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RE: real life posts? - 11/22/2005 7:28:27 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		oooooooo my turn! (then i'll go back to reading the rest of this page.

My day = ) Went to bed at some unknown time last night curled up on the floor, wrapped around Master's feet. Woke up at 8 a, fixed breakfast, made lunch for the unmentionable, took her to school. Got home. Thought the bedroom could use some of that cooler air blowing in. So i opened the window, which inadvertantly woke Master up abit. Fixed Master the breakfast he wanted, asked to smoke a cig and go to the bathroom. Sat down to stare at him and make silly faces as he ate his breakfast. When he was finished, i asked if he wanted more.. he said no. Cuddled with him alittle bit until he told me he wanted more. So i went back downstairs, made more breakfast and as i waited made more rasberry tea as Master loves it. Brought breakfast back up to Master, watched him eat it (LOL) when he was done i removed his plate, took it back downstairs and did the dishes. Came BACK up stairs, asked Master if i could get on the computer for abit (and another cig) and started chatting with friends and doing the things i do online. Lecturing a few of them :p, then i played this game Master loves with him (an online mmrpg i think its called, akin to WOW, its called Savage). Got tired, laid down in bed. Started watching a movie, Master joined me and at the end of a movie we had a kissing contest. Which means, me kissing every body part of his i could reach and him trying to furiously block me telling me i had "cooties". Bales of laughter. Twas great = ) Being as persistant as i am, he started doing pretend "gross" things as it "gross" things usually makes me shriek and run, but as i told Master NOTHING will stop me from kissing him. So he eventually pinched the living daylights out of my thigh making me wiggle a whole bunch, but not stopping me. (still bales of laughter) i found out that i really AM NOT stronger then him as i couldnt pin his arms (though i kept trying) which always sends him into laughter (when i try and out strength him) We eventually settled down and watched another movie. Master took a nap, i did the laundry, smoked a cig, and got on the computer. Master slept seemingly ALL day and i got abit pifft with him so i stoleded the car! Stoleded it and picked up the unmentionable and took her too the park and to this other place where myself and her snuck into a donkey pen and tried to pet the donkies. We got hollered at so we left and feed the geese instead (behind the FENCE) Had a really long discussion with her about why we dont like geese and the fact that they bite hard.

Got home, had to explain to Master where we had been and i TOLD him that i did tell him, he was just asleep. (which i did) Giving him a wicked smile. Got slightly reprimanded as i was told "never when i'm half asleep" Then i played with the unmentionable. Spoke to my mother on the phone abit about upcoming xmas. Then i ran to the store and picked up cigs for Master and i as well as crayons. Came home, made dinner for everyone, cleaned up dinner. Got after the unmentionable. Fetched Master something to drink, asked for a cig..

whew.. this sounded like fun but it isnt really. Waaaaaaay too much to type and my hand is getting tired.

But seriously Ver, i know what you are talking about. Sometimes i think you're intentions are good, but your approach is wrong. And of course, you know how i already feel as we discussed it already!

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RE: real life posts? - 11/22/2005 7:41:16 PM   
bottominwa


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Status: offline 		How is this for WORK for you.

i get up everyday at 4:00 am...treadmill an hour then kids up and off to work by 6:30 am i work all day long supporting 15 men...all the normal admin crapola, then come home at 5pm to clean house, take care of two dogs, two hamsters and two kids....
Oh and guess what Monday I did all of this after dropping off my Owner to deploy for the third time to Iraq after no sleep for two days, at 2 am.

i know i am not on here alot when He is home, but when i am...i certainly don't talk about kink very much...which is a very miniscule part of how We live, and have lived for ten years.

Be well,

sabrina King

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RE: real life posts? - 11/22/2005 7:59:38 PM   
veronicaofML


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From: from iowa..now in wisconsin
Status: offline 		dropping off my Owner to deploy for the third time to Iraq after no sleep for two days, at 2 am.
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i HOPE your He comes home safe n sound.
i did MY time..........


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RE: real life posts? - 11/22/2005 8:04:26 PM   
IronBear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

dropping off my Owner to deploy for the third time to Iraq after no sleep for two days, at 2 am.
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i HOPE your He comes home safe n sound.
i did MY time..........



