zumala
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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112 quote:
For me, dominating Zumala would involve developing her as a person. My biggest interests in the kind of play you would see at a party are rope bondage and flogging. I'm interested in getting her to explore activities she's considered taboo due to a socially conservative raising. I would like to help her be more self-confident socially and in her career field. An excellent answer. To amplify what I said originally--that you must lead and she must follow--how do you, the dominant, choose to develop her as a person? How will you build her up? How will you nurture her strengths? How will you overcome her weaknesses? You have stated a goal--and a worthy goal at that. As the dominant, your role is to chart the course towards that goal. Everything after that....is learning. For both of you. I can't speak /for/ Pup on this, but I suspect that part of the advice and/or suggestions he may have been looking for are related to those questions that you have posed. How does he accomplish these goals. Granted, he knows me very well and he's a highly intelligent man whom I respect greatly, but perhaps he is not sure how to go about altering another person's view of themselves.
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