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Joined: 1/31/2004 From: Tidewater, VA Status: offline
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Is this a red flag or what? Midear Ownme- I think that M. Taggard answer the question as well as any might, but having some experience with the subject I did want to chime in. I was in a relationship with a girl who would be up, online, way past the hours she should have been asleep. As the prime directive in my relationships is always Protect My Property, I had some issue with this. It was impacting work, school and my enjoyment of our relationship. It sure wasn't making her happy in anyway. I set up some rules for online time for her, which, with some disscussion and editing, she accepted. We set up a clear set of times and time limits, some things that had to be finished before going on line, and penalties for violations (some of the penalties were violations, come to think of it<eg>). It worked well. I rarely do this sort of thing, and have a certain horror of having to treat someone I am in a relationship with like a child, but it did work, and it broke through a limit for both of us. If you think your online time is OK, and he doesn't well, maybe you'd best keep his status in the potential list current a bit longer<g>. On the other hand, I tend to nag my friends about things sometimes. I'd more likely be suggesting other uses for the time you spend with your face in the box, If it was a friend I was worried about. Stay warm, Lawrence
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