I echo that.




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RE: real life posts? - 11/23/2005 10:51:22 PM   
EvilGeoff


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quote:

ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

i have not seen one posting........of anyone ever talking about real life.

why is that?

is real life too difficult of a concept?

i really really worry that people live in a bubble world......



WARNING: LONG post follows!

Why don't you see more people posting about doing chores? Because for most of us, chores are about as exciting and interesting as... oh... say... watching grass grow. In a word - Boring.

It isn't a difficult concept at all. It's just not interesting enough to waste time on for most of us. Or it isn't pressing. We already know how to cook dinner, pay bills, do laundry, replace faucets, work our jobs. It's the fun stuff we more often need help with. BECAUSE we're so wrapped up in the "real life" we live.

I'm 44 years old and I've only recently come to fully accept and embrace my "fantasies" as a vital part of who and what I am. I suppressed and fought against my "fantasies" for so long, and so hard, that I was on the verge of suicide. Oh yeah.. I walked in the harsh light of "reality" all my adult life and was killing myself to do it. Pretending to be someone I was not to please "my elders", to conform with society's expectations, to be something for my (now ex-) spouse that I simply was not. Screw "reality".

Finding the BDSM community, that I was NOT alone in my "fantasies", discovering that it WAS possible to actually make my "fantasies" a reality (well, most of them anyway, the darker stuff I won't do. I _like_ not being in prison too much to go there! *evil grin*), to venturing forth and meeting people who's "reality" was _my_ "fantasy"... changed my life. It saved my life. Literally.

You know what? Finding out that I _could_ incorporate that "physical s/m garbage" into my relationships, into my "reality" was the most breathtaking turning point in my life. I am a sadist. And I am an Owner. That IS reality. I'm a father, a lover, an ex-husband, an employee, a friend, an enemy, a geek, a Christian, a man. I'm all those things and more. But I'm a sadist at the core. I enjoy inflicting physical and emotional pain on others. That IS reality. Denying that I'm a sadist would be the "fantasy". Denying myself the pleasure that I derive from inflicting that pain would be to deny myself and my reality. I am not willing to do that any more.

Those who come into my service will know pain. They will also know compassion, caring, friendship, tenderness, passion, perhaps even love. They will know the lash, the cane, the crop, the flogger, the needle, the knife, the flame, the spark. And they will know music, candle light, chili the way _I_ make it, breakfast on Sunday morning because I feel like cooking, get outta MY kitchen, slave! They will know housework, how I want my underwear folded, and how I want my shirts hung up in the closet. They'll serve me because it is what I desire and demand.

And I? I will serve them because we have a relationship. A REAL relationship. Not a one-sided, use the slave up for all they are worth and dump them relationship. Not a velcro collar, here today, seeya bitch tomorrow relationship. Not a "I am God, you are a worthless piece of shit" relationship. Not a "I will fuck you silly until I am tired of you then hook up with the new "piece-o-the-week" " relationship.

Those who choose to submit to me, to serve me have a real, living, breathing, "we are partners working together towards common goals and a shared future" relationship. It's based on a D/s dynamic and as our trust and confidence and knowledge of one another grow, the relationship grows toward Master/slave.

That's my reality. And what I choose to share here on CM is based on my reality. The good, the bad, the indifferent, the beautiful, the ugly, the plain. My triumphs, my tumbles. They all come from my life as I live it. And if parts of _my_ reality seem to be fantasy to you, so be it. I don't expect you to live _MY_ life and reality, please extend me the same courtesy. I find the concept of _anyone_ staying in a relationship that is without love, without sex, without passion to be incomprehensible. It is totally alien to my way of thinking, feeling and living. I cannot fathom why anyone would stay in such a relationship.

And yet I know others live such lives and find something about that life that meets their needs.

I don't pretend to understand Goreans but I know people of passion, and character, and integrity, who strive to live their lives based on the principles and philosophies found in that vision.

I don't understand our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters in leather. MY reality says Tab A goes into Slot B of someone not equipped with Tab A. And yet I know lots of people who's reality is very different. My reality doesn't change theirs, nor should it.

