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RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? - 8/12/2008 10:47:52 AM

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Kissing if done right is like great sex without the sex.

You get the playing, softness, hardness, teasing, denial, penetration, intimacy, hurting, control, all that. Delicious.

I would never do without it.

Well said!

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/12/2008 11:12:15 AM

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No kissing? No deal... I need it, whether its a long term arrangement or just a quick, animalistic romp to satisfy our urges. In fact, I feel like kissing right now...

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/12/2008 10:24:02 PM

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emmmmmmmm ... yes you do yummmmmmmmy

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/13/2008 1:52:22 AM

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kissing is an absolute must to me. one time Daddy fulfilled a fantasy for me without knowing it, he pushed me backwards into the wall and held me there kissing me till my knees went weak...

i'd said to myself when i saw that in the movie "practical magic" that i really really wanted that...someone who would overpower me with kisses.

TheEngineer kisses, little tiny pecks all over my face, long passionate sloppy ones on my mouth while his five o clock shadow scratches my face.. MMmmmm

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/13/2008 3:16:38 AM

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I love to have My mouth locked on My little girl's mouth as I hurt her or let her cum, using My own mouth as a gag on her. The muffled yelps, whimpers, and /or moans sound hot as hell. I not only hear them, but I can feel them going from her directly into Me. To Me, it's another way of taking what is Mine...which is everything about her.

*melts*

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RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? - 8/13/2008 3:25:24 AM

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Doesn't it make a difference as to how one is kissed? The grabbing of the hair. Having ones head wrenched back to expose the throat. Feeling His teeth close down over your jugular and airpipe and knowing that if he clenches them it will cut off the supply of air to your lungs . Listening to him growl when his teeth sink into the skin of your neck. Then , after he releases you from the bite, to have your head pushed down with his eyes just inches from yours and your noses almost touching as you feel his hot breath on your face . The look he gives you when his head pushes closer and his eyes demand a kiss from your lips.. but he doesn't let you move your head closer as he retains control of you by your hair.

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....uhm....*raises hand*...I'd like to try. :)

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RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? - 8/14/2008 4:02:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I will let someone beat me before I let them fuck me. And I will let them fuck me before I want them to kiss me. Kissing is intimate, scent, taste, pheremones and style combine up close and personal. I can be on my belly bent over a counter for a fuck with no other imput needed.

No, you are not a freak.

But i am the opposite.

If i am going to engage in any type of play or sex, it is only going to be with the one who i also kiss, grope and fondle, who also kisses, gropes and fondles me. Intimacy of any type is still intimacy for me.

Though this past New Years Eve i was kissed by a pretty hot couple one right after the other.(WEG....Thank you Erin and Abraxus)

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RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? - 8/14/2008 7:21:09 AM

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Kissing is wonderful. Kissing My Lord...excellent.

I've wanted to kiss My Lord since the first night he lured me to his lair with promises of whiskey and Kitty's. ;)

Our kisses are for love, consolation, and a thousand different things, including just "I think you're wonderful."

He even uses kisses for domination. He will lock his mouth over mine, hold my head in place with the pressure of his mouth, and plunder my mouth with kisses. Sometimes rough, sometimes soft, but always unyielding. Sometimes he backs me into a wall or counter, grabs my hair, pulls my head back, and makes me weak with want before he takes everything else he wants from me.

We love kissing. mmmm....makes me want to go kiss!!!

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RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? - 8/14/2008 12:10:54 PM

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I have yet to experiance in my many years some of what has been described here , and yeah i am envious .But i also have to have that connection with the kiss , it means so much more for me and gotta be more that the auntie peck hello .reminds me i need more chapstick just in case

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RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? - 8/14/2008 2:32:24 PM

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I also want the touching and the hugging and the kissing and the groping, etc. level of a relationship before I enter into any D/s type stuff. I have had and still have a philosophy that if a guy isn't a good kisser, the relationship's not going to go any further. It's been a deal-breaker, to my sadness, with the last couple guys I met from here. (Not this forum, the other side).

Apparently, they did think "raping the lips" was something you did on a first date kiss, lol.

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/14/2008 2:45:50 PM

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i am a little stunned about the debate of "kissing" in a D/s relationship. i am sure that it is true that there are many D/s relationships out there that are only based upon the play aspects of the relationship and like any relationship, do not wish to move into the land of emotion. For those relationships, kissing may offer more intimacy then the established play protocols provide. Howver, once that D/s relationship moves to a mutual emotional exchange... how can "whether to kiss or not" be a debated issue. Maybe the real debate is how much "emotional exchange" is accepted and encouraged within the relationship, itself.

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/14/2008 2:49:14 PM

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I see doms kissing sub's asses all the time. I think it does occur.

huh?!?

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/14/2008 3:01:32 PM

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To give somebody a deep passionate kiss.. savoring the moment.. stealing their breath when they exhale. Like sucking their soul from deep inside their chest.. fingers caressing the side of their face. Slowly sucking in their bottom lips.. slowly biting down.. trapping them inside my mouth. Make slow motions as if I would or could rip their lip off with my teeth.   Pinching and rolling their lip around inside my mouth. A quick instant release while pretending to rip their lip off... it snaps back in place. Followed by a deep forceful animalistic passionate kiss... mouth spreading wide.. my finger sprawled wide around the back of their neck and head.. fingers pulling on the strands of their hair... the prickles of pain in the roots of their hair.. my tounge going deeper and deeper... reaching for their throat...

