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Multiple Dildos - 7/30/2008 10:35:07 PM   
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Hey!  So, my master likes to put multiple dildos into my pussy.  So I was wondering how safe it is.  I can do three as of right now, and he always wants to do the next one.  We are gradually getting to bigger things to replace the dildos, but sometimes I feel as if it's too intense.  But I always get used to whatever I can do the more I do it.  Any advice on safety or whatever else?  Thanks :)
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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/30/2008 10:45:43 PM   
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I imagine there's going to be an eventually limit based on your body type and hip bones size and all that jazz. However, if he's going really slowly, and you're not ripping, then you're pretty safe. If there's excessive force and blood and intense pain involved, you're probably not so safe. Hopefully your master realizes there are limits to the human body...we can't just unhinge our hips and "eat" really big things like a snake can with his jaw (::wards off scary mental image::).

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/30/2008 11:08:46 PM   
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Sounds like it's time for a good fisting.

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/30/2008 11:32:16 PM   
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Aha thanks for the advice, Katie.  Sometimes theres a little bit of blood, but that's usually when we stop for the day. 
And about the fisting :)  Any advice on how to procede with double fisting?

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 6:08:27 AM   
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Sowishful 
my advice with double fisting is:
start with a single fist -
Lots of lube
patience
and lots of lube.

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p.s. Did I mention Lots of lube?

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 8:51:38 AM   
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jani.. I think you left out LOTS of lube
and equal amounts of patience




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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 9:36:01 AM   
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quote:

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Hey!  So, my master likes to put multiple dildos into my pussy.  So I was wondering how safe it is.  I can do three as of right now, and he always wants to do the next one.  We are gradually getting to bigger things to replace the dildos, but sometimes I feel as if it's too intense.  But I always get used to whatever I can do the more I do it.  Any advice on safety or whatever else?  Thanks :)


Guys piss and moan about pussys being too loose.  Why speed up the process?  You are only 18... doms come and go.  Protect your assets.

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 9:39:25 AM   
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One word:  kegels

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 9:52:15 AM   
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If I were you I would look into Anal play as well as the Anal Cavity is MUCH MORE forgiving when it comes to returing to elastic tention.

I would again worry about if this guy is a forever guy or not if he isn't you will have to ask yourself how far he has streched your pussy out and how much pleasure you will be giving vaginally for anyone who should come in the future.

Just saying.

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 9:56:00 AM   
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Thinks Steel has made a very good point.

Perhaps, invest in a good quality harness and strap-on for double penetration.

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 11:37:18 AM   
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can stuff like that really "ruin" a vagina though? I mean, children can be born through one, and those heads are kinda big. Does sex after a baby feel radically different or less pleasing? I dunno, I just hate the idea of a "loose vagina" ruining sex, when they're mostly a myth. I haven't participated in large insertion though, so I might be off.

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This is a totally ridiculous assumption. People have this bizarre misconception that somehow a woman's vagina can be stretched or altered by sexual activity. It can't. Remember that this is a region of the body that's designed to accommodate the head of a baby during delivery. After delivery, it returns to its normal size and function.


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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 12:41:02 PM   
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Wow so many different views and ideas!  Thanks everyone, i'll keep what you all said in mind.  : )

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 1:55:03 PM   
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Then explain Kegels? They have been Medically PROVEN to tighten the Vaginal Walls and shrink the Vaginal Cavity. If this is True why then is the opposite not true.

Even the Doc after the Midget was born suggested that andi do Kegel excercizes as it will help to return the Vaginal Canal to it's normal or better than normal tightness.

I will take the word of a Medical Doctor over Dr. Phil and the Whack Jobs he has had on his show, so that you know he has a documented history of leading people to believe they are talking to a Professional when in reality they are talking to someone with no credentials at all.

Careful who you quote.

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 1:55:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

One word:  kegels


... if no sucess: One other word: "Depends"   LOL

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 2:05:12 PM   
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Aha good one Lotus : )

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 3:07:02 PM   
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Hm. I donno but a while back I read some medical journal article where a woman's vaginal muscles sort of collapsed due to too much pressure forcing it open, and the woman in this case, had done the stretching pretty slowly, if I recall. She lost control of her bladder and bowels, and her vaginal walls and sex was then, if not impossible, awful for her. I can't really remember all the details. If I were you, I'd google this topic quite a bit and I'd ALSO consult with a couple medical professionals on this matter. It seems like a lot to risk when bit of research and effort (and money, drs aren't free, but how much would you pay to NOT have that happen to your body- I'd definitely pay much much more than a couple dr visits) any way... it all could save you from a catastrophy.