I try to listen respectfully to others as they share _their_ realities. I don't expect them to live my lifestyle, to live in _my_ reality. But I would hope that we can learn from one another as we share of ourselves. And in the sharing, find common ground, and growth, diversity, and community.

I love my reality now. It is so much richer, fuller, honest, vital than I could have ever imagined. The "reality" I used to live in is a distant nightmare, muted by time. God forbid I should ever have to go back to that.

My apologies for the length of this, but I've vented my spleen and feel better now! *grin*

Happy Thanksgiving to all who celebrate this day (and all who don't! Hopefully you can still enjoy time with friends and/or family and have someone or something in your life to be thankful for!)

Yours In Kink,
- Geoff
Who is very real, as Em and others can attest.

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RE: real life posts? - 11/24/2005 11:36:52 AM   
MistressYlwa


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Status: offline 		All I can say, for myself, is I feel the members who post here already know what "real life" is. They have grown up and learned all they desire about cleaning house, paying bills, and going to work. (Though if someone knows how to get the hard water/lyme off the sides of the toilet, would love to hear from you. lol)

For myself, I come to the forums to find out more that others have to offer in the bdsm lifestyle. New ways of doing old things. New things I have no experience in. How to grow, in knowledge, as a dominant. I don't need to ask about the other things, for I am an adult and have learned about those. While I have been in the lifestyle for over 30 yrs., I still feel there is alway something for me to know. I come here, read, learn.

For myself, learning more about this lifestyle is why I am here. If I want to learn about things outside of bdsm, I go to other sites or educational facilities to do that. I cannot say enough about those who post here. Find I am learning each time I come here. And they have been nothing but giving, when I have had a question.

Don't look down on anyone because they don't talk about the ordinary part of there life. I feel they are here because of the extraordinary life they live. The things they have to share are much more valuable to me and hope this never changes.

Don't know that this has answered your question, but hope you have gained an understanding of why some of us are here.

Mistress Ylwa


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RE: real life posts? - 11/24/2005 12:42:46 PM   
slavejali


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For myself, I come to the forums to find out more that others have to offer in the bdsm lifestyle.


Exactly Mistress Ylwa, if i want to chat about other stuff other than bdsm, i dont post here. This is a bdsm forum is it not? Just because people are posting about bdsm doesnt mean they dont have a whole mundane life as well heh.

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RE: real life posts? - 11/25/2005 11:30:07 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		you know whats cool about real life is you can get in someones face and tell them what you think and they will only have three choices

walk away and ignore you.

debate or argue with you

or you get in a fight a beat the daylights out of each other

i have seen this many times at real events lol and clubs as one who use to the rock n roll lifestyle oh wait this bdsm lifestyle lol continue :)

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RE: real life posts? - 11/26/2005 7:59:59 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		dear veronica, feel free to read My journal it does indeed talk much of real life and the challenges of it--

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RE: real life posts? - 11/26/2005 8:04:26 AM   
truesub4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

i have not seen one posting........of anyone ever talking about real life.

why is that?

is real life too difficult of a concept?




ok.. here some real life for you....

kids are doing great in school... Christmas is coming up and i'm gonna be worked to death with decorating... cooking.. shopping... going in debt.... oh and let's not forget... laundry... dishes.... vaccuming... mopping...

all by myself!

hows that for real life?

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RE: real life posts? - 11/26/2005 8:50:50 AM   
veronicaofML


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From: from iowa..now in wisconsin
Status: offline 		MHOO314 & truesub4U------

thank You ....thank you..............

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RE: real life posts? - 11/26/2005 9:03:53 AM   
truesub4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

dropping off my Owner to deploy for the third time to Iraq after no sleep for two days, at 2 am.
==========
i HOPE your He comes home safe n sound.
i did MY time..........




my prayers go out to you... and yours...

so far... i've lost one dear friend... 3 more are still in hospitals... and 5 have returned home.. only to have 3 more go back... guess living in a Military Town full of Marines like i do.. (Camp Lejune North Carolina).. it was bound to happen.

i give to you.. what was given to me.. (do not pass this on.. for i hate chain letters...)
SUBJECT: THE CHILDREN WHO PROTECT US


The average age of the military man is 19 years. He is a short haired, tight-muscled kid who, under normal circumstances is considered by society as half man, half boy. Not yet dry behind the ears, not old enough to buy a beer, but old enough to die for his country. He never really cared much for work and he would rather wax his own car than wash his father's; but he has never collected unemployment either.



