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Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 9:50:10 AM   
subeos


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Status: offline 		i have a person that is keeping me on her friends list. We do not even get along. In fact we were suppose to do a little triad with her Sir. i was under consideration at one time with Him. But, i called it quits. And it is annoying to me that she keeps me there. i think it is perhaps to see what i write. i even wrote her sir to tell him to get her to take me off the list. i think she is afraid that i know things and i might devulge them in my journal. The fact of the matter is she does not know all that went on between Him and i.  The fact that i am straight caused an alarm in her mind. Insecurity and envy caused the break-up. i know she is smart emough to click me off.
Any ideas or comments good, bad or indifferent are welcome.
slave eos
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RE: Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 9:51:56 AM   
CruelDesires


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Status: offline 		Block, delete and ignore. :-)

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RE: Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 10:32:36 AM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		Why allow her to control your emotions like this?  Perhaps she knows it bothers you so she wants to mess with your head?

Grow up, move on, ignore her.


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RE: Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 10:34:10 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Perhaps you are placing far more importance on such a trivial thing than she is. If she is ANYthing like me.......she doesn't even remember who is on her "friends" list.

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RE: Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 11:04:32 AM   
mistoferin


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Status: offline 		You do realize that she doesn't have to have you on her friends list in order to read what you write...right?

Why do you care? Is she stopping you from pursuing what you want out of life? Is she paying your bills? I'm on a lot of people's friends lists. Some of them I don't even know. I don't ever even think about it.

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RE: Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 11:12:27 AM   
AMaster


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Status: offline 		I usually delete people who I no longer have contact with form my friends list.  Not everyone botheres.

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RE: Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 11:47:20 AM   
pixidustpet


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Status: offline 		why do i keep sug, james, and fallcon on my friends lists?  sug died in 2001, james in 2004, fallcon in 2006.

i have other "friends"on lists that i havent talked to in years.  others so that i can keep them from messaging me (yahoo f-list, permablock).  what others do is up to them, not my problem.

kitten

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RE: Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 11:48:46 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Now that you've communicated to them that it bothers you they may be keeping it there just to get to you.  It looks like they are being successful in that endeavor.

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RE: Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 12:03:47 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Why do you care?  Life has so much more to offer than worrying about who is looking at your profile.

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RE: Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 12:06:06 PM   
subeos


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Status: offline 		Thank you, will do and go on about my life :D

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RE: Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 1:00:08 PM   
Raechard


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Maybe she wants to look popular by having the faces of a load of strangers on remote areas of the www, the technical term for this is Billy Facebook Mates or BFBM, I think from memory.
 

< Message edited by Raechard -- 7/30/2008 1:01:02 PM >

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RE: Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 1:25:52 PM   
pahunkboy


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Status: offline 		pull da bitches hair!!!

she probaly isnt aware of the item

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RE: Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 5:17:48 PM   
mefisto69


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Status: offline 		my guess is she secretly lusts to fist your ass

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RE: Why does she keep me on her friends list? - 7/30/2008 5:30:59 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		she misght be doing it out of spite to annoy you. Or she might just not bother taking you off, and putting the effort into it.
Dont put too much into it, I have people who have added me to their list whome I have never spoken to.. or mab eonce. who cares

DV


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