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Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 1:20:30 PM   
frillsnfings


Posts: 9
Joined: 9/13/2005
Status: offline 		This is a first contact email sent to me. i know where the block button is and how to use it but I am tired of the bad manners and outright rudeness towards me from complete strangers. If he doesn't like my profile... why not just ignore me.

This person sent this, then blocked me so i have posted my response here.


"your profile is so full of shit ,you don't know anything about bdsm do you this is not a vanilla site for dreamers like you.
Go read the boring crap you've written sorry but if you say you're a sub then you must give yourself to your master for whatever he'she demands or what punishment they choose if you don't agree with that go to a poetry website"

My response;

"Do You think this behaviour is how a 'real' Dom would conduct Himself? You are extremely rude.

If You dont like my profile, then why contact me? Exactly, what button of yours did i press? How is my profile any of your business?

You have shown your lack of manners and integrity.

Go away."
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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 1:22:58 PM   
siamsa24


Posts: 2426
Joined: 2/2/2004
Status: offline 		People are always going to be rude, that's the way that it is.

Personally, I like your profile, I think that it's beautifully written.

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 1:25:39 PM   
Cloudz


Posts: 836
Joined: 9/13/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: siamsa24

People are always going to be rude, that's the way that it is.

Personally, I like your profile, I think that it's beautifully written.


I agree, your profile is clear, concise, and well thought out. Let it pass.

Be well,

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 1:30:25 PM   
krikket


Posts: 1183
Joined: 11/17/2004
From: Washington, DC Metro Area
Status: offline 		Your profile is terrific -- maybe the guy figured if he put you on the defensive you'd be easier pickings...his loss, and your benefit :)

cheers
jimini


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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 1:32:42 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


Posts: 1911
Joined: 2/3/2004
Status: offline 		It's a lovely profile.

I hope whoever the emailer was he got his jollies...who knows why he tartgeted you but then again, do you really care? There are losers everywhere.

Welcome to collarme. Enjoy!

Cin

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 1:41:25 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline 		Just FYI we have now hit our target number of two threads per week on emails people get/emails people don't get and the rudeness of the world at large. Please save all future correspondences and issues for next week to fulfill our community quota.

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 1:45:03 PM   
Jasmyn


Posts: 1234
Joined: 2/6/2004
From: New Zealand
Status: offline 		lolol

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 1:45:57 PM   
truesub4u


Posts: 2949
Joined: 11/17/2005
Status: offline 		i agree with the others.. i loved your profile.. (do you give lessons on proper grammer?.. if so where do i sign up?)... after being a member of this site for just the weekend so far.. it's ben one hell of a roller coaster ride.. and looking at that side of it.. i'm learing (with the help of a few others from on here ) to be a duck... and let this roll off like the water does...

to you and yours... may it all get better..

jessica

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 2:31:24 PM   
frillsnfings


Posts: 9
Joined: 9/13/2005
Status: offline 		*Big Hugz* :-) Thankyou. i know i shouldn't let it get to me, every now and then it just gets heavy to carry alone. Thats where you all come in. Thanks for the support :-)


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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 2:33:26 PM   
frillsnfings


Posts: 9
Joined: 9/13/2005
Status: offline 		lol... next time i'll keep an eye on that quota.

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 2:37:19 PM   
theRose4U


Posts: 3403
Joined: 8/22/2005
Status: offline 		Mail controls are your friend. Peckerwoods abound. Hang in there you'll find the right one.

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 2:41:58 PM   
jamesthehumanrug


Posts: 668
Joined: 10/21/2005
Status: offline 		au MY -gaud !!
frills!?,
your pic. is drop-dead gorgeous!
sorry: I ... lost my mind ,for a second.
greetings,
ISSUES....
(all i can say) ,and,(freedom,of speech) at least you'll know them next time you see ,THAT person ,again...don't take it personal;
no reason ,to be easily affected,it's their problem, or non problem....can't effect you ,either....

< Message edited by jamesthehumanrug -- 11/20/2005 2:43:08 PM >

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 3:22:36 PM   
brightspot


Posts: 3052
Status: offline
quote:

This is a first contact email sent to me. i know where the block button is and how to use it but I am tired of the bad manners and outright rudeness towards me from complete strangers. If he doesn't like my profile... why not just ignore me.


