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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 7:24:52 PM

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(shrug) Funny how all this "size" crap fades into insignificance, once you get into vaginal fisting.

I quite agree!
*sighing over the thought*
I personally don't care about size, my ex-husband was big and the words "lousy lover" don't even come close to measuring the depths of his mediocrity.
A good lover is one who pays attention, who knows how to touch, who knows how to create magic with every part of the body.

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 7:32:00 PM

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Sexual intercourse, "insert penis into vagina, remove, repeat", is important to me, so a size zero wouldn't satisfy me. Now if I could get that satisfaction somewhere else, in addition to being with Mr. Zero, so be it.

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 7:34:07 PM

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Interesting thread! Personally while I prefer medium to large with a bigger girth, the most talented lover I ever knew was small but what He lacked in size He made up for in imagination and many many other skills. He had very big hands and taught me the joys of fisting and the supreme delights of someone who truly knew how to use their tongue. LOL..I think that's why we stayed together so long.... I couldnt bear to give up the benefits!

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 7:36:39 PM

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Sexual intercourse, "insert penis into vagina, remove, repeat", is important to me, so a size zero wouldn't satisfy me. Now if I could get that satisfaction somewhere else, in addition to being with Mr. Zero, so be it.

NowVeryShallowCali

Size zero would not be satisfying to me but neither would Mr penis the size of a an arm either. I am not large...maybe 3 fingers worth. Someone more average is more enjoyable to me. Someone who could turn me over and slam me without hours of prep. Plus one who is comfortable for anal without ripping me up. Thats what I like.

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 7:52:43 PM

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NK-U-Ic4qDo

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 8:18:33 PM

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Size does matter - it just isn't all that matters. My Master is sufficiently endowed to "bring the pain" which i find to be an important part of our D/s dynamic - as well as inspiring the aforementioned gagging when He feels the need to be a tad more brutal. Look, He's got a big dick and it's a huge (pun intended) part of who He is and what He is, and how He is a Dom to me. :)

i will also agree with some here and say that my experience with a very large man (11" and as thick as my wrist) does support the theory that those with more don't always rely on any other talents.

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 8:48:22 PM

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Size does matter in terms of the heart, and mind. If the two come together, the unit size doesnt matter at all. Plenty of ways to fill that void, endless possibilites.

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 8:49:32 PM

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NK-U-Ic4qDo

Thanks, lusciouslips...that was awesome. Yummy! That man knows how to lay it on a girl!! :::swoon:::

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/1/2008 5:02:21 AM

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NK-U-Ic4qDo

Thanks, lusciouslips...that was awesome. Yummy! That man knows how to lay it on a girl!! :::swoon:::

The point wasn't the man, but the song ." It aint the meat, it's the motion"

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/1/2008 5:40:55 AM

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Yes, size does matter. Men invented the saying “It is not the size of the cock; it is how you wiggle in the middle”. The men who made up this saying are the 2inch cock men committee. I wish men stop bragging on their cock. It you have a tiny cock let a woman in advance; it saves her time of wasting her time. Because I will defiantly laugh in the man’s face if he comes up short. To me the funniest thing is when you have your first encounter with you so to be dom and he has a small cock. I can remember one time, when I met this dom and been seeing him for a good while before we had our first encounter, well the shock was went you told me to come and get the general, and his cock was not bigger than 2inches. I laughed my ass off at him that is almost pissed on my self.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/1/2008 5:47:53 AM

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Yes, size does matter. Men invented the saying “It is not the size of the cock; it is how you wiggle in the middle”. The men who made up this saying are the 2inch cock men committee. I wish men stop bragging on their cock. It you have a tiny cock let a woman in advance; it saves her time of wasting her time. Because I will defiantly laugh in the man’s face if he comes up short. To me the funniest thing is when you have your first encounter with you so to be dom and he has a small cock. I can remember one time, when I met this dom and been seeing him for a good while before we had our first encounter, well the shock was went you told me to come and get the general, and his cock was not bigger than 2inches. I laughed my ass off at him that is almost pissed on my self.

