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Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 9:59:17 AM

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One issue that frequently comes up in our chastity play is that of chafing while wearing the CB-6000. I cherish chastity play and my submissive tolerates it, but one thing we cannot get around is that dang chafing. It doesn't matter how much lube we use, it seems that the chafing begins after only a couple of days and at 5 days he is useless to me. There's no fun in that.

Sure, we've tried other methods of chastity and they are nice temporary fixes, but my preference is to keep him in a device.

Suggestions anyone?

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 10:02:50 AM

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One issue that frequently comes up in our chastity play is that of chafing while wearing the CB-6000. I cherish chastity play and my submissive tolerates it, but one thing we cannot get around is that dang chafing. It doesn't matter how much lube we use, it seems that the chafing begins after only a couple of days and at 5 days he is useless to me. There's no fun in that.

Sure, we've tried other methods of chastity and they are nice temporary fixes, but my preference is to keep him in a device.

Suggestions anyone?

M is for Mistress

An absorbent liner of some sort that can be washed. Anything non absorbent will make the skin damp-and damp skin is prone to shedding when rubbed. Which is why I consider long distance chastity to be a horrible idea. The owner should be there to wield the key in the interests of maintanence. Or forget about it.

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 10:22:15 AM

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Thank you, Leatherist.

Here's the thing: if I use an absorbent liner, wouldn't that promote bacteria? Since air cannot easily get to the liner, wouldn't the moisture accumulate and turn into an ideal breeding ground for bacteria especially considering there is body heat also involved?

I am not into the "long term chastity." My sub has a very high sex drive and anything over his limits causes him to shut down which is exactly what I don't want. I'm looking at 5 - 7 day limits with him but by that time we run against the chafing issue and hence the catch 22.

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 10:36:47 AM

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You would need a number of them, and change them on a regular basis.

Would you wear the same underwear for a week without changing them?

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 11:59:00 AM

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Of course not. But the whole idea of the chastity device is to leave it on, not take it off daily.

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 12:06:38 PM

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Of course not. But the whole idea of the chastity device is to leave it on, not take it off daily.

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Then you are going to have to find a better device-or deal with him being rubbed raw.

Just because you want a thing a certain way-does not always mean it is possible.

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 12:59:03 PM

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MisforMistress,
I don't wear a chastity device but upon numerous requests from customers have started making them.
So far I have received nothing but praise and the lack of skin irritation was high on the list.
They are expensive and maybe not what you are looking for but an alternative does exist.

In fact we are shipping A Max Security model right now and that is why I'm on the computer.
http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/nt080122.htm
http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/nt080713.htm

Here is a testimonial from another satisfied customer:

I received the chastity device today and I must say it's exactly what I wanted. I have
not been pierced yet but that will happen soon, so for now I am wearing it to see how
my body adapts to it and so far I cannot tell it is on most of the time. It does not bind
or pinch like the plastic device I am used to, so its 100% better. I want to thank you
again for being so prompt and being such a skilled craftsman, thanks to the 10th power.

After almost 4 days of continuous day and night wear through workouts and daily routines,
there are absolutely no signs of the soreness and open wounds I experienced after several
days' wear in my previous chastity piece. The Maiden is working well for me (and doing her
job several times a day). My lady enjoys seeing me locked up and teasing me so she can see
the IM work. She wants to see how I will deal with the spikes and keeps pushing me to get
the spiked ring. I keep putting her off, but I think it will be a condition of release.

After two weeks of wearing the maiden 24/7, I thought I’d drop a quick note to say we are
still totally satisfied. There have been no issues whatsoever, and the purpose has been well
served. The release times have been awesome! The longest I have worn the spiked ring
so far is about 12 hours, but the length of the spikes hasn't been an issue. It has worked well
worn behind the maiden. I thought I'd let you know in case others consider the option.

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 1:19:27 PM

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The bar skeleton frame devices always seem to work better than the mass produced plastic ones. Just because thery can pump out a bunch of cheap molded plastic devices, does not make them better.

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 5:16:53 PM

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Lube is not the answer it just make the device move more when greasy but then later it leaves residue that is not good. Pure Talc is a bit better if washed and air dried. Which another good point is your sub keep a hair drier handy and on low (very low) heat setting wash and dry daily.
Last no boxers, they allow to much movement in daily routines. Try a jock strap or boxer-briefs.

last some chaffing will occur deal with it after bit some chastity callous area will occur, the mark of a control man (or women)

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 5:19:03 PM

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You make it sound like a bad pair of shoes.

"Deal with it"?

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 5:55:56 PM

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"Bad pair of shoes" hahaha Actually that is sad but true.What happened to pride in workmanship? I can't remember the last thing I bought that I could use as bought. Maybe it's the inventor or customizer in me but I think everything is just short of being usable. And it's not only in the products we buy it's also in the service. I never ever go to a fast food place. My wife takes the grandkids because that is what they want. Well she never comes home with all the items in the bag. I tell her to open the bag and check.... she says well the people behind her honk when she does that. Are we in such a hurry that we give up quality for speed? I hate to wait also, so don't expect my customers to either... even if it means that I have to work late to get a job out as promised. I remember when this was the norm, now we "buy shoes and deal with it" if they don't fit. What the hell happened to making a quality product? Sorry for my little rant but it actually is on topic if you think about it.

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 6:10:05 PM

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It IS an issue,and one that I am working on addressing-at least in bondage gear in leather. There is no reason that you have to overcharge-and still provide a really nice product.