Well there now you have gotton it off your chest....
Now, in the future hopefully you will not let a complete
stranger, maybe even just a prankster, get your goat.
You say you know the block button? Well use it and forget
about it.

I don't know the exact number of CM members, but can you imagine if we all wrote a bitch thread about some smart ass e-mail we got? That would be all this forum would be, no band-width left for interesting conversation. Come on people don't get so riled up and take personally the stupid crap. Delete and Block and let go, take in the good stuff!

Don't let idiot's take up any space in your mind
Welcome to the boards and CM....

*Brightspot

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 3:55:02 PM   
candystripper


Posts: 3486
Joined: 11/1/2005
Status: offline 		*sigh* i dunno why some people are here. Seems their joy only comes from insulting people...maybe it's some new kink i haven't heard of before. Why let someone so obviously one brick short of a load upset you? i cannot remember when, but i have received such email, as i imagine most women have.

candystripper

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 4:09:10 PM   
IrishMist


Posts: 7480
Joined: 11/17/2005
Status: offline 		LOL yep. I get about 5 or 6 a day of those kind of mailings. They are actually quite good for a laugh...

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 4:21:02 PM   
LadyHibiscus


Posts: 27124
Joined: 8/15/2005
From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		I have to admit that I am baffled by these kinds of emails. What is the story with them? Under a different nic, I had some kid write to tell me how scary-ugly I am. Twice! Since I get a whole heap of emails from folks telling me about my beauty, I am not really offended by the insulting wankers, but why are they wasting their time? All I do is hit the "block" key~!

I'm happy to say that NO ONE is on my blocked users list right now. I had an anger management moment, but I decided to just take a deep breath. Though if my creepazoid ex finds THIS sn, his ass is blocked....... <G>

:)Francine

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 4:26:38 PM   
KatyLied


Posts: 13029
Joined: 2/24/2005
From: Pennsylvania
Status: offline 		So many people are just playing. They send messages just to mess with you. You can't get upset over every message like that, it will make you crazy.

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 5:07:11 PM   
ModeratorThree


Posts: 949
Status: offline 		There are nearly 200k registered users of CM.com, there are going to be rude emails, there are going to be idiot's.

The sooner everyone understands this is the internet!!!!11!! we will all be the better for it. ;- ) And to think that outing a particular individual for sending such emails is silly. We would have to make new target numbers and community quota's on those types of threads as well.

Block user, ignore and delete are a few of my favorite things.

Mod3

< Message edited by ModeratorThree -- 11/20/2005 5:26:40 PM >

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 5:44:19 PM   
michaelMI


Posts: 421
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: frillsnfings

This is a first contact email sent to me. i know where the block button is and how to use it but I am tired of the bad manners and outright rudeness towards me from complete strangers. If he doesn't like my profile... why not just ignore me.

This person sent this, then blocked me so i have posted my response here.


"your profile is so full of shit ,you don't know anything about bdsm do you this is not a vanilla site for dreamers like you.
Go read the boring crap you've written sorry but if you say you're a sub then you must give yourself to your master for whatever he'she demands or what punishment they choose if you don't agree with that go to a poetry website"

My response;

"Do You think this behaviour is how a 'real' Dom would conduct Himself? You are extremely rude.

If You dont like my profile, then why contact me? Exactly, what button of yours did i press? How is my profile any of your business?

You have shown your lack of manners and integrity.

Go away."


after reading your post, i went to your profile. i didn't see anything that could have been construde as rude or unsincere. i found it to be well written and from the heart. as for the "Dom" i can only say this...get a life and read more about this lifestyle before passing judgment on someone else. i enjoyed your profile and feel you put alot of thought and feeling into it. keep your chin up.

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RE: Being Rude ... again. - 11/20/2005 7:09:34 PM   
girl4you2


Posts: 1622
Joined: 8/4/2005
Status: offline 		99.9999999999999999999% of people are just living their own agendas, and up that to the 4th power for online. welcome to the world of wanna bes and players. just keep in mind that you deserve more and don't ever lose that.

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