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"scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 3:57:12 PM   
TVMistressLush


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Quote "scammers on this site" is often a line I see on someone's profile or journal mainly from UK so called subs or slaves.

Am I defined as a so called "scammer" because I dare to advertise as Pro Domme and ask money for services provided?  I openly advertise My services for money on My profile yet because a so called sub or slave "so badly" wants to serve but cannot afford to pay I am labelled a scammer.  Am I not allowed to pay My bills through a profession which I thorough enjoy but exceed in?

Has anyone else had the misfortune to be labelled as such from these so called subs/slaves who also waste My time by booking appointments and then not turning up to the point where I only accept bookings now when a deposit is paid?

Who is worse - Me as the so called "scammer" or the person claiming to be "scammed" and not turning up for the agreed session and suddenly their profile disappears?
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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 4:03:32 PM   
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Why would you assume they're talking about you as the "scammer" in question? If someone leads someone on to believe he/she is something other than what he/she is or is about, then it's a scam. If you're not doing that, then why would you care what other people might think about people you are not? I know a lot of male submissives overwhelm the dominants on the boards with emails every time they show up on line. I don't do the same. So, just because every woman complains about this activity doesn't make me suddenly think they're talking about me. I just don't see the connection.

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 4:06:16 PM   
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Your not a scammer- but watch out, if you even SAY that you are a pro in your profile- angry cheap little men will flag your profile until it is taken down for a day or so. :P

I actually asked the mods read over and approve my profile after getting flagged 4-5 times- and it still gets pulled down all the time

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 4:07:14 PM   
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You may not have to worry about it much longer.  Seeing as though you just pointed yourself out as advertising your pro domme service on your profile, when it is against the rules.  Those that do... scammer or not... typically don't shout it out. lol

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 4:08:42 PM   
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asking for $ is against tos isnt it??? most people ask for tribute or gifts...but not "payment".

off topic...if we do pay you...are you a high definition tv? and what channels do you offer? 


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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 4:49:06 PM   
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If you don't feel you are a scammer why are you coming here for validation?

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 5:01:10 PM   
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I always thought the scammer line referred to men passing as women and asking for money to come to the States from Nigeria.  But if it refers to you - my condolences.

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 5:08:16 PM   
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I think this was a silly question and was meant to draw attention to a business. We should ignore this thread, we are helping the business with every comment.

Dolf

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 5:22:02 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TVMistressLush

Quote "scammers on this site" is often a line I see on someone's profile or journal mainly from UK so called subs or slaves.

Am I defined as a so called "scammer" because I dare to advertise as Pro Domme and ask money for services provided?  I openly advertise My services for money on My profile yet because a so called sub or slave "so badly" wants to serve but cannot afford to pay I am labelled a scammer.  Am I not allowed to pay My bills through a profession which I thorough enjoy but exceed in?

Has anyone else had the misfortune to be labelled as such from these so called subs/slaves who also waste My time by booking appointments and then not turning up to the point where I only accept bookings now when a deposit is paid?

Who is worse - Me as the so called "scammer" or the person claiming to be "scammed" and not turning up for the agreed session and suddenly their profile disappears?


Based on the information presented, I'm at a loss to give you my full attention or discernment.

However, if you'd care to send me $29.95 and call me on my 800 number (to be provided upon receipt and approved transfer of funds), I would be more than happy to spend 12 minutes with you to help you achieve your stated goals.

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 5:33:55 PM   
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Since you are a pro, you know you could buy legitimate advertising and use it as a tax write-off.

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 5:37:55 PM   
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Gee, I thought scammers were all these absolutely gorgeous young ladies who fell in love with what I wrote in my profile and journal (but never made it on the list of those who viewed me) and wanted to come and live with me forever, if I would only send them money for airfare.



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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 5:40:01 PM   
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You callin me a "scammer?"

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 5:40:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subtee

You callin me a "scammer?"


Hell, I'd drive out and get you. 

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 5:47:20 PM   
subtee


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Oops!!! In the midst of my packing I went back and read your post...
quote:

gorgeous young ladies
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my bad


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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 6:04:58 PM   
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Scammers, in this definition, are usually* however not always* People who con others into giving them money and then disapere with out a word or with out giving a dime back. Or, the Nigerian emails going around where they claim they need your american bank account to deal with billions of dollars, and if you help they'll let you have a large part of the billions.

quote:

ORIGINAL: TVMistressLush

Quote "scammers on this site" is often a line I see on someone's profile or journal mainly from UK so called subs or slaves.

Am I defined as a so called "scammer" because I dare to advertise as Pro Domme and ask money for services provided? 

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 6:08:28 PM   
MidMichCowboy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

Oops!!! In the midst of my packing I went back and read your post...
quote:

gorgeous young ladies
...

my bad



You definitely qualify for that

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 6:12:11 PM   
subtee


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~back to packing~



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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 6:15:43 PM   
MidMichCowboy


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ORIGINAL: subtee

~back to packing~




How big a truck do I need to bring?

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 6:33:00 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DomDolf


I think this was a silly question and was meant to draw attention to a business. We should ignore this thread, we are helping the business with every comment.

Dolf

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RE: "scammers on this site" - 8/11/2008 6:43:07 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

~back to packing~




your butch now???  (butch pack u know)



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