He's a recent High School graduate; he was probably an average student, pursued some form of sport activities, drives a ten year old jalopy, and has a steady girlfriend that either broke up with him when he left, or swears to be waiting when he returns from half a world away. He listens to rock and roll or hip-hop or rap or jazz or swing and 155mm howitzer. He is 10 or 15 pounds lighter now than when he was at home because he is working or fighting from before dawn to well after dusk.

He has trouble spelling, thus letter writing is a pain for him, but he can field strip a rifle in 30 seconds and reassemble it in less time in the dark. He can recite to you the nomenclature of a machine gun or grenade launcher and use either one effectively if he must. He digs foxholes and latrines and can apply first aid like a professional. He can march until he is told to stop or stop until he is told to march.




He obeys orders instantly and without hesitation, but he is not without spirit or individual dignity. He is self-sufficient. He has two sets of
fatigues: he washes one and wears the other. He keeps his canteens full and his feet dry. He sometimes forgets to brush his teeth, but never to clean his rifle. He can cook his own meals, mend his own clothes, and fix his own hurts. If you're thirsty, he'll share his water with you; if you are hungry, his food. He'll even split his ammunition with you in the midst of battle when you run low.

He has learned to use his hands like weapons and weapons like they were his hands. He can save your life - or take it, because that is his job. He will often do twice the work of a civilian, draw half the pay and still find ironic humor in it all. He has seen more suffering and death then he should have in his short lifetime.



He has stood atop mountains of dead bodies, and helped to create them. He has wept in public and in private, for friends who have fallen in combat and is unashamed. He feels every note of the National Anthem vibrate through his body while at rigid attention, while tempering the burning desire to 'square-away' those around him who haven't bothered to stand, remove their hat, or even stop talking. In an odd twist, day in and day out, far from home, he defends their right to be disrespectful.

Just as did his Father, Grandfather, and Great-grandfather, he is paying the price for our freedom. Beardless or not, he is not a boy. He is the American Fighting Man that has kept this country free for over 200 years.




He has asked nothing in return, except our friendship and understanding.
Remember him, always, for he has earned our respect and admiration with his blood. And now we even have woman over there in danger, doing their part in this tradition of going to War when our nation calls us to do so. As you go to bed tonight, remember this shot.. A short lull, a little shade and a picture of loved ones in their helmets.



Prayer wheel for our military... please don't break it. Please send this on after a short prayer.

Prayer Wheel

"Lord, hold our troops in your loving hands. Protect them as they protect us. Bless them and their families for the selfless acts they perform for us in our time of need. Amen."


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RE: real life posts? - 11/26/2005 9:24:38 AM   
LadiesBladewing


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Status: offline 		I had to reply to this. I spent 13 years as an Army wife. My (ex) husband was deployed in the -first- Gulf War the day after our middle child was born, and our youngest was born 11 months after he returned.

I can't say our years in the military were horrible. The military did -great- things for my (ex) husband, who was a good man, but lacked direction. The military wasn't so great for me, since I tend not to follow instructions well -- especially instructions from my husband's chain of command, sent through him to me and hugely disrespectful of my personal beliefs. Through it all, my (ex) husband was a soldier first, a father second, and a husband third. This was alright, since he was deployed so often that I tended to be able to take up the role of father and husband and tack them on to my own roles of mother and wife at will. When he was away, I spoke up for both of us, and protected his interests with the intensity of the mother wolf or mother badger. When he was home, I adapted to the changes brougnt about by his "in garrison" schedule, picked up after him, and, as much as he wanted to, let him handle his own battles and pick up leadership in the household.

It was not an easy life, but it was worthwhile. He learned so much about himself, and challenged himself daily -- succeeding much more often than he failed. I learned about picking up and setting down responsibility, about dealing with hostile individuals without compromising one's beliefs -or- risking one's livelihood, and about getting on with life, even when things didn't look picture perfect.

