CallaFirestormBW
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It is difficult to describe the full extent of protocol in our household. There are times when we are very relaxed, and other times when we are in 'full' protocol, including things like having servants who are not allowed to sit on the furniture, do not make eye contact, do not speak unless given permission by either myself or my Darling, who must stand, sit or kneel in certain positions and in certain relationships to us (things like a servant kneeling in our presence, so that we always look down at him, and he must raise his head to look up at us, and so his head is never higher than ours). We like "butler protocol" and "high tea" protocol on occasion... and oriental Tea Service protocol on very rare occasion. We also have speaking protocols -- a servant who is being disciplined to his servitude may spend a period of time learning to use third-person speech with grace. There are also protocols in the forms of how I and my Darling are addressed and in what order visitors are greeted. We also have a standard, unyielding, "fall-back" protocol, to be put in place when everything goes to hell in a handbasket, or when there are several conflicting instructions waiting to be responded to -- or when someone asks a servant to do something that is unusual and either myself or my Darling are not available. (This is simply to ask oneself "will this cause potential harm or upset in the House?" If the answer is no, the servant can comply with the request without asking further. If the answer is -yes-, then the servant answers "I apologize that I am not allowed to comply without the express permission of (my mentor; the Lady Firestorm; the Lady SilverRose). I will seek them out to ask them and will let you know their response, or you may ask them and have them contact me with their instructions." Not all protocols are in place all the time. The only one that is always in place is the "fall back". Everything else depends on our moods, the training level of the servant (earlier in training=more protocols in place), and what else is going on around us. Calla Firestorm
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*** Said to me recently: "Look, I know you're the "voice of reason"... but dammit, I LIKE being unreasonable!!!!" "Your mind is more interested in the challenge of becoming than the challenge of doing." Jon Benson, Bodybuilder/Trainer
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