Pulling them close and tight against me... my fingers sliding and walking like a big spider down the length of their back.. my thumb digging into their spin... going lower and lower... my finger reaching the top of their pants, skirt (whatever they are wearing)... fingers sliding inside.. taking a hold of their panties..pulling it up slowly and firmly.. the frabric pulling tighter on the crotch... and starts to wedge between the cheeks of their ass... mean time.. my tounge is fucking their mouth like it was one big hot cock... going back and fourth...

I pull tighter.. lifting them up by their toes.. almost totally off balance.. their heart races at the thoughts of falling to the floor... yet relax and melt in the tight embrace.. and my very grip I'm holding onto them! Tightly and they can feel it... the firm grip and tightness... The thoughts of if their panties will hold up or not race through the mind for a moment... I pull and tug... almost as If I could rip them off in a single tearing moment and they would fall to the floor helpless....

In the mean time.. my lips are pressed to theirs... tounges dancing about.. swirling and having sex with our mouths... Yes...

Now... I Love to kiss!!

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/14/2008 3:55:00 PM

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I was married for a long time (>20 years) to a man who didn't kiss. I missed it very much.

I love the intimacy of kissing, and would never again be in a relationship where it never happened.

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/14/2008 5:34:05 PM

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I like to kiss quite a bit, but only if the relationship is at least somewhat serious. Hand holding too. It's very romantic (to me) to be strolling along somewhere and be holding hands with the person you are with.

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/16/2008 3:17:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

To give somebody a deep passionate kiss.. savoring the moment.. stealing their breath when they exhale. Like sucking their soul from deep inside their chest.. fingers caressing the side of their face. Slowly sucking in their bottom lips.. slowly biting down.. trapping them inside my mouth. Make slow motions as if I would or could rip their lip off with my teeth.   Pinching and rolling their lip around inside my mouth. A quick instant release while pretending to rip their lip off... it snaps back in place. Followed by a deep forceful animalistic passionate kiss... mouth spreading wide.. my finger sprawled wide around the back of their neck and head.. fingers pulling on the strands of their hair... the prickles of pain in the roots of their hair.. my tounge going deeper and deeper... reaching for their throat...

Pulling them close and tight against me... my fingers sliding and walking like a big spider down the length of their back.. my thumb digging into their spin... going lower and lower... my finger reaching the top of their pants, skirt (whatever they are wearing)... fingers sliding inside.. taking a hold of their panties..pulling it up slowly and firmly.. the frabric pulling tighter on the crotch... and starts to wedge between the cheeks of their ass... mean time.. my tounge is fucking their mouth like it was one big hot cock... going back and fourth...

I pull tighter.. lifting them up by their toes.. almost totally off balance.. their heart races at the thoughts of falling to the floor... yet relax and melt in the tight embrace.. and my very grip I'm holding onto them! Tightly and they can feel it... the firm grip and tightness... The thoughts of if their panties will hold up or not race through the mind for a moment... I pull and tug... almost as If I could rip them off in a single tearing moment and they would fall to the floor helpless....

In the mean time.. my lips are pressed to theirs... tounges dancing about.. swirling and having sex with our mouths... Yes...

Now... I Love to kiss!!

Uhm...*finding it hard to breathe*...yes, I would like a lifetime of those please. Where do I place my order? :)

*puddles*

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/16/2008 4:39:40 AM

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Kissing, involving lips and tongue, is the best manifest of physical worshiping and adoring. Be it part of the body, Her shoes, Her sotckings, Her whips, bed where She sleeps, mark that She made on the wall, the ground where She stands, Her divine shit... Oh yes, i love to kiss. And i would kiss everything Hers.

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/17/2008 2:03:53 PM

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Master kisses me all the time, whether they're short kisses just to remind me that He's there and loves me or whether they're long, protracted, sesnual kisses that leave my spineless, breathless and clutching his shoulders or arms to keep my balance. Rough kisess, bites and pulling of hair moving to pushing me into the wall, cabinet or desired position. Yeah we do that a lot. It's intimate and sexy and kissing is fabulous.

However in a BDSM relationship that did not include sexualised intimacy - i would not kiss (and have not when those were the sorts of relationships i was in).

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/17/2008 3:22:17 PM

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"Foregive me father for I have sinned. No father it is not the flogging and beatign her that I ask forgiveness for. You see father, I cannot keep from kissing her. This is a mortal Sin in the Dominat Commandmants but I just can't help it. I do blame her entirely for causing me to have these feelings and discipline the slut as often as requried... but I keep submitting to this desire to kiss her."

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RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? - 8/17/2008 4:01:57 PM

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Agreed!

*high five*

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"If I'm in a d/s relationship then that means I'm in a relationship with that person for the long haul...period...so that includes everything, even kissing. It then becomes one of my requirements to be in a relationship with that person. No kissing to me means he just really isn't into me and he sees us as nothing more than casual players and that's really not what I'm seeking at all."
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