In the end, the years in the military changed us both enough that we were no longer well suited to one another, but going our separate ways was no battle. We separated with love and respect, to take care of the things that we needed to.

To this day, I can do nothing but be grateful to the men and women who serve our country as protectors. Though our leadership may falter, they always stand tall. Though the circumstances of their service may suck, they continue to do what they must, and most do a wonderful job of retaining their humanity in the process. They are an inspiration, and my ex is the greatest inspiration of any of them, because I saw, firsthand, the changes in him, and the dignity that grew within him as he grew as a soldier.

May compassion smile on them all.

Lady Zephyr

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RE: real life posts? - 11/26/2005 10:08:07 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		Well, I'm jump on it too then since there are so many posts about real life and doing BDSM or being 24/7....

Thus far today:

Get up at 7am

Family therapy at 9:30am
Question: What's good in each relationship?
Answer: With Fox (my slave) Everything
With Husband -- our evening ritual of sitting on the couch together for ten minutes just the two of us

Go to the Coop and I run in to get groceries, husband drives, slave takes stuff into the house and puts it all away.

The couch incident! Have to move this couch that used to be my grandmother's. I'm just supposed to hold the doors while the guys move it but they decide they can move into the basement, I try to help... OUCH... it lands on my toes! Couch will not be moved into the basement finally I get my way with husband and it will go out with the trash on Tuesday (its my grandma's couch, if I can let it go why can't he?).

Slave makes lunch for us all -- leftovers from Thanksgiving. I tell him again he did a good job (he almost made himself ill the day of it with worry).

Decorating the house for the holidays and our big annual party. Husband will put up trees (we have 3 of them!) and do outside lights, slave will lug everything for me and I'll do actual decorating. Everyone seems to have injured a foot, toes, a wrist something with the damned couch. Too bad! This needs to be done and classes start again on Monday.

Taking a break now from decorating (how many boxes of Christmas junk do we have? nope, husband doesn't want to donate any of it to Goodwill). Ordered a pizza from Pizza Hut to be delivered at 6pm as a reward for this long and yet rather normal day around here.


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RE: real life posts? - 11/26/2005 10:40:14 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		OMG, I am on the floor, I am so sorry about your toes--ouch, but I am so glad to know that even with an additional slave to help--chaos reigns! Ok here is My day(s)--as many of you who read My journal know, a few weeks ago I got hurt by My horse, a freak accident that in a second hurt like(*&^%, it happened to My chest--not the actual breast area, but the sternum--sparing the details (pick any color you like--) now that the swelling is down, the real injury appears, a torn pectoral muscle ( pick any direction you like)---sooo I can't ride, can't lift anything that requires both hands--ok here is the best part--I have to keep heat on it every hour--ok so here is this great QueenAnne chair that I adore, the laptop, My drink dujour--and hmm where does one put a heating pad--now you can't type with a heating pad--AHA---in the middle of the cord, I have a rectangle battery thingie, I think it regulates the power--and it gets warm, actually its just the right temperature, ok so, I can continue to write, do work, watch tv and periodically put that thing on the lump on My chest to help the healing---I haven't faced the decorating yet and I need to hire the lawn man to cut down the dead things and plant the tulip bulbs--so dear veronica, smiles, yes we all do have real lives, and gawd the thought of a latex catsuit right now gives Me chills. this is one Mistress who will be Dommeing this season in jeans and sweaters--ohhh not too close boy---

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RE: real life posts? - 11/26/2005 11:11:45 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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I got up to meet my mom's godson and his mom for breakfast/lunch (super) and after some serious Guinea Pig Cuddling, am sitting in front of this frikken computer downloading the newest version of adobe reader. I am on dialup. Pity me.

Tonight I get to go to the ballet for the first time in ages---a friend of mine WON tickets, which rocks. Moscow Ballet's Nutcracker, which is bound to be fun. The Russian Nutcrackers are very vivid and circuslike, lots of fun. Does anyone remember when Betty Ford introduced their first televised performance of it, back in the 70's? I think it was the Bolshoi. They actually did encores during the performance! Totally unheard of in the west.

