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frazzle121 -> Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 4:09:07 PM)

Any advice on treating the area would be appreciated.

Added note, I'm allergic to most pain meds, plasters etc.

Using sterile dressings at mo.

Yes i know this isnt meant to be comfortable. But look on His face, tells me this isnt looking as it should be, and walking shouldnt make me cringe.




Lynnxz -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 4:14:08 PM)

Is it a large area? Inflamed and red? Does it give off a bad smell? Was it professionally done- or did he have an epiphany and decide he was qualified to burn skin off of another human being?

Not a lot of info here- :-/

See if you can get some Silvadene. It's very good in preventing and treating infection. Keep it covered, and try not to move the area. I'm guessing you got it done on your rear end, hopefully you don't have a desk job where you are sitting on it all day.

As for being painful... burns hurt! You've just seared through layers of skin, leaving it open for all kinds of crap to get in there.




frazzle121 -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 4:19:15 PM)

Yes its on my rear.

he said he'd done before.   I have my doubts.

I now have to deal with after effects.

never heard of silverdene, im UK based.      I also have so many allergies i worry about alternate effects.

Im using sterile dressings, no cream. when possible just leaving it open to fresh air, ( not practical if anyone visiting.)




hopelessfool -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 4:23:42 PM)

frazzle I would go to the parmacy and ask to speak to one of the pharmicists explain " My friend has sburns from grilling and is allergic to xyz what would you recommend to help its healing process"




NormalOutside -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 4:23:54 PM)

Not a good situation.  As a medical professional, I'd like to have a look.... but I'd probably poke at it and snicker when you winced.  Stupid sadistic urges....

Anyway, good luck.  Doesn't sound like fun.  Might consider a doctor, even though that could be embarr-ass-ing..... better than serious infection, permanent damage, etc.




frazzle121 -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 4:32:28 PM)

It isnt infected yet.         Im just losing layers of skin everytime dressing is removed.

Normaloutside    You aint touching it. LOL     mixed messages i can live without.

Ive gone to doctors with more embarrassing stuff, (a supposed Dom inserted something that he couldnt remove)  Me laughing prob didnt help.




NENewMexicoSub -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 4:34:33 PM)

Please go see a doctor. I am quite sure that Silvadene is available in the UK. I've used Silvadene on an open wound, and it really hastened the healing.

Silvadene is a cream, and it is not expensive here in the states. I think I paid $8 for a good sized container at the pharmacy back in April.

Leaving a burn exposed to the air is good, but if you have developed an infection due to ignorance on the part of the person branding you, just leaving it exposed is not going to deal with the infection.  If you do cover it, you really need to create a barrier, such as with a silicone based cream or ointment, between your skin and the sterile dressing to reduce irritation.

I was burned as a child, quite badly, and I was also living in the UK when it happened (my father was stationed there). Fortunately, I was able to receive immediate medical attention, and I have never scarred.

I do hope youo will seek immediate medical attention, and put as much distance between the person who 'branded' you, and yourself, as possible. He sounds very dangerous.  Anne




frazzle121 -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 4:41:49 PM)

He is not dangerous.

I agreed to this.

My reaction (physically) has not been as he expected.  Ok that maybe He hadnt done this before, or it could just be my warped system.

I think its my warped system.  al the creams etc he had would have been fine if i wasnt allergic.        Yes he should have checked first, but He's male. I'm not looking for miracles LOL.




christine1 -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 4:50:11 PM)

being male isn't an excuse for being dishonest and not checking beforehand the things that will keep his sub safe.  




frazzle121 -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 5:03:10 PM)

Sorry Christine.          But would you have asked a partner if a normal elastoplast was a problem.  He didnt.

Because of my allergies to everyday items, i sometimes forget to mention them. hell it takes a novel.   

