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RE: "Mistress, may I approach you?" - 8/3/2008 8:15:01 PM

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That kind of faux protocol really annoys me, too, but I do prefer it to the UR hott call me types of mail that I get sometimes. It IS a a clue that I am probably not a good match for that person, though!

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RE: "Mistress, may I approach you?" - 8/3/2008 8:21:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

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ORIGINAL: beargonewild

Maybe sarcastically serious? lol

So darch.....may approach you? *grins*

Silly bear, you don't approach me... you approach Her http://www.collarme.com/bdsm/v/437308/rzcj/52068/details.htm

Seriously... i think that this "Mistress, may i approach you?" stuff really is chattiquette gone wrong.

Moi...silly????

I can see how that line can be irritating though I do know many subs who were required to follow this type of protocol or etiquette. At one time, I've had to use this with my former owner, especially when I had something to discuss with him.

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RE: "Mistress, may I approach you?" - 8/3/2008 8:23:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: beargonewild

I can see how that line can be irritating though I do know many subs who were required to follow this type of protocol or etiquette. At one time, I've had to use this with my former owner, especially when I had something to discuss with him.

The difference though, is that was with your owner, and not automatically "submitting" to some stranger a thousand miles away that you'll likely never meet.

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RE: "Mistress, may I approach you?" - 8/3/2008 9:19:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde
Seriously... i think that this "Mistress, may i approach you?" stuff really is chattiquette gone wrong.

I agree.. although, in this internet/text messaging world we live in (for better or worse), I do see it as a way of attempting - in most cases - of being polite..

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RE: "Mistress, may I approach you?" - 8/3/2008 9:38:15 PM

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Though I agree it's a redundancy as they have in fact approached ... I still prefer it to those who write in abbreviated txt spk and then continue to beg even when I have politely informed them that they are too young, on the wrong side of the world etc etc! Like, if you really want a Mistress, rule no 1 is to do as She says ... so if She says you are not suitable, believe it!

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RE: "Mistress, may I approach you?" - 8/4/2008 5:28:58 AM

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Like, if you really want a Mistress, rule no 1 is to do as She says ... so if She says you are not suitable, believe it!

Okay, Ma'amJay, I get that - but what if they don't really want a Mistress? What if they really want some cybersex, leading up to possibly even phone sex!, and some really great wank material?
Obeying you is really not an issue then, neither is your thinking you might or might not be a good 'match' - what's match got to do with it? Just get on the phone and talk dirty to me! NOW! cause I'm a slave and all....

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