I am still having grumbly thoughts about men and relationships---I have issues with letting go of things, sometimes. When a bad thing happens, it brings up memories of the other bad things, yanno? So, my method is to try and remember the Good Parts instead. I am working on starting a thread about letting go, etc. So often we read phrases like "get over it" and "hit the ignore key", but how helpful is that? It hurts to be rejected, even by someone that you didn't expect to have a real relationship with!

Download 36% completed. Stay tuned!

:)Francine

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RE: real life posts? - 11/26/2005 11:29:50 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		LadyHibiscus, I'd love to participate in a thread about letting go--- I will look for it--the ballet will be marvelous--I love the foreign interpretations of the Nutcracker and I do remember when the Bolshoi did it--you will have a wonderful time and be the elegant Woman you are---

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RE: real life posts? - 11/26/2005 11:41:41 AM   
bottominwa


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Status: offline 		Lady Zephyr,

This year Master and this girl have been married ten years.
Master was deployed during the birth of both of Our children...and spent the entire first year of Our daughters life in Korea...then 9/11 happened and He went straight from Korea to Afghanistan do not pass go...all in all we spent 22 months seperated that stint...then He was home 5 months then deployed to Iraq 7, then home 9 months then deployed to Iraq 12, now he had been home 10 months and is back to Iraq for another year....
It is a scary and life altering political scenario We find Ourselves in.
We find Ourselves questioning everything We ever thought We knew, and were. Wandering if anything is worth what We are going through...what Our friends have lost.
There are things about my life I would not wish on my worst enemy...Fear being ones constant companion for one...the loneliness for another. But there are other things about Our life, you can not put a price on...trials being clarity...and We certainly know what We mean to each other, what Our friends mean to Us...having went to too many funerals and cradled too many friends in my arms....
There isn't any way to articulate what this experience is to people...but no it is not all horrible...sometimes the greatest gifts are wrapped in dirty evil things...diamonds in the coal.

sabrina King

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RE: real life posts? - 11/26/2005 12:35:10 PM   
thetammyjo


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

It's the zone of injury!

:)Francine


Oh, my goddess yes.

If it were the day before my period or during my period I'd tell myself "no big physical projects, have the boy do it" but we needed all three of us for this old, laid down couch. Nasty golden color from the late 60s or early 70s. Which was great when we had nothing but we got a real couch last year for Christmas.

And then cause Fox, my slave, hurt his wrist too doing this but still was lugging the decoration boxes around for me and stuff I feel a bit guilty. One of the few limits we have is that I'm not supposed to harm him intentionally -- which I didn't but still, poor wrist!

Ah, I ordered us pizzas and one of them has his favorite toppings that should help or at least make him so hyper on fat and food that he forgets the pain for a while.


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RE: real life posts? - 11/26/2005 1:16:33 PM   
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Shouldn't you ID yourself as you've come to be known on the boards when you create yet another new ID?? Maybe keep the same signature or add note to bottom of your posts?
Folks, the reason veronicaofML thinks that none of the posts here are about real life, is because his real life was very different from most people here, therefore he cannot identify/sympathize, and in fact goes on to make assertions about the general population based on his [usually narrow] perspective.
Dude, how many times does Akasha need to spank you online for you to learn???
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AAkasha Your version of "real life" happens to be unlike most relationships, and you seem to complain when other people point out the trials and tribulations of this 'real life' which include things like:

** Passion
** Sex
** Romance
** Emotional Intimacy
** Affection
** Joy
** Sorrow

You point out that you know nothing of these things because your relationship is all about service, only service, and that's that. And you apparently get frustrated that other people *do* have a vested interest in relationships that contain things like sex and sincere affection, cuddling, love, joy and arousal.

Just because you have a lustless, sexless, affectionless relationship based entirely on service does not mean everyone else does not have a legitimate relationship or power exchange. In fact, for many people, these are critical components and without them the relationship would be soulless

To me, the vast majority of the time, you sound anything but happy. So I don't understand why you keep trying to impress us that you are, and yours is what real life should represent. I wish you well, M

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