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KatyLied -> RE: Size Matters? (9/7/2008 9:44:03 AM)
I had a small guy and he was far and away one of the best lovers I've ever had. What he lacked in size he made up for in talent in other areas, mainly domination and tongue-action. [;)]

simpleplan2 -> RE: Size Matters? (9/7/2008 12:33:10 PM)
Well, I've been instructed to tell you ladies that I know the dom with the perfect cock. And I WILL testify to that, if need be [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m16.gif[/image]

MadameMarque -> RE: Size Matters? (9/7/2008 2:08:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cankles quote: ORIGINAL: MadameMarque Girth helps stimulate the G-spot, and length can allow deep enough penetration to contact the cervix. Something larger moving in and out is also more likely to cause incidental clitoral stimulation. These are all very real, objective reasons that size makes a difference. Wait... is feelin up on the cervix a good thing? I thought it was uncomfortable/painful. One of my exes hated to do doggie because she said she felt me hitting her cervix. ah. Most women are hurt by having it hit too hard. Women do vary in how tender they are, there, but ramming it like you're trying to get through to the other side (!) is too much for most women and can be bruising. Stimulating the cervix, by bumping, jarring, or "massaging" (grinding with penetration), during penetration, is pleasurable for a lot of women, but it's a subtle sensation, unless it's too hard; the sensation transfers to the general area. You may have to adjust position, speed, motion, whatever.

SubJordanTyler -> RE: Size Matters? (9/7/2008 3:45:49 PM)
I have to admit I do like them bigger - at least 8-10 inches. I suppose that has a lot to do with how much I've taken in my ass over the years, so it's a little more open than way back when I started. So I tend to need something a little larger to really feel it pounding inside me - which is what I love. It doesn't get any better than being taken from behind and just feeling that thing tearing into me as hard as possible. Need a big one for that!!

VivaciousSub -> RE: Size Matters? (9/7/2008 7:06:38 PM)
Size does matter for me. I prefer larger men (6.5 in or more) but the larger they are, the better they have to be at foreplay. I'm not a big girl - my lovers have described me as virginally tight, though I am far from a virgin - and I need to be able to at least hobble the next day. That said, there's much to be said for finger/tongue skills but above all, being able to turn me on mentally. If you can do that, I don't care WHAT you're packing or not, you have my undivided attention.

MISTRESSKUMA -> RE: Size Matters? (9/7/2008 7:44:52 PM)
::yawn:: Boring. It is all about penetration, babycakes. Real men, (superior breeders) have nice long cocks. Period.

OneDom69 -> RE: Size Matters? (9/7/2008 7:46:41 PM)
is all about technique with any size cock.....but i agree also with VS..mental, emotional connection is priority to me as well....penetration is grand...it is with a large cock...i would know..lol.......but its also about so much more then just size

christine1 -> RE: Size Matters? (9/7/2008 7:56:32 PM)
geesh, superior breeders? are we talking men or livestock here? [8\|]

OneDom69 -> RE: Size Matters? (9/7/2008 7:59:42 PM)
Lol..i just had to chime in with my 2 cents...not that it goes noticed or anything......[8D]

christine1 -> RE: Size Matters? (9/7/2008 8:20:35 PM)
oneDom, i wasn't replying to you, the person above you. i thought your comments were great, pretty brave of you to post here i say, so kudos!

OneDom69 -> RE: Size Matters? (9/7/2008 8:50:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: christine1 oneDom, i wasn't replying to you, the person above you. i thought your comments were great, pretty brave of you to post here i say, so kudos! I realized u werent AFTER i posted..I saw it and wanted to add to it..... speak up for myself .......just being me...[:D]

DomDolf -> RE: Size Matters? (9/7/2008 9:22:55 PM)
Not sure anyone will give a rat's tail what I think about this, but I thought it might be an interesting perspective. If I had a choice in my size I would be a little above average, maybe 7 1/2 to 8 in length and as thick as a small ladies wrist- about 6" circumference. I am a large man in both directions and have had great success and great failure in regard to size. I have hurt some and others take it like a hero. I am talented and courteous with my size, but sometimes it doesn't matter how good you are it just isn't going to be comfortable. keep in mind, being courteous may not mean gentle. That depends on the receiver's capabilities and preferences. Also, somewhat over-rated is stamina. I tend to go a very long time, sometimes because of discomfort that no amount of lubrication can fix. Anyone saying they can go for hours as if it were a great thing obviously doesn't do it often enough to find all the problems with doing that. This is not a whine just perspective. And for those that will think it or bring it up. I'd rather be over sized than under. Something very important to me is the fact that I cannot enjoy sex with someone that I do not have a complete connection with... mind, body and spirit. And I appreciate that this was brought up earlier. Dolf

CalifChick -> RE: Size Matters? (9/7/2008 10:44:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DomDolf Also, somewhat over-rated is stamina. I tend to go a very long time, sometimes because of discomfort that no amount of lubrication can fix. Anyone saying they can *go for hours as if it were a great thing* obviously doesn't do it often enough to find all the problems with doing that. Amen mister. Anyone who tells me they can "go all night long" gets a swift "see ya!". I do NOT find it a good thing. Cali

Dnomyar -> RE: Size Matters? (9/8/2008 9:18:04 AM)
Cali can you do several quickies. You can let me nap an hour between each one. simpleplan2 I thought we were going to keep that between us.

beargonewild -> RE: Size Matters? (9/8/2008 9:22:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: christine1 geesh, superior breeders? are we talking men or livestock here? [8\|] As you can see christine, for some is strictly about the cock completely negating the fact that it's a person attached to that cock! Guess men should go back to thinking of women solely for the tits and pussy and forgetting there's a thinking person attached! grins gotta lub human nature! Just sayin yanno.

VivaciousSub -> RE: Size Matters? (9/8/2008 10:50:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: christine1 geesh, superior breeders? are we talking men or livestock here? [8\|] As long as his boys can swim, he's a breeder. P.S. MOOOOOOOOOOOO

MadameMarque -> RE: Size Matters? (9/8/2008 6:08:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: beargonewild quote: ORIGINAL: christine1 geesh, superior breeders? are we talking men or livestock here? [8\|] As you can see christine, for some is strictly about the cock completely negating the fact that it's a person attached to that cock! Guess men should go back to thinking of women solely for the tits and pussy and forgetting there's a thinking person attached! grins gotta lub human nature! Just sayin yanno. (Bolding added - MM) "...go back to..."?? Nobody woke me, when that evolution occurred. "The revolution will not be televised." - Gil Scott-Heron

OneDom69 -> RE: Size Matters? (9/8/2008 6:22:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VivaciousSub quote: ORIGINAL: christine1 geesh, superior breeders? are we talking men or livestock here? [8\|] As long as his boys can swim, he's a breeder. P.S. MOOOOOOOOOOOO um...well my boys can swim, but i had my vasectomy, so im NOT a breeder any longer....been there done that.......[:D]

MissIsis -> RE: Size Matters? (9/8/2008 6:43:45 PM)
Too big is not good. It sucks when he is so big he can't get inside you without giving you excruciating pain. Give me a guy with an average size cock & I am there. It can fit anywhere.

VivaciousSub -> RE: Size Matters? (9/8/2008 8:31:47 PM)
I'll say. My former Master was 9 inches and thick as hell. There were some positions that were completely off-limits. I love anal play, but in this case, Tab D was not going to fit into Slot A. I was lucky in some cases to be able to walk for a week after. Don't get me wrong, I like soreness after - makes me feel loved - but I'd get so sore as to make it impossible for further play for a bit. /BZZZZZT FAIL

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