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CalifChick -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/27/2008 4:20:09 PM)
You're probably not getting a lot of responses because your title says "how do you react to a spanking" but your message says "how do you react to punishment". So what is your question: 1. How do you react to a spanking? 2. How do you react to punishment? 3. If spanking is used as punishment, how do you react to that? 4. If spanking is used as both pleasure and punishment, how do you react to that? Or something else? At this point, spanking is a pleasure and it takes me right to the edge of orgasm and holds me there for an UNBEARABLY long time. At least in my world. Cali (in this case, "unbearably" means anything longer than a heartbeat)

shiazn03 -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/27/2008 5:25:23 PM)
no, i don't enjoy punishments. but i mean, real punishment for when i did or did not do thing i was or wasn't supposed to do. but i mean "punishment" like the role playing kind, i love it! [:D]

simplyone -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/29/2008 2:08:03 AM)
Spanking is not used as punishment for me.

cravesdom -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/29/2008 5:09:01 AM)
I don't think I have ever had a spanking used as a punishment. If so it would not have worked. I love spankings, whether they are with a bare hand or a belt, crop, flogger, paddle, etc. The worst part for me about a punishment is in the disappointment. But because I hate to disappoint, that has so rarely ever been a factor in any of my past relationships.

Aileen1968 -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/29/2008 5:53:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Coreyx I find I mostly squirm and cry but maybe that’s just me. Are there any Sub/Slaves who actually enjoy being punished? Mwah xx Spanking is enjoyable to me so it wouldn't be a punishment. I get wiggley if spanked.

subspacegal -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/29/2008 8:38:23 AM)
I apologise profusely for my mistakes when i am being spanked. I can't help but feel that i deserve the punishment for my misdoings.

HardcoreSlave4U -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/29/2008 9:19:07 AM)
I thank my Mistress graciously and make sure I stay as still as possible. Squirm too much and you'll get whacked in the wrong spot potentially injuring yourself (ie too high on the pelvis). Too much squirming may cause her to stop and I don't want that. I make sure I keep count for her unless otherwise told to ensure a steady rhythm. Besides if I am counting I am not going, "Ow!" because ow is not a safeword. I enjoy the pain of a spanking. However a spanking is not used as a punishment for myself as it is a reward. A true punishment I do not enjoy and that is solely because to be punished I must have done something wrong (or failed to do something) and I do not like to disappoint.

aravain -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/29/2008 9:47:04 AM)
Hmmm... I think I have a different outlook on punishment than everyone else does... that's ok :) I'm used to it. For me 'punishment' happens only when I've attempted to take control from my dominant. That is the point that I would be 'punished' and 'put in my place' as it were. However... I enjoy it. For me it's the rush of having control taken away from me that I enjoy, it might not be the actual punishment. One time when I did something 'wrong' with my ex he stopped me... and my punishment was that I wasn't allowed to touch him until he said so. It was grueling... it was hard... but a part of me still enjoyed it. I don't really understand why people would endure a punishment that at least part of them didn't 'enjoy' though, of course, I'm using the term enjoy rather loosely. You have to think it's right, I think, at least part of you, that you're being punished, otherwise it's no longer something that I'd be willing to undergo. As it comes to spanking, however... well, that probably would be an effective punishment. I wouldn't know for sure as I've only experienced it as a playful slap, usually while fully clothed and doing something that made my ex happy.

sistermargaret -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/29/2008 10:08:03 AM)
i've never been spanked as punishment. When i'm spanked i wiggle & moan, or twist & shout, giggle or cry. The spanking is never the same way twice. We are both in a differnt mood or place or environment each time, so each one has it's own special style and response. Always yummy, tho :) sm

favesclava -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/29/2008 12:35:59 PM)
only good girls get spankings from Master. mostly i wince and shut my eyes really tight and try not to cry too badly.i love the warm feeling afterwards. trying to sit comfortably makes both of us grin. the worst punishment to us would be being ignored. i had a switch used on me as punishment . looking back its quite erotic, but at the time and little after i was just scared to death.

