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Sparkster -> RE: Standing on Faces (1/11/2009 2:54:08 AM)
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As Trampledblue stated, I'm also very surprised at how many people have commented on this who don't *seem* to have any experience or knowledge with the activity. Those who have experience or have done this have stated all the normal safety precautions to take and how to build up to it or work up to doing this full weight.
Is there risk? Yes. But there is risk of some type in most everything we do in BDSM. It's a matter of the risks being minimized by knowledge/information, and doing things the proper way. Asking about it here is one way of gaining information or other people's views. But there is also a fair amount of information available on the activity on the web. A standard yahoo or google search for "BDSM Trampling" will result in almost 2 million hits. Which means there are a lot of web sites and pages out there regarding the activity and at least *some* of them should contain some useful information.
Personally, I enjoy the activity of trampling and I have done so with more than a few female slaves (including full weight face standing) and many of them enjoyed the activity and the after effects they felt in the days that followed (much like how a sub/slave enjoys the feeling their ass has a day or two later after a good solid flogging/caning). Granted, it's not for everyone. Like everything in BDSM, it's all about what interests you personally.
The key to face standing as many have stated is proper positioning of the feet and avoiding certain things such as the eyes themself (although the areas around the eyes (brow and cheek bones) are a lot more sturdy than many think. As long as you are not stomping or jumping while wearing solid souled shoes/heels, he will be fine. At 155 pounds, most anyone *can* support that much weight evenly distributed across their face. (Whether they want to experience that is a different matter). But as many have said. Work up to it. As well, as they have said, his chest and belly are open areas for standing or having a more solid surface to gain balance from. Avoid the elbow and knee joints. The thighs are usually safe, but avoid the lower legs and wrists. (Although some enjoy having their hands stepped on).
It's actually a fairly common fetish/activity, but it simply isn't viewed as such by many. What is even more strange is how some people take a negative view of the activity being done by a male Dominant with a female sub/slave, but it's fine for a female Dominant and male sub/slave. Perhaps because of the stereotype of men being "stronger" and better able to handle it. And yet, medical science has proven that woman can actually handle/process pain better than men. And physically, the bone structure and density of a female is not that dissimilar from a males.
What I find strange is that it's ok to beat a female sub/slave's butt black and blue with a wooden paddle (which I have seen more than a few times at fetish events and private events and such), but leave a shoe print on her breast and some people just lose their freakin minds and try to tell you that it's abuse. I tend to look at their sub/slaves ass and wonder how they would respond if I told them they were abusing their sub/slave? (Not that I think they are doing so, but simply to turn the view around on them).
But I'm getting off topic here. To sum it up. As one said, use chairs or have him lay beside a dresser so you can use it for balance or holding up some of your weight until you become comfortable with your full weight being on him. Take things slowly and build up. Actually, here's a link from a site that deals with BBW and SSBBW Dominants trampling subs and slaves (yes, including face standing).
http://queenadrena.com/safetytips-about-trampling.htm
Most of all. HAVE FUN with it. I'm going to bet that he will enjoy it and you will as well once you become comfortable with it and discover that it can be done without harm as long as you do it right and keep common sense in the forefront of your thoughts.
Regards,
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