Naira
Posts: 15
Joined: 8/5/2008 Status: offline
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Heh...I am a switch, but I changed my profile to "dominant" when I came into a relationship where I was to be the dominant. If I found myself in a relationship where I was the sub, it would so change on my profile. Like TXRanch mentioned, identity (especially for other people) depenends a lot on what they see. I act dominant now, thus I must be a domme. It's the same with my sexuality...I can't be in a straight relationship and be bisexual, I MUST be straight as well. I think this is utter bullcrap. I am bisexual and a switch, no matter what the make up of my current relationship(s) is/are. BUT given that most people want to box everyone else into neat little categories, I have little problem just going from one neat little category to another as it suits me. If this pisses off people who want me to pick a box and stick with it, I don't care. The other thing is that when I had myself marked as a switch, I got lewdly worded messages from both subs and doms. I found this to be really annoying. I was thinking that by picking dom, I could cut the number of idiotic messages in half. Well, that didn't work either. Now, I just don't answer the messages that are one line or include any amount of idiocy.
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