LuckyAlbatross
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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet All parties in the relationship are more honest, trusting, and respectfull when you have discipline as a structure. No they aren't. Don't you read all the posts about dishonesty, disrespect and other issues? The same issues that comes up in vanilla relationships also come up in bdsm relationship. quote:
Everyone learns there limits, conquers there fears, and builds a more trusting relationship with here partner/partners than what can be expected in most other couples. Not true. Again, if you are oriented to Ds/bdsm, then yes, this relationship will obviously be much better for you. But if you are NOT oriented to bdsm/Ds, then NO, this relationship won't be better for you at all. And bdsm relationships have as much crap/insecurities/miscommunication/cheating/etc etc etc as any other type of relationship. A strong relationship is a strong relationship, no matter what the orientation is. That being said- my relationships are all going very solidly right now. Last weekend my local partner treated me to Mexican for lunch, Coldstone creamery for dessert, Harry Potter, chinese for dinner and amazing orgasms and sex for bed. Weekend after this I am going to see my boyfriend for a bondage convention in Austin. In mid-January I am going to see my Boston partner for a weekend science fiction convention/poly/kink party. We're all very connected and supportive of eachother and very stable.
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