I do tell people about the reactions to important stuff like morphine, ibuprofen.




hopelessfool -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 5:05:26 PM)

Then I suggest either going to the local drug store and asking for what they suggest, or to the doctors. You have a Severe burn, Its going to attract bacteria to it, You need to put something on it to keep it from becomming infected... I dont know what your allergic to so I cant offer advice on specific things.




christine1 -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 5:08:54 PM)

what i'm saying is, if he wanted to brand you, which he did, he should have thought it all the way through and if he had done it before he'd know about the after care issues.  i don't think it would be out of the ordinary to ask if you were allergic to any types of antibiotic creams or whatever else might be used.  i'm not trying to bash anyone, i just think that sometimes people get careless with really serious issues.




sirsholly -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 5:11:20 PM)

since you are allergy prone try using the cream on your inner elbow for 18-24 hours before you use it on an open wound. Telfa dressing (they do not stick to the wound ) are better than a standard gauze dressing which can adhere and take the new tissue growth off when removed.




frazzle121 -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 5:16:07 PM)

I'm not disagreeing with you.

He said he'd done this before. I now have my doubts.

Its been done. I was His anyway.   

I'm just looking for ways to help this heal without real infection setting in.

I've done everything i know, but my first aid training lists everything i cant use.

Joys of being able to treat others, not yourself.     when i did the training, allergies werent an issue.




Tantriqu -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 6:22:10 PM)

To brand without being trained is stupid.
To lie and say you've branded someone and then go ahead with the branding is assault. 
To read that you feel your body is to blame is saddening.

Whether he's a sadistic bully and/or liar is now beside the point. 

Burns can get infected with frightening speed, especially if he went too deep.  Don't look to a forum for treatment, but take this advice:
Get away from the computer and go to an Emergency room, and tell the doctors and nurses everything [they've heard it all before, and more]; no one ever died from embarrassment, but a lot of people get worse from delay.  Go now before your pride or misplaced loyalty turns into needing intravenous antibiotics and a skin or muscle graft. 
Even if it's not that serious, you'll feel better faster and have a better cosmetic result [as well as a tetanus shot].
And never trust a liar again.

RUN!!!!




Smith117 -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 6:28:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tantriqu
To lie and say you've branded someone and then go ahead with the branding is assault. 


Actually, most BDSM activities qualify as assault in the legal sense.




Lynnxz -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 6:37:29 PM)

It doesn't matter now about the logistics of him doing it. [8|] He's done it, and now her butt hurts! A lot of guys have that ridiculous ego thing going on... the same thing that keep them from stopping to ask directions when lost, and refusing help with the grill, is prolly the same thing that prevented her master from seeking guidance when giving someone a brand.

On a side note...fucking hugs to you! Allergic to Tylenol... and morphine.... poor girl, I think I'd have gone nuts a long time ago.

I'd check out Silvadene- it's sulfa based, and if you have ever had an allergic reaction to stuff like Bactra or Septra, you should avoid it. It does work wonders for burns, they use a stronger type in burn units, and it's great. Be careful... I'm not sure if it was Silvadene, or the other stuff that they called 'The Scream Cream' ... heh...might smart a little!




Smith117 -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 6:45:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
Guys have that rediculous ego thing going on... the same thing that keep them from stopping to ask directions when lost, and refusing help with the grill, is prolly the same thing that prevented her master from seeking guidance when giving someone a brand.


Not all guys have that. I for one refuse to do *anything* that I am not 100% confident in. Someone I knew once asked me to use a razor to scar her slightly. I refused because I'd never done it and wasn't about to try and learn on the fly when real skin and blood were concerned.




Lynnxz -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 6:47:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Smith117

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
Guys have that rediculous ego thing going on... the same thing that keep them from stopping to ask directions when lost, and refusing help with the grill, is prolly the same thing that prevented her master from seeking guidance when giving someone a brand.


Not all guys have that. I for one refuse to do *anything* that I am not 100% confident in. Someone I knew once asked me to use a razor to scar her slightly. I refused because I'd never done it and wasn't about to try and learn on the fly when real skin and blood were concerned.



Eep, didn't mean  to say that everyone had that issue... I edited it. ^_^




subexploring -> RE: Branding aftercare (7/26/2008 6:50:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: frazzle121

Yes its on my rear.

he said he'd done before.   I have my doubts.



You trust him to brand you, but you don't trust him not to lie to you?? Well, OK.




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