dawntreader -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/29/2008 3:00:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick Cali (in this case, "unbearably" means anything longer than a heartbeat) i love this![:D] To the OP: i try to avoid punishment at all costs but occaisionally it seems i fail. i loathe corner time and punishment spankings however my body betrays my mind and i am usually soaking so for me punishment ends up being a personal mind fuck...i don't know how else to describe it~ As to play or sexual spankings...can't say i seek them out. i prefer to be bound and stroked to being spanked[;)]

MRandme -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/29/2008 4:55:42 PM)
i rarely get spanked for a punishment. When i do, i have to try not to jerk away. There's no fun in it at all. When i am spanked for His pleasure, it is easier... i still sometimes have to try not to jerk away (if it is especially hard or on a spot He has already 'tenderized') but it is easier to absorb the pain. i'm not really masochistic, though the spankings don't bother me the way they used to. i prefer thuddy over stings and He is the opposite. If i am getting a thuddy spanking or flogging, i know i am being rewarded. smile All in all, i think i prefer a spanking as a punishment over something like corner time. It is over fairly quickly and only hurts for a few minutes, really. The marks may last a week, but they are a good reminder. i may get tears in my eyes, but rarely cry from it.

Daddyssweetpea -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/29/2008 6:48:27 PM)
Daddy makes me count, and if I lose track, we start over. So I react to a spanking by paying careful attention! But I like it. I wriggle a lot, and Daddy tells me "be still." I love to obey his commands, so that thrills me. Spankings are not punishment, but they are discipline. What I want most is to be a good and obedient girl, and spankings are a way I can be that. They absolve and free me. Plus they make me fly into the stratosphere. Daddy punishes me by making me bring myself to the edge of orgasm and then denying me. I HATE that (but I kind of love it, too).

Gwynsbitchboi -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/29/2008 10:00:52 PM)
spanking can be fun, it can also be a punishment. my domme has had her fun with a few playful swats, then again, she's also spanked me so hard i cried and peed my pants (not on her lap, of course) :)

flower759 -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/31/2008 8:52:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: peppermint In our household spankings are pleasure. Punishment is taking my books away so i can't read. Punishment is NOT supposed to be enjoyed. That would KILL me. I'd be so lost without my books! And I tend to whimper and pull away. I like pain, so it's both pleasure and punishment.

LittleWench -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (8/31/2008 11:34:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: aravain Hmmm... I think I have a different outlook on punishment than everyone else does... that's ok :) I'm used to it. It was grueling... it was hard... but a part of me still enjoyed it. I don't really understand why people would endure a punishment that at least part of them didn't 'enjoy' though, of course, I'm using the term enjoy rather loosely. You have to think it's right, I think, at least part of you, that you're being punished, otherwise it's no longer something that I'd be willing to undergo. Aravain I think you might be the only sub on the entire planet who thinks like I do! In some way or other I would enjoy any form of punishment (with the exception of being released), I mean isn't that the very definition of masochist? mas·och·ism gratification gained from pain, deprivation, degradation, etc., inflicted or imposed on oneself, either as a result of one's own actions or the actions of others, esp. the tendency to seek this form of gratification It doesn't matter what the punishment is, if I did something to deserve being punished, aren't I simply getting what I asked for? And if I get a "punishment" out of the blue for no apparent reason, simply because he wants to, then that's enjoyable too. :)

aravain -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (9/1/2008 12:45:12 AM)
eeeeexactly :)

rc4otkVA -> RE: How do you react to a spanking? 0.o (9/1/2008 3:14:55 AM)
I am a switch who loves both sides of spanking. Getting a good spanking can make me kick, squirm, cry, and cum. Depending on the type of spanking, it can be a good punishment or reward for me. I gave spanked a guy over the weekend until his ass was bright red, and starting to bruise. He kicked and begged the whole time trying to get me to stop, but later he said he loved it.

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