sub but i cant speak for ever sub male or female .there are many things that can and or do go on when in the cuking and im sure you know them and can add more to them but here just a few that have seen and done .

1. getting wife or her man / bF ready
2. the humiliation of being made (aka) forced watch and learn how too please her
3. being dominated by the other male .
4 submitting too another Male
5. clean up after on both '
6 being subservant too them and for them
7 this one some do some dont crossdressing , wearing panties , and bras , stocking , infront of the other male as way of showing your place or submisson.

but these are justa few im sure there a list i even came across a how much of a cuckhold are you tets/quiz

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RE: Kinky question for cuckolds.... - 7/23/2008 11:47:24 PM

JackWaits

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Akasha,

for me, as a married HNG (I'm assuming establishing credibility is important...) humiliation is a huge factor. And what is essential
to being humiliated is not being ignored. That kills all fantasy. Almost anything else goes, if the spirit remains.
Humiliation redefines the relationship and introduces an anxiety that for a select few (I wish) is continuous titillation.

Actually when I've read your stories I've often suspected that you were a man (please forgive! but I know
I'm not the first to think that either), because you possess disturbing insight into male humiliation.
I say this, not just to flatter, - no wait, actually it was. I'm a huge fan.

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RE: Kinky question for cuckolds.... - 7/24/2008 2:35:03 AM

polarbear1963

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I find the more intimate She is when cuckholding me the more degaded I feel. No matter what the key for me is knowing She is doing precisely what She wants and that my fears and degradations are how She wishes me to feel. Knowing that the very center of my existence is enjoying Herself without me makes me even more dedicated to being a good slave for Her.

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RE: Kinky question for cuckolds.... - 7/24/2008 9:15:25 AM

JackWaits

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yeah, but how would it feel if she simply didn't care how degraded you felt (maybe she wants out - but can't
for financial reasons, kids etc.). Sure it could be fun for a while, but honestly, for how long?

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