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AnkleLocks -> Question (8/27/2008 1:02:18 AM)

I'm new here & I hope that it is ok for me to ask a question here?!  My question is: Does anyone know of a "device", "way", "soft but reliable clamp" or ?? to hold back the skin/flesh above my clit, (pubic mound)??  I ALWAYS NEED to pull back on that area really super hard, to expose my clit completely. The feeling is what I need to be able to orgasm. And of coarse, that area is always slippery and wet and so it causes me problems! I want/need to find "something" to hold that flesh back w/o it slipping out!! Any and all advice is greatly appreciated!  Thanx.




gobsmack -> RE: Question (8/27/2008 2:57:40 AM)

Duck tape? It works for everything else [:D]




OneMoreWaste -> RE: Question (8/27/2008 5:52:13 AM)

There are spring clips with thick rubber tips that are designed to hold up drop ceiling grids. Your best bet would be to go to a large hardware store and ask for them. They have a pretty good grip even when wet, and they're less painful than non-cushioned wood or metal clamps. 




chiaThePet -> RE: Question (8/27/2008 6:08:26 AM)

 
I'm available after five o'clock.

chia* (the pet)




HandSolo -> RE: Question (8/27/2008 6:22:58 AM)

Jay Wiseman's book described how to do this with a crotch tie.

Basically, double over a six foot length of rope, so the loose ends meet, and the rope is bent at the center. Tie the looped end in an overhand knot, creating an end loop a few inches long. Hold the end of the loop at the top of your vulva, and pass the ends through your legs.Catch each loose end, and wrap it around your waist/thigh, and then pass each end through the end loop. Pull each loose end back in the direction it came from, passing the rope back over itself, and tie the ends together when you run out of rope. Normally, this will just frame the vulva in rope. However, when you are passing the loose ends through the loop, pull everything snug before pulling the ends back around your waist. The rope should settle into your labia, and then, when you pull the ends tight behind your back, the loop will spread you open as you tighten the harness up. Expirement with the position of the end loop, and feel free to add extra overhand knots to shape the harness, or add stimulation.

It can be done alone, but it would be a lot easier with a second person. In that case, you would hold the top of the loop in place until the tie was complete.




corysub -> RE: Question (8/27/2008 6:43:44 AM)

Hmmm.....since I don't have that problem i'm looking for an answer from a different perspective.  would going to
a "mohel" solve the problem?  I'm not Jewish but mohels have sucessfully removed unwanted skin from billions of guys...mostly when they had no choice in the matter,however.  Not sure they would do it for a female but a doctor
probably could do the job.  Maybe start a new trend?  !!  The link below describes what they do..

                                                              http://www.britpro.com/
Just a thought....

Sorry...bad joke on a serious question...[&:]






thishereboi -> RE: Question (8/27/2008 9:30:05 AM)

Get it pierced, then you can just grab the ring.




thishereboi -> RE: Question (8/27/2008 9:32:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: corysub

Hmmm.....since I don't have that problem i'm looking for an answer from a different perspective.  would going to
a "mohel" solve the problem?  I'm not Jewish but mohels have sucessfully removed unwanted skin from billions of guys...mostly when they had no choice in the matter,however.  Not sure they would do it for a female but a doctor
probably could do the job.  Maybe start a new trend?  !!  The link below describes what they do..

                                                             http://www.britpro.com/
Just a thought....

Sorry...bad joke on a serious question...[&:]





Oh thank the goddess you said that was a joke....I don't think I could have gotten my legs closed any tighter than they already were.




pixelslave -> RE: Question (8/27/2008 10:06:53 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AnkleLocks

I'm new here & I hope that it is ok for me to ask a question here?!  My question is: Does anyone know of a "device", "way", "soft but reliable clamp" or ?? to hold back the skin/flesh above my clit, (pubic mound)??  I ALWAYS NEED to pull back on that area really super hard, to expose my clit completely. The feeling is what I need to be able to orgasm. And of coarse, that area is always slippery and wet and so it causes me problems! I want/need to find "something" to hold that flesh back w/o it slipping out!! Any and all advice is greatly appreciated!  Thanx.


Have you tried using an adjustable tension set of nipple clamps?  I'd avoid the ones with the screws for the purpose you describe and go with the tweezer style ones which have the sliding tension loops that slide along the length of the bars around them such as Spartacus makes as shown here.  Most are held together by a chain, but I'd think using just one of them might do exactly what you want.  It would at least seem to be worth a try and if the flesh weren't pulled far enough back at the moment you wanted it, you could always use the chain to pull it further. [&:]
 
I noticed that while getting the above link for you that they also make single clamps for clits.  From the above link, you'll be able to locate them as well. [:D]
 
 - pixel
 




HandSolo -> RE: Question (8/27/2008 11:17:57 AM)

That reminds me too: they sell "clit clips," a sort of oversized bobby pin that looks like it would gather up the flesh in question pretty effectively.




Hime -> RE: Question (8/27/2008 12:00:44 PM)

http://www.steelwerksextreme.com/02_extreme/0281_female.htm

~xoxo




chamberqueen -> RE: Question (8/27/2008 5:35:56 PM)

Possibly a pinched clothes pin.  Positioned correctly it could give you exactly what you need.




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