Okay, since I was so vague and foggy I did a bit of my own research and- am I glad I did! First of all I had to weed through many fake medical articles that were ads really for this one product--- frustrating, but not impossible.

The phrase I was looking for to describe that above article was "Pelvic Organ Prolapse"... here is a link to a women's health org. in london discussing in detail prolapses and how they are caused. Here is another link to causes of prolapses, from the same pamphlet. And on another site they discuss it saying "frequent straining can be contributing factors"... But the gist of it is that any over stretching can cause the different kinds of prolapes, and they include natural childbirth, since it is apparently effecting a large percent of the female population to varying degrees... So does that mean its really dangerous or bad for you? I think it honestly could be. And now, more than ever, I'd consult with a doctor. And I'd bring your Dom along (if you felt comfortable) to hear what the doctor has to say. Does that mean you should wholly stop? I probably wouldn't, but I would slow things down a bit until I had assessed the risks and could make a really thoughtful, informed decision. One the positive side, the third site I am linking you to says: "A woman with prolapse but no symptoms may be urged to practice Kegel exercises to reduce the chance that her condition will progress. Kegel exercises are a series of contractions that strengthen the pelvic floor. You squeeze two sets of pelvic floor muscles at the same time: those you would use to prevent yourself from passing gas and those you would tighten to stop urinating. Avoid contracting your stomach muscles. Try to do 30–40 pelvic contractions each day; you may want to divide them into three or four groups of 10 each, spread throughout the day. Squeeze and hold the contraction for 3–5 seconds; then rest for the same length of time. Build up to 10-second contractions, with 10 seconds of rest in between."  So maybe exercising them now could help avoid weakening those muscles from the stretching that you are currently consenting to. (But I'm not a doctor, I'm merely infering, you should ask a medical professional about all of this, I reiterate)

Additional links:
http://www.womenshealthlondon.org.uk/leaflets/prolapse/prolcauses.html
http://www.hmc.psu.edu/healthinfo/uz/vaginalorganprolapse.htm
http://www.health.harvard.edu/fhg/updates/update0805c.shtml
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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 3:56:14 PM   
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my ex MIL had pelvic floor prolapse.  she's had her uterous removed, and her bladder has been "tacked up" 5 different times now. 

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 4:01:54 PM   
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The phrase I was looking for to describe that above article was "Pelvic Organ Prolapse"... here is a link to a women's health org. in london discussing in detail prolapses and how they are caused. Here is another link to causes of prolapses, from the same pamphlet. And on another site they discuss it saying "frequent straining can be contributing factors"... But the gist of it is that any over stretching can cause the different kinds of prolapes, and they include natural childbirth, since it is apparently effecting a large percent of the female population to varying degrees...


Which is exactly why anytime you hear me sneeze, it's generally followed by "Oh shit!"

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 5:00:37 PM   
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OK - for that particular problem there is a simple easy little surgery using a mesh sling.Takes about 30 minutes and works wonderfully - and i should know - i am a member!

Stress urinary incontinence is very common with women, even those who haven't had children. And if you are in the "oh shit" brigade, there is an alternative to wearing a pad, and being careful to cross your legs when you have to sneeze.

I went to my favorite urologist, he did a cystoscope in the office - not painful, just a bit weird feeling, and i took a week off for the surgery and recovery. I think i took about 3 pain pills.

it took me about a year to get to where i didn't cross my legs when i sneezed - habits are hard to break!

anyway - you don't have to pee on yourself - and i highly recommend not smelling like a little old lady in a nursing home.

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RE: Multiple Dildos - 7/31/2008 6:52:35 PM   
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Which is exactly why anytime you hear me sneeze, it's generally followed by "Oh shit!"


Hah!  That one made me laugh out loud.  So very true ...

I'd be very careful in stretching yourself out too much.  Yes, a vagina is made for a baby's head to fit through, however that doesn't always come at no cost to the mom's body. 

As for the sling, kiwi ... it's something i've considered, but am not quite at that stage yet, though it is good advice!

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