It just has to be designed and put together efficiently.

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 6:18:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: MisforMistress

One issue that frequently comes up in our chastity play is that of chafing while wearing the CB-6000. I cherish chastity play and my submissive tolerates it, but one thing we cannot get around is that dang chafing. It doesn't matter how much lube we use, it seems that the chafing begins after only a couple of days and at 5 days he is useless to me. There's no fun in that.

Sure, we've tried other methods of chastity and they are nice temporary fixes, but my preference is to keep him in a device.

Suggestions anyone?

M is for Mistress

For what it's worth...the "fix" might depend on where the chafing is taking place. I'm assuming it is around the "A" ring somewhere. You might have to go to either a larger "A" ring to reduce friction, or to a smaller one to decrease slippage. I've heard that being shaved in the area sometimes makes a difference, so you may need to do the opposite of whichever option you are using right now. Dryness seems to be pretty much essential, so the use of a hair dryer in the area after showering or at times when sweat is present might be necessary, at least for a while. It seems that after time a sort of callouse will eventually form if you can keep the chaffing to a minimum until that occures.

Some or all of this may have already been mentioned, so sorry for any repeats.

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 6:18:47 PM

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For chaffing prevention, the iron maiden will be a good product, because the Slave wearer can keep himself washed and dry, as the cage lets the apendage breathe and air can get to it. Slave can also dry himself 100% using low heat of a hair dryer, ideal. The chaffing caused by an adult CD, is that what babies suffer from , left in wet diapers, set off by urine scalding.

Wives who enforce 24/7 on their partners, or Mistress's in 24/7 relationships, can avoid chaffing by putting their Slaves into restraint, removing the Slaves device, washing and drying the apendage , plenty of talc and maybe leave the device off at night, whilst Slaves in restraint, engage device , next morning, securely locked, and release from restraint, quite a simple remedy.

Plastic CD are renown for causing chaffing if device is 24/7 ,even if worn a couple of days.

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 8:04:29 PM

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one thing we cannot get around is that dang chafing.

Actually, I think your problem is "dong chafing," not "dang chafing."

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/21/2008 11:22:08 PM

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i have never chaffed and i have worn my cb3000 for 2 weeks straight. daily cleaning and getting lube on the inside and it was easily done

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 8/28/2008 5:53:56 AM

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I have also worn a cb6000 two weeks and had no chafing with good hygene and cleaning in shower with forced water with my shower shot into the device to clean wel inside. this avoids the removal at all. a litlle lotion around base after dries completes the daily cleaning. Jim

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 3/4/2009 3:23:17 PM

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Have you thought about upgrading him at his own expense of course to something more restrictive like a belt style device as they may be expensive but they look exquisite and cannot be manipulated.
The other options I am thinking about for you would be the item from the Stockroom which is chrome as it has nice rounded edges so will grind against his gonad sack although some slave on here offered me key holding 'privileges' for his minibirdlock, which looks like it could be small enough not to move around and watching hub boi push his nads through that small opening could be so much fun I might make sure I have an audience to witness it but it may put a real man off seeing all that squeezing and prying and I dont see why I should miss out just because he has to.
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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 3/9/2009 12:20:41 PM

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The Cb devises chaffe. If you want ur slave to wear a long-term devise I suggest you have one made.There are many different sites that custom make them but you must follow the instruction on measuring to a tee. If you have a problem finding a site,let me know and I will reccomend one to you.The devises start a $500.00 and u and ur bitch will be very pleased.

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RE: Chafing in a male chastity device - 3/10/2009 4:06:28 PM

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I am in a CB6000 24/7 and maybe can offer some useful suggestions. When I first started wearing the CB, I too had horrible problems with chaffing and dry cracked skin. Its one thing to be in chastity because Domina demands it. It is another thing to be chaste because the skin is all broken and sore. As you point out, where is the fun if your boy is useless to you when you need him.

First thing: get a good fit, which means a tight fit. A loose fit will only move about and irritate the skin. Best is to send your boy home for a week with the key. Have him start by getting the ring size right. Start with a large ring and get used to it. Then keep changing to the next smaller ring. Try it for a day. Now is here is why he should have the key during the fitting phase. He wants to keep decreasing the size of the ring until the discomfort around his balls keeps him awake at night and driving is a problem. The next larger size is ring to go with.

Now work on deceasing the center pin and spacer. Too small here will be when an attempted hard-on makes him feel the ring is going to pull his scrotum off. I am sure you will have fun helping him test how uncomfortable getting excited makes him. I find for me, there is a trade off. Having the fit tight enough that I can go about my day without the CB getting in the way means getting excited from being teased will be somewhat uncomfortable. Swollen and pushing against the plastic uncomfortable, not ugly skin turning angry shades of purple uncomfortable. But that is part of the point of having a Mistress keeping a boy in chastity, to make too much excitation a discomfort.

A note on ring size: don't be too surprised if after a week or so, what was the right size ring becomes too large. The ball sack will strength.

As far as lube goes, I use A+D Ointment, as the vitamin D helps keep the skin healthy and the lanolin protects the skin from drying out. Just before putting the cage on, I cover my penis with it and I am good to go for at least 5 to 6 days of constant wear. I also find after showering, running a small dab around the inside of the ring helps, particularly for then the whole CB has just enough lube to move and adjust through the day. And briefs, not boxers. The support is important.

Final thought is: take the time to get a good fit. You'll be glad you did. Your boy, maybe not so much.

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