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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 6/17/2005 8:22:45 PM   
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Hollywood has been portraying Bondage and BDSM in a negative light for years. Inm almost any movie these days there is a scene where the villain binds the hero or damsel in distress. If you look carefully at these scenes you will see some fairly good and erotic bondage. (Makes one wonder who’s tying up those stars). Recently I watched an episode of Law and Order in which the murdered victim was found attired in BDSM leathers and left in bondage. Pulp Fiction makes a large scene with a character fully bound in leather and tethered in a secret room of the basement of a couple of rednecks. Southpark the animated series has a number of kinky characters. I even find “Queer Eye for the Straight Guy” to be demeaning to the Gay community.

In general Hollywood uses those scenes to depict violence or as a comic gag. A number of fellow posters have even stated that they got a chuckle here or there.

The problem as I see it is that in either case, Hollywood’s portrayal belittles a lifestyle that many of us take seriously. Those portrayals continue the perception that BDSM is either something criminals do or something only to be laughed at. Personally I take offense at this. Not enough to rise up and start a boycott or anything like that but I’d rather not see it used in that manner.

A generation ago African Americans were used in movies the same way. The only time you saw a black character was for comic relief or in relation to a criminal activity. The African American community eventually organized to change that. Tonight as I write this, I’m watching a movie starting Eddie Murphy. Perhaps some day there will be a character or an Actor who plays a role as a serious Dom/me in a leading role.

CSI did a few episodes in which one of the characters was a successful Dominatrix running a house of pleasure for her clients. This character portrayed BDSM as a serious life style and even educated the lead character (Gill Grissom) as to the whys and wherefores of the BDSM’er. A number of years ago the Movie “9 ½ Weeks) hinted at the BDSM lifestyle in its storyline. I still remember the scene in which the lead male character tested a riding crop on his girlfriend’s thighs in the Tack Shop.


It would be nice to see a mainstream film in which the lifestyle is depicted in a serious manner in which the parties involved are loving and happy. Hollywood in general has depicted people into BDSM as criminal or sick. That’s not how I think of myself.


Just my opinion, take it or leave it.


Unfortunately Hollywood gets their impression of bdsm from the same places that horrified vanilla wives do (a la Bree in Desperate Housewives) -- the stereotypical leather-clad dominatrix with a whip. Plus, that's what the public understands. They "get" the joke.

I don't know if this was mentioned ages ago on this thread, but I've always though Bull Durham showed an excellent glimpse into light bdsm. Playful and sensual. Not your traditional femdom type, though.

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 6/19/2005 7:13:46 PM   
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There's a horror film: Nursie where the leading male role is shacled several times, and
Phoenix where there is a wicked man (I think a police) cuffed in the end while 'making love' and being found out by the leading role.

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 6/20/2005 3:31:21 AM   
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CSI did a few episodes in which one of the characters was a successful Dominatrix running a house of pleasure for her clients. This character portrayed BDSM as a serious life style and even educated the lead character (Gill Grissom) as to the whys and wherefores of the BDSM’er. A number of years ago the Movie “9 ½ Weeks) hinted at

Dear Akasha, in what season did CSI potrayed BDSM? And is it the CSI Miami?

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 7/1/2005 4:33:13 PM   
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A Question, may I ask... ?

would 'Tie me up, tie me down' be considered a 'vanilla' movie?



OMG...One of my favourite movies of all time! Not that either of the leads showed the slightest understanding of their power exchange dynamic, but the scene where she hurries to get back into bondage before he gets through the door just gives me a warm fuzzy feeling everytime!

Not sure I consider it a BDSM flick per se, but it's definitely kinky!

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 7/1/2005 4:49:47 PM   
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Oh, no one mentioned Cape Fear.

I was flipping channels last night and there was a scene where the psycho was seducing the teenage daughter. He laid on the dominance and had her face in his hands and slowly stuck his thumb between her lips and encouraged her to suck. The expression on both their faces was so perfect it couldn't be described as anything BUT a D/s moment.

Her expression went from shy and giggling to soft and sexual, and his eyes never wavered from hers...::shudder, swoon:: I knew exactly what she was feeling.

I didn't watch the rest of the movie when I realized it was a thriller, but I'm certianly curious now as to how that dynamic was handled later in the film...or if that was the end of their interaction.

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 7/4/2005 3:34:04 PM   
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has anyone mentioned Star Wars? the Return of the Jedi? the scene where princess leia is chained and has her little slave outfit on? i know a few of my Dom friends would love to get me into it...lol

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 7/24/2005 11:18:16 AM   
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all i will say is princess leah has a lot to answer for when it comes to my submissive fantasies lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 8/5/2005 9:36:07 AM   
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there once was a episode of jack ass on mtv were they hired a dominatrix tag team to get one of the jack ass crew to say he liked a football team he hated lol. The doms were given one hour, and you got to see him during the show getting whipped and stuff till at the end of the show he was shouting the teams praises in front of his friends while the doms had him chained to a frame and whiped his ass lol was pretty funny :)



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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 8/5/2005 1:01:02 PM   
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There are also Reno 911...where they had a scene where they were attempting to role play dressed in leather ..it was amusing albeit totally off...also a family guy episode...

I think it's hilarious, and sad how we're portrayed...and it's funny how small the world is in BDSM..you never know who's gonna be in it..

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 8/6/2005 5:29:57 AM   
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I skimmed over many of the replies & saw where many have mentioned movies & scenes within movies depicting BDSM/fetish examples & D/s dynamics.

Movie makers have always found a way to push in taboo topics as they become more mainstream. Typically through humor first, then work there way toward realistic scenarios.

I want to mention that many of these references within movies, comedy routines, cartoons & music/music videos have actually given me a way to come out to family & friends. Namely my children.

My two older girls had been on a sleep over & watched a movie that had a classic scene of a librarian-looking woman & a guy wanting to hook-up with her. I don't recall the movie title. Anyway, they asked questions about this. Though I do not go into explicit details with them right now, (I mean, what kids wants details of their parents sex life...) I have been able to utilize these media images as a way to express part of what this lifestyle is about.

MstrssPassion

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 8/17/2005 5:49:05 PM   
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Yeah alot of main stream movies do have bdsm refernces in them I think the one I watched as a kid and watch now and am Like wow thats why I liked that movie is the labrynth(i'm a horrible speller hehe) I mean for jebus sake he walks around with a riders crop.

Other than that a good movie that is based on sadomasochism is The secretary and it's my favorite. chances are you have seen it but if not rent it. It is a must see

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 8/17/2005 5:51:54 PM   
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Oh and bram stockers dracula dracula has little sluts. I htink I have to masterbate 5 tmes after each time I watch that movie :)

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 8/17/2005 6:14:55 PM   
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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 11/25/2005 8:09:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterMalice

Here's a short list of main stream fils that have some kink involved

Malice
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For a longer list, see the database at Brian's Page.

http://www.brianspage.com/

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 11/26/2005 12:12:39 PM   
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"House" had an episode where a patient had damage to his throat from being asphyxiated by his Mistress...they portrayed the relationship in a relative positive light, from what i remember, just good highlights of the potential dangers of asphyxiation

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 11/26/2005 11:44:50 PM   
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Here is another one you have to see. Not just because of the bondage but also because it is a pretty good movie in it's own right.

It's called "Spun", and it stars John Lequizamo, Mena Suvari, Brittany Murphy and Mickey Rourke.

It's basically about the meth culture, a small part of it that is. But the movie does feature the lead guy have betime fun with his girlfriend who is cuffed naked and spread eagled to the bed. But then he has to leave to go run some errands, so he gags and blindfolds her too and leaves her there. From time to time he keeps coming back to her but never does let her up from the bed, and it is assumed that she spends several days there.

Not a safe or nice thing to do in real life, I know that. But it sorta made sense in the movie when you considered the characters and what was going on around them.


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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 11/27/2005 10:48:47 AM   
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CSI did a few episodes in which one of the characters was a successful Dominatrix running a house of pleasure for her clients. This character portrayed BDSM as a serious life style and even educated the lead character (Gill Grissom) as to the whys and wherefores of the BDSM’er. A number of years ago the Movie “9 ½ Weeks) hinted at
Dear Akasha, in what season did CSI potrayed BDSM? And is it the CSI Miami?


Respectfully Akasha is absolutely correct.

The episodes in question are:
Series: 'CSI: Crime Scene Investigation'
Episode Title: 'Lady Heather's Box'
Episode Number: 315 (season 3)
Synopsis: "Grissom connects two murdered male escorts to dominatrix Lady Heather; Catherine's daughter, Lindsay, is trapped in a sinking car."
Original Airdate: February 13, 2003
Rerun: June 07, 2005

and

Series: 'CSI: Crime Scene Investigation'
Episode Title: 'Slaves Of Las Vegas'
Episode Number: 208 (season 2)
Synopsis: "The death of a young woman leads Grissom and Catherine to investigate the underground world of Los Vegas fetish clubs.
When the body of an attractive woman is found naked in a sandbox, Grissom and Catherine are called to investigate the cause of death. Due to the whip and ligature marks on her body, the team initially assumes that the crime was violent, but with further investigation it is discovered that the victim worked at an underground fetish club.

Meanwhile, Warrick and Sara are called to a crime scene to investigate a shooting, which initially appears to have taken place during a robbery."

Original Airdate: November 15, 2001

Both of which had a character named Lady Heather.

I hope this is helpful.

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 11/27/2005 11:06:12 AM   
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I am amazed that "One Night at McCools" did not appear until page 4 of this thread. Another one is "Tomcats" where he meets up with a libarian that turns out to be a Domme.

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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 11/28/2005 6:53:33 PM   
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RE: BDSM in the vanilla MOVIES * news flash * - 12/8/2005 12:21:36 PM   
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one that was a funny movie a couple years past is 40 days (or was it 40 nights?) with josh hartnet (i think) starring. he tries to not have sex for lent and then this girl ties him up and has her way with him like 5 minutes before his time limit is up....

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