I'm sorry, but you come off immature and shallow with this post. Are you fat? Short, tall have an affliction? any imperfections? Laughing at someone is not cool. It certainly is not the way a lady behaves. A confident person does not need to degrade others to feel better. Isnt it sad that you were getting to know someone for quite some time but didnt have the capacity to develop more beyond superficial in all that time that you could laugh at your so called friend?

Size matters to you, not everyone. Size of a brain and a heart matters to more of us here. Yours comes off as being about 2 inches....Ha ha ha. Look at you eeny weenie teeny parts!

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/1/2008 5:48:25 AM

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I get it that you don't like smaller cocks -- some don't. But why the intense hostility toward someone when he is vulnerable? Sounds like you felt duped and really socked it to the guy ... *grimacing*

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/1/2008 6:03:44 AM

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As for me, I do have a size preference, though I cannot for the life of me see rejecting someone I otherwise adore for something he has no control over. I'd like to look at 8" (woof!), fuck something normal size, and go down on 4". Heh!

I like men who are within a standard deviation of normal (which is 5 1/2 or 5 3/4). Too big and it hurts. Fuggedabout oral! Too small and I can't feel for a fuck. I had a partner who was about 4 inches and ... *sighing* ... there wasn't a lot of sensation. Complicating this fact was that he would not acknowledge that he was small and we couldn't talk about it.

If a man is smaller and well-adjusted, we can communicate about other ways to make sure that we are both getting pleasure. If he's giant, it's not a matter of being delicate with him, but more breaking down his big ego. Honestly, between the two, I'd rather have too small than too big. I agree with others that smaller men are more aware of skills. Also, intercourse is not my best way to orgasm. Someone who doesn't have a broad range of skills (and doesn't want to go down regularly) won't do it for me.

Thinking dreamily of cock,
Mss

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/1/2008 6:05:58 AM

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I've been reading the replies to this and am kind of amazed at some of the responses. I guess I've never had an encounter where size was an issue. I was with a guy who thought he had a small cock - about 5 inches or so. He apologized for his "small" size before we ever got going. My immediate thought was "oh great" (loaded with sarcasm). What that man could do was unbelieveable, because it wasn't all about his cock. He was more confident and skillful and knew all the other things to do and how to use to his mouth and tongue and fingers along with his cock, than a man that I was with years later that had a HUGE cock. Talk about a "cocky" man. I've been with smaller men and larger men. It ain't all about the size. It's about the man - not about the cock attached to the man.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/1/2008 6:12:25 AM

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Have you ever laughed out loud

I managed to hold it in until I got home before bursting into giggles---the thing was, he was a very nice size, but when he kept saying "have you ever seen such a big cock before?" I had to work very very hard to keep silent rather than say 'yep, lots bigger!'

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/1/2008 6:23:09 AM

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*laughing*

What if you had said, "Don't I have a great pussy? Who has the hottest cunt? Tell me how much you want to eat this pussy."

*rolling my eyes*

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/1/2008 6:48:42 AM

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It's the quality, not the quantity

Skill & talent before size

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/1/2008 8:03:20 AM

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If a man has a small cock "It should say warning I am a man with a small cock" instead of telling a woman that it is a monster when the cock is a size ex-ex-small. This way he is not wasting my time.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/1/2008 8:10:07 AM

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With all due respect, as a rather small woman, I wish men with monster cocks were required to say so, and not say things like, "Oh, I'm of average size." I've seen a few in my time, and no, Sir, average is NOT baby's arm holding an apple. Uh-uh.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/1/2008 8:19:37 AM

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If a man has a small cock "It should say warning I am a man with a small cock" instead of telling a woman that it is a monster when the cock is a size ex-ex-small. This way he is not wasting my time.

Maybe the problem is a